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Q: okay so i was at this socca turny and i met this boy he really wasnt soo cute but he was really really sweet and he spoke spanish so i really didn't have much to say to him but he was all putting his arm around me and all his freinds thought that i was like his gf but really i wasn't and then when he had to leave he was all like can i get a kiss so i was just gonna peck him on the cheek but when i went in he like turnd his face and went for my lips and then he like all pulled me closer and all and then he opend his mouth to french me and all and i wanted to make out with some one but not really him so for a second i was into it and then a sec later i pushed him away and now my friend is all making fun of me cuz i made out with some guy i didn;t even like! and i think that she is totally right! i mean i just met him and all and now i can't stop thinking about it! and i totally regret it! idk wut to do. he prolly thinks im his gf now so if i c him he'll prolly wanna talk to me and kiss me again when really i don't wanna talk to him again.
please help
Well we all know looks dont matter.. but.. you cant take that back unless you got a time machine.. which i doubt you have but i would just do this if you see him next time clear it up and tell him about it and say that it didnt mean anything to you and your completely sorry maybe something can work out in the future.. but not right now. Unless you really really absolutly dont want anything to do with him then you can be mean-trix

Q: alright me and my so called bestest friend for life are fighting..and its because i was supposed to go to her house after school but i get in trouble all the time there so i wanted a change..so instead i went over to Courtneys and she got all mad sayin how could u go around ditchin me..and then she claims i stole stuff from her that i later found in her bookbag and she was going around calling me a slut...so i am just wondering if i made the right chioce by "ditching" her..x0 MaNdiE 0x
Well you should have asked her to come with your to courtneys house rather then ditching her or you should have told her ahead of time or asked if she wanted to come over for a bit or something.. just not ditch her-trix

Q: well he already knows that i like him...so what do i say on the text? like i dont know what i should say...ive never been in this situation b4 and its confusin...thanks!
Well if he knows you like him just be like well i already know that you know that I like you and i was wondering if you wanted to hang out or something just make it a casual text nothing to jumpy.. so just make it casual and he'll most likely hang out and go from there and good luck! :) i have answered alot of quetions sense our last question together so if i got mixed up between questions tell me.. im completely totally sorry!!-trix

Q: whats a "south beach diet"?
Go to www.southbeachdiet.com and you can find out there.. it says you can loose weight in a short period of time. It worked for my aunt so it should work for you if you do it right. The South diet isnt a low-fat/carb diet. It helps you to know like the rigth carbs and stuff and right fats so your not eating fatty fat foods! It helps you to eat healhty to.. so its good for you and its not to bad-trix

Q: when you call a guy that you met through someone else, what do you say to them?? answer asap!!! i rate!
I met david i just asked what he was doing and i asked about him we met a hornbachers and just talked about really random things lol it was wierd but fun-trix

Q: there is this guy who i really like but he doesnt even know i exsist what should i do to have him notice me
Just go up to and talk to him and ask him whats up maybe you could do that with a few friends orsomething like that-trix

Q: ok im 5'8 and im to tall already and family always used to say that i was the tall skinny one..but now i am like 130 lbs...i am fat...i mean if i pinch the skin on my stomach i get liek a lot of fat...its really embarssing...bcuz i never want to wear a bathin suit bcuz it shows my stomach...and i live on a lake..so its hard not to...bcuz i aloso luv swimmin very much! i play volleyball but i feel that i need to do somthing else to lose sum wieght...what can i do? {14-f}
~feelin fat :(
Your not fat.. holy crap why do people think that? Just excercise if you arent satisfied with yourself. Do crunches they work really well!!-trix

Q: well heres the deal...theres this guy...well just say his name is bob...so i really really like bob...and i think he likes me too...my stepbro and my friends all tell me he likes me n thinks im hot n other stuff like that...and when we are together we are like really flirty w/ eachother and all that and ive liked him for almost a year now and he knows i like him and we text message eachother almost all day everyday and i cant figure him out...what is the best way to ask him about it...b/c i think he likes me b/c of the way he acts around me like at partys he always gets me drinks n drives me around n were really good friends but i want to be more than that so what do you think would be the best way for me to find out what goes on in his head???
{im 15}
Just ask him you should realy go for it! It seems to me like he likes you alot you could just ask him thru a text though and it would be less emberassing-trix

Q: i had sex but im not preagnant i feel horrible
Well that could be a problem sex is something you cant take back.. but why do u feel horrible?-trix

Q: why is it that i always seem to fall in love then screw it up? i mean i always get hurt is there ne guys out there that i can talk to that are readin this if so plz answer this!
Just take your time through it and be careful of what you do and say!!-trix

Q: whats the quickest...easiest way to lose a few pounds? i am only 14...so i cant go to the gym or any thing...plz help!
South beach diet-trix

Q: whats the best way to get a babysitting job?
put fliers-trix

Q: ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!!
Wel talk to them both and see what they have to say and just try not to pull a selfish act here and hook them up.. we know they wont last forever -trix

Q: i need advice on what to do here... i am 14 and there's is this guy i like that is also 14...before school ended we went out for about a week. but he hardly ever talked to me. when we broke up he told me "that he liked me, but he like me, like me..." then he sadi he just wanted to be freinds...so i thought i could get over it, but we live on the same lake, so just about everyday i see him and i just think about when we went out. i still really like him. i dotn know what to do. help plz!
Just be a flirty person towards him.. thats what everybody these days are saying.. blah.. hopefully it works and maybe you could tell him how you feel about it and he may secretly feel that way too least we hope so good luck-trix

Q: i don't know what 2 say 2 brad...how can i confront him?! I think of him everytime the song "Pieces of Me" plays becuz i am comfortable around him....and i love him and i want 2 b able 2....write
Well after semi's ask him out to a movie or something and if that goes well.. then ask him out-trix

Q: ok well .. i play soccer nd im ahh 14 nd 5'3 nd i think im fat ... im mean im skinner then a lot of ppl .. but i think im wayyyy too fat i weigh lyk 140 nd ahhmy coaches nd evrything say its muscle cause ive been playin soccer for so long nd am on so many demanding teams nd track nd i do other stuff .. but i dunno i can nevr seem to loose weight .. i can only do it in my stomach really which i lyk cause i almost got a full 6pAcK but ahh my thighs i dnt lyk theyre to big but a lot if muscle i guess .. im jst askin what u think i should do
xO0 CoNfUsEdD =/
Well you weigh more then me and im the same height but remember muscle weighs more then fat :) so keep that in mind.. and you play soccer so that could be the answer to the solution. just excercise and do lunges-trix

Q: so my friend wanted to make plans with me today but i was chillin wit her allllll week and i about had enough so when my other friend mel asked me to hang wit her i said shua. and then she called mel on her cell and found out i was with her and now she wont talk to me. wut do i do? please help me asap!
Just tell her the truth dont say i was annoyed of you just say that you missed hanging out with your other friends.. so you wanted to hang out with her for a bit-trix

Q: hey does anyone know how i can pratice pitching without some1 catching with me and the throw backs.. is there some how another way?? i know its a stupid question but i would like to kno.. and how else can i improve my preformance in softball by any way?? thanx
batting cages?-trix

Q: What's YOUR definition of love? I'm not sure if I'm in it...
I think love is when you giggle when the guy/gurl does the stupidest thing you'll do anything to think of a reason to call.. even if its a dumb reason and same goes for him he'll just call to say umm i think i left my sweatshirt there.. even if he wasnt there.. and you wake up and go to sleep thinking of him and think of him alot thats what i think .. and thats how i know i love nathan-trix

Q: what do i do when the guy ive liked for so long has lied to me about something serious .. i hadda good relationship w. him and then we got in a fight ... we didnt talk for a few weeks and then we started talking again .. i guess he started to like me again and i never stopped likeing him .. after about a week i found out hes been lien to me and he hadda g.f for almost a month .. and then he was saying he was sorry and he didnt wanna hurt me and blahhh .. well .. it doesnt change that he lied to me .. i really still like him and no one likes his new g.f i think they might break up wut shud i do .. wait or move on?
He might be emberassed of his gf.. exspeacially because noone likes her.. so he may just be trying to hide and is tryin to be the nice guy and go out with.. like a charity thing.. just give it time and give him space and he'll come around-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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