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I'm 15 and I'm a guy and I'm also having trouble with one of my BEST friends... I keep thinking that we would be great together because we get along soo well and I help her out with her problems and listen to her when she is down.. but I can't bring myself to tell her how I feel. I feel that she would be uncomfortable around me if I brought it up and it also doesn't help that she has a boyfriend. (link)
been through this twice now, and am going through something similar for a third time. ive also been on the other side of it as well. jsut so you know none of them worked out romanticaly. didnt ruin the friendship, was uncomfortable for a bit but its fine. i wouldnt recomend telling her while she has a girlfriend, most girls are loyal. thats really all i can say, wait.


ok lets make this as simple as possible.
i have a b/f..who i love with all my heart. i was at a afootball game with him tonight at the high school. he went to get food. my ex came over to me, who is now my best friend i gave him a hug and a kiss on the cheek. my boyfriend saw and is all upset. is that wrong of me? i don't see that as a problem! he is my BEST FRIEND! i hug every1 & it was just a kiss on the cheek..like i love him, hes my ex, yeah, but hes also a friend! does my b/f have a right to be so mad?! when he knows i only love and want him .. =/ thanx (link)
well you should be able to see where hes coming from, is he right? no. is he completely wrong? no. you should talk about it with your bf make him understand taht your ex is your best friend but maybe lay off on the kissing a bit too.


Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex? (link)
yeah all guys want sex. some do want a relationship. most will take it as slow as the girl wnats, and very few want a girl for just sex. if you finda guy that doesnt want sex hes probably gay. but there are plenty of decent guys out there that want to love a girl and not jsut have sex.


hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case? (link)
ok believe me two condoms is a bad idea. its not pathetic, its just wrong. now you can do condom and be on the pill. that makes it really safe.


okay there is this girl at my skool and she is freak but today she made fun of my friend and i and said we were "the bad altos"!! she can't sing for her life!! What can we do to get back at her??

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start a rumor that she stuffs her bra


Okay well my boyfriend lives in England now, we r still together and everything but he said to not let any other boys in my house or not to flirt , I love him to DEATH !!! well This nw boy kinda took his spot, he's nice and everything but he hugs me to much and says he loves me, I kinda feel the same way but , I told my boyfriend about this and he fliped and is now on his way down here, Im scared! what do I do , I dont want to break up with him or anything but were just teens, I mean my boyfriend is really rich and has a band and everything , he even buys me dimond braclets and everything, but I told the other guy to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend coming to visit, what do I do?
Plz help me!

~Hurry I will rate all 5's i just need help!~ (link)
uh well it appears that your bf is just a little to posseive id be careful he could actualy get violent. tell the other boy to watch out and you watch out yourself. if ive misjudged him and hes understanding then you have noting to worry about.


All my "friends" are ganging up on me. They are making me choose them or the guy i love... what do i do? please i really need help (link)
whenever in a situation of choice the person(s) that make you choose are the ones that you ditch.


ok i know this is a question alot of people ask..but i like this guy..like alot and we're good friends and we talk sometimes..i guess? i wanna tell him i like him but i can't..cuz im too shy..and he doesn't have a screen name..Ah..so are there any ways to show him i like him..without ya know..atchually saying it directly..alomst like flirting? Thanks! (link)
honestly if he doesnt have a screename thats a bad sign. ive heeard it before he probably is jsut being nice.


Ok hi well there r these 4 guys i really like and all of them like me back i just dont know which one i shud choose. The first guy lets say his name is ray, i met over the summer and we really clicked. WE both really really like eachother but he lives 4 hours away. The second guy, well say his name is sam, lives ten minutes away and is really hot and would do nething for me and loves me so much but he sleeps around so i dunno how long it wud last. The 3rd guy i really like and he likes me back and we r really close friends but he wont make a move! The forth guy just moved here and lives three houses down from me and is now goin out w/ my friend cuz my other friends pressured him into it but he dusnt even like her he likes me and i like him back. I really wanna choose one of them but i cant decide so please help me!!!!!! (link)
guy#3. you can make the 1st move


I'll rate everyone who answers this question!

I met this guy through a friend. We all hung out one day and it was really fun. I got his screen-name and we talked online and I thought he was so cool. Then we got to hang out again at the mall and I found out that him and my friend are dating. I was happy for them but kinda bummed because I was starting to like him. Then my friend's parents said they could not go out because he wasint white. So their broken up, but still really good friends. My friend said I could try to go out with him since she knows I like him. I might try and go out with this guy. Thing is, I have no clue if he likes me. He says I'm pretty and he says I'm funny. I just dont know if he likes me more on a boyfriend-girlfriend level. Should I keep talking to him, and wait till he says something? Or should I just be like "I like you!" I'm confused on what I should do because I've never have wanted to go out with a guy. Sure I've had crushes, but go out with them..nope! Oh yeah, he still likes my friend. But I think he's open to another relationship. (Hopefully with me) Any advice would be helpful. And I'll rate everyone who answers:-D

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yeah just say i like you.


how do you unsave your password on this website? so when you come to this website you have to log in instead of being logged in already..?
plz respond asap! (link)
just click log out.

http://www.advicenators.com/logout.php


how do u think i could get a boys attention...like can u tell me what the latest things are in style or w/e. thnkx ! i rate ! (link)
skin is in. show plenty of skin and the boy will try to get in. heh. actualy guys dont care about clothes to much and they difeinitely dont know the latest fashion. jsut go up and talk to him

i prefer hair that is jsut strait down. as for make up less is more. a bit of eyeshadow and some basic foundation is enough.


ok if i only eat crackers and drink water will i get sick from not eatin...as much as i need too ?? (link)
yes and then when you go back to normal food youll gain back twice the weight twice as fast. the best diet is healthy eating and unexesive exersize


Ok im 14 and a 34 in like ltd 2 bras that is wicked small!!! but im fit! and i went through everything.. im going to be a freshman in a couple of days!!! what do i do!!! im small! and i cant wait for them to groww!!! and guys are going to not want to go out with me HELP!!!! and dont tell me to stuff cause that is like so obviose!!!

signed so SMALL!! (link)
some guys like small boobs. im all about the champaign glass size. seriously even if your flat as a wall you can still find a guy. it helps to be a B cup at least but it isnt nessassary


theres this guy that i have a major crush on, and i've known him forever (since i was 4) and we went out when i was 9 and he was 10, but then when i turned 10 me and him got into a silly argument and i broke up with him. after that i haden't seen him or talked to him for 3 years. but he lives 2 houses over from me. =/ i recently started high school, and he takes the same bus as me to school every day, and i see him often in the halls. i really like him again and i have no problem talking to him, but i want to tell him that i still care, and that i'm still here. please help because i have no idea how to bring that convo. about because idk how he feels. =/ (link)
you were dating when you were 10? heh thats a bit young but anyways. i think a good way is to jsut go up to him and tell him you still care about him.


me and my boyfriend broke up today and I cryed for 3 straight periods..I really love him and I want him back..how do I get him back..

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some more info would be preatty help ful who broke up with who? why? but iether way getting back with an ex is generarly a bad idea.


Anyone a senior in high school? its so hard because of senioritis, anyone else have it, how can i get thru it, i dont want me GPA to lower, i want it to stay the same at least, if not for it to raise, help. (link)
i had senioritis as a freshman lol. just work hard dont party too hard and your grades should slip


I always feel left out and out of place and I always wonder what life would be like without me. I know I have friends who love me but I always end up thinking what would happen if i died... would it make a big difference? I especially wonder what my ex-boy friend would say ... I just want to feel needed, someone who will love me back ... some how when i have a boy friend or someone close to me i feel like i have a purpose ... is that normal ... to want to be needed? (link)
dont forget your family and friends. who cares what your ex would think? every one goes throught this though dont wory


what are termination and repeating numbers? (link)
termenation is what you get when govenah ahnold kills you. repeating numbers is waht you do after you get beat up by mike tyson. heh i figured since the correct answer was already given id put some himor into this question


heyy .. i like this guy alot , buhh how do u know if there just tryin to get shyt frum and use u? some of themm seem like they want a realtionship to0 buhh they juss all confusing.. i dunt kno! andd how do u kno if they want a commitmentt? [ i kno most dont buhh?! ]* ill ratee ya xo (link)
dont put out. if hes intrested in you for you he'll stay. if he jsut wants "things" he'll leave




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