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Q: i'm starting to get some things ready for back to school. i'm gonna go clothes shopping soon at the mall and I want some really great clothes to "wow" everyone at school. anyone know where to get cool clothes??

Gadzooks, pac sun, wet seal, and vanity or rave girl-trix

Q: i have this friend who has really bad breath all the time and she talks really really close to ur face. i wanna tell her but she is the type that would take it way too seriously .. she wouldnt get mad but she would be very paranoid and upset.

Give her a tooth brush and toothpaste :) or a mint! she should be thankful she has a good friend like you!-trix

Q: ok my friend gets mad because the guys that she likes i suposly start to like them and then she dont tell me and so if i do go out with them she gets mad at me should i give up on the guys? because she gets mad at me when they like me and then she likes them but they dont like her what should i do ?

Well duh! you'd get mad too! if you know she likes them or even thinks she likes them stay awaY! you wouldnt like it if she did that to you now would yo?! I dont think so! Just go meet your own guys somewhere and she will do that too you both are jealous of eachother-trix

Q: i've been going to school with the same people for the past 10 years. I go to a private school and there is only about 30 people in my whole grade. we've all been friends up until this year. it all changed. i don't know what happened but all of a sudden, no one really likes me anymore. i've been nice to them all and tried my hardest to be there friend. i only have 4 really close friends now and it really bugs me because none of the guys like me because i'm not popular. help!!!

Well they are just all stuck up and come highschool everything should change your probably in jr. high now.. thats how it sounds and thats what happans at least you have 4 close friends because those are the true friends stick by them and be thankful!-trix

Q: i have this one friend who is so annoying and makes weird noises all the time and she gets on everyone's nerves. i've tried talking to her and she said she would stop but she hasn't yet. what should i do?

-Annoyed-

Talk to her again and tell her its getting on your last nerve-trix

Q: How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready?

Your not ready.. only a month? I have been together with my bf nathan for 3 months sense yesterday and we dont even go that far and im extremely comfortable around him and myself too and you'll know after about a yr or 2 with him and that is a huge age diff. too you should wait till your at least 16.. but then again it will be illgel but w/e who listens these days when it comes to that sort of stuff? noone really-trix

Q: How much should a normal teenager weigh and how tall because I know my friend eats n all I see her eating but doesnt gain weight n her parents say theirs something wrong w her but shes onli 14 n I dont think their is she eats normally n eats n doesnt strave herself but neways how tall n how much is she suppose to weigh for a 14 yr old girl? Most 14 yr olds I guess?

Well it depends on the age.. Hear is some examples of my friends and they are all 14 yrs old(ill do the heigh first then the weight) ~4'11-76 ~5'-111 ~5'4-128 ~5'2-125 so there is a couple examples.. so it varies she is probably like the first example that friends name is april she's healthy too-trix

Q: i have really frizzy hair and i hate it. im going to flordia in 4 days and i was wodering if there was anything u could buy at walmart or something to keep from getting frizzy while im there?

I have this blue friz gel.. i think i got it from k-mart though and i dont know what it does exactly.. just straighten your hair-trix

Q: Hey!..i have a really really strong relationship with my best friend...she is like the world to me...she lives right down the road..but now im moving and i think the reason were so close is b.c we have known each other for 10 years..and im afride that when i move we wont be as close....help! what do i do to keep are relationship as strong as it is..i dont no what i would do if we weren't as close as we are now
~XOXO~

Same thing is happaning to me!! Crazy huh!? I have to go to a new school though do you? Just keep in touch and if you 2 are extremely close like you say you are then you shouldnt have a prob. just make sure you talk at least every other night though and keep up with things. -trix

Q: my love life right now sucks! i cant get ne guy 2 look at me all i want is a really good looking guy to like me for me!
love iLuv2Shop

Just be yourseld and the right guy will come around just be flirtacious but dont have low self-esteem and dont like a guy for his looks.. cuz im sure you dont want a guy to like you for your looks but you want them to like your for your personality-trix

Q: Only this year..me n my mom have argued soo much. And she started the arguements not me. How do i tell her i dont want to argue nemore without bein a butthole about it?

Your at that age just say hey mom i dont want to fight anymore-trix

Q: my best friend is going thru depression. i have gone thru it be4 and so has she, so she knows how it is. shes seen a counselor and now she doesnt ne more because she got better and she didnt listen to one anyway. she has very low self esteem and says that she wants to be skinny and lose weight becuz i am "wicked skinny" and so isnt her twin sister and she wants to lose weight like we did. she cuts herself and is always really quiet..not normal for her. i talk to her alot about these things but i really want her to be ok..and go back to normal. she hardly eats too...ive had an eating disorder be4 and she saw it "work" for me so she is doing it too. please dont say get her proffesional help...i just need a way to help her.

Well that is the only way to help her just get her help because she needs help before it gets worse and you cant do anything besides tell someone-trix

Q: Hey. My best friends bf has been dating me while he went out w/ her! I had no idea when I was doin it w/ him.But i am now pregnant w/ his kid! I made a deal w/ him that i wud never tell my friend that I was w/ him but now i think i need to. I dont know if im ready for a kid! Shud I have an abortion and never tell my friend or have the kid or what? Plz answer this I really need help!

You are right you do need to tell her!! Like right this second before she hears from someone else.. And i highly doubt your ready for a kid but dont go having a abortion.. thats terrible if you dont think you want the kid or ready for a kid then put it up for adoption.. give it a home because it now has a right to live.. sense you made a baby. And you dont seem like a very good friend if you wouldnt tell her so be a good friend and tell her. My question is how could you not know who your best friends boyfriend was?-trix

Q: i was homne alone bored n i want on the computer. i typed in some random webiste and up came porn. it gave me a virus n broke my computer..i dont know what to do and i am afraid my mom will get all mad. i didnt mean to look up porn but if i tell her what i was doing she will go to the site and think i did...help.

Just tell her what you did but make sure you tell her everything in every detail that way she knows and will be more likely to believe otherwize she might get the idea that you are making stories up now so just tell her what happaned-trix

Q: do ur questions eventually get deleted in the thing under welcome then ur s/n: your questions?

Your inbox? I wonder the same thing to cuz i know alot of people have (2 messages) new in there inbox then it only happans to be 1 message.. so it must have difficulties-trix

Q: i have alot of best friend problemz itz me again so many problemz jus trying to find a way to deal with em. well... im the person that has a little brother with a big temper n a dad that i think takes money away from the family to spend on himself n the one that everythingz breaking in her house etc. well my best friendz i love em all but... one uf em tlkz to me on the phon alot n sumtymez it seemz like im not good enough for her other friendz n stuff there are tymez where were like the bestest friendz ever but lately itz like that. n therez my other best friend that i literally onli talked to her once this summer n she tlked to the other person only that i had on the other line when i tlked to her n i keep trying to call her baq n she wont answer. n the other best friend i get really jelous of her n at first id only answer if she called me. but after i came baq from vacation ever since she hasnt called me... well i wuz scared cux she brags alot n thats y i get jelous well... i got advice from ppl on this thing n it gave me the corrage to tlk to her but now im calling her n she doesnt answer the phon ether like the best friend i wuz tlking about b4 this. wut do i do? i dont kno where to start with any of this except maybe the first best friend that i wuz tlking about n thats like a little tiny idea that if it doesnt work than thats it i have nothing else. help!!

I think we all have that bestfriend issue if you ask me. But its summer and your right and thats when friends start to fall apart but school is coming right around the corner.. so you should be ok. You should have the courage to talk to her about even if your scared to cuz u do need to talk to her about it and think things through. But maybe you could go over to her house and talk to her to her face. that may be a bit harder but.. you got to do it if you think things will be better that way

Q: my hubby's bday is on friday.. (he's my bf of 2 years but i call him my hubby n he calls me his wifey) n e ways.. he noes ma family is having sum problems now.. but i still need to get him a present.. i need sum ideas on wat to get him.. but i wanna get him sumthin cute but not expensive.. i dont noe wat to get! i already got him a card and i rote him a letter on how great he makes me feel and how happy i am im with him.. plez help!
angita

Ask him for idea's just get him something he is interested in-trix

Q: ok so i liked this guy but i never really met him but i heard through some people that he liked me back...that was last year and now i dont want to like him n e more and i dont but i cant stop thinking about him...what is causing this? and how can i make it stop?

Well meet him thats whats probably causing it cuz your wondering who he is and so your wanting to meet him so get some friends together and go meet him-trix

Q: i need to listen to some new bands... i love the ones i listen to,so i'd like something like them (the strokes, weezer, von bondies, and coldplay)
not rap (spare me), or hip-hop or anything. just rock... and i usually end up liking the bands that aren't very well known...
hear of some?
if so... let me know.

The who.. my friend ryan likes them.. you may like them to-trix

Q: There is this guy I really like, I have liked him for a really long time. There is just one problem, he is sort off out of my league. Is there anything I can do to make him like me more while still being myself? I rate!

Just be flirty-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"