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okay this is what my friend sent me.

her: okay well like the bad thing is he doesnt like how your a preppy n wear abercrombie
her: LIke TO Much of it
me: okay
her: he liked how you wear pac sun.. and how u are nice.. and all that little stuff... and like yeah i asked him all this ... n than at the end i said would u ever go out with her and he was like if she was not that weird and wasnt a prep and yeah then we talked and were like yeah yup yeah

and i really like this guy, shoudl i clean my act up because my aprents thing abercrombie is rediculous and everything. so they refuse to buy it

and i love pac sun also... but some of the things i bought like are WAY too see thought... so yeah im going to act my self and yeah is that a good idea?

ps im not doing this to get him to ask me out

Yeah, I totally think that you should act yourself. You don't have to act a certain way to impress someone. Acting yourself is the best option because you feel comfortable with the way you act. Also, dress in the style that you like. If you like shopping at Abercrombie-shop there. The same for Pac sun. Just because someone doesn't like your fashion style or sense, doesn't mean you should change it. I hope I helped!

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I sweat alot from my underarms. Is that a problem. Uhm...some details. It's mostly during the warm months (but its still more than everyone else is sweating) and it can sometimes form like a pit to the bottom of my bra (rarely). I wear Mitchum Deodorant for Women. I weigh 130 and I'm 5'4. I like salt, but I dont eat ALOT of it. I mostly use a lot on corn, mashed potatoes, and chicken soup (but I dont have those on a daily basis. Usually once or twice a month.) I cant think of any other reasons why. Does anyone think any of those things could be the reason. Any other reasons? Is this unhealthy?? Could I die or anything?

You won't die from it...so don't worry (lol). It may be becaue you drink a lot of soda and/or that you don't drink enough water. Try drinking a good supply of water to reduce your sweating, andso that you won't be dehydrated. Also, keep your underarms free of hair because hair in underarm makes you sweat more. I don't think that corn, mashed potatoes, or chicken soup cause this. If you think you deodorant might be the problem (which it's probably not), you could switch to using Secret. I hope I helped!

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Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know

Of course not. It's totally normal. Girls usually like to date guys who are older than them, and 2 years apart like you to is good. I hope I helped!

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hey. what're the best websites to buy those necklaces and bracelets with those huge plastic beads on them and those glass rings with designs inside? thanks.

You can get them from Forever 21, Wetseal, Charlotte-Russe, American Eagle, etc. I hope I helped!

www.forever21.com
www.wetseal.com
www.charlotte-russe.com
www.americaneagle.com

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well i just found out yesturday that i'm moving this saturday .. n i dont kno how to tell my friend maria .. cuz i'm always playin jokes on her that i mite move and i'm afraid she wont believe me .. what shood i say??

Tell her that you're moving, and say it with a straight and serious face. If she doesn't believe you, then have one of your family members tell her. I hope I helped!

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Okay.. IVE BEEN LOOKING EVERYWHERE for some nice black pants. NOT DRESSY PANTS, not the kind with the silk or anything. And not dark blue. Im talking jet plack pants with a good amount of pockets. (and not hot topic/gothic pants)

just seems like I cant find any decent black pants around and i know it sounds stupid but its annoying the crap out of me. lol

Can anyone point out some good stores for pants like this? or if anyone has pants like this can you tell me where you got them or give out some wbsites with pics or something?

thanks. ill rate

Gaucho pants are in, and I got some black ones from Forever21-www.forever21.com (go to pants category) for just $18.80. Wet Seal-www.wetseal.com also sells good ones at good prices. Try Urban Outfitters-www.urbanoutfitters.com too. I hope I helped!

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Whats a good idea for a first day of school outfit? im going to be a freshman. im skinny. brown hair. green eyes. i have kindof a preppish look. money isnt a big issue. i just need ideas.

You should wear a polo (green, pink, blue, or striped with more than 1 color) with the collars up, to give it a preppy feel. A blue jeaned mini skirt would look really cute with it, and some flip flops. You could also wear big black sunglasses. I hope I helped!

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Hi everyone,
I'm 15/f and I'm going into 9th grade this year. I was wondering what I should shop for when I go clothes shopping. I'm so used to wearing spaghetti-strapped shirts with jeans since I wore stuff like that over the summer. It's just that spaghetti-strapped shirts aren't allowed to be worn unless a hoodie or zip-up jacket or something is worn over it. I don't wanna have to wear a lot of hoodies this year, because I wore them a lot during 7th and 8th grade. If anyone can, please let me know what stores sell cute long sleeve shirts that would look good with jeans. You can also let me know what stores sell cute short sleeve shirts. I usually shop in the mall like at Deb, Aeropostale, and G&G. I also like to go to Kohl's a lot. I don't want shirts that are going to be really expensive. If you can, please help me out. Does anyone know where they sell some cute purses right now also? I really need a new one! Thank you so much! I really appreciate it. :-)

Well, if you like wearing spagetti strap shirts and camis, you could wear like a jean jacket with it. Some other good stores to shop at that sell clothes for reasonable prices are...

Forever 21
Wet Seal
Charlotte-Russe
American Eagle
Gadzooks
Pacsun

There are other stores too-look on the internet.
These stores also see bags too. I hope I helped!

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what are this fall's back to school fashions? i'm going into 9th grade, and i want to know what the hottest and cutest styles are for someone of my age. i'm going to be 14, it's going to be my first year in high school, i'm a girl, and i'm preppy. what stores are good to shop at? also, what colors of makeup are good for brown hair and brown eyes?

Light brown, brown, and other fall colored scarves are perfect for the fall, along with like tan or brwon blazers. But you don't have to wear like only fall colors. You can wear sweater vests and jeans, cords, and khakis. Flats are in too Here are some stores you can shop at, both perppy and other types too...

Abercrombie & Fitch
Hollister
American Eagle
Old Navy
Forever 21
Wetseal
Charlotte-Russe
Urban Outfitters
Delias
J.Crew
Nordstrom

-and other stores like that

Some make-up that would fit you would be like, light brown, light or regular pink, and like a cherry color, that's not too dark, but maybe a little shimmery. Clear is good also. I hope I helped!

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ok im looking on oldnavy.com and i want to get a turquoise cord blazer ..im wondering what kind of pants to wear with it?

http://www.oldnavy.com/asp/product.asp?:=l&wpid=325098&wdid=2000055

You could wear jeans with it since they go with mostly everything. Khaki's would look cute, and white pants also. I hope I helped!

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When I was little I was abused by both my sister and my dad. As I got older it stopped and the yelling died down a little but its still there. Lately my dad and my sister have been yelling more and tonight I was sitting in my room and heard things being thrown and everything. Im not sure what was going on but I new my dad and sister were fighting and probly hurting eachother and I was scared out of my mind. I wanted to jump out of my window and run I was so scared. Im sitting here shaking afraid to leave my room and I don`t know what to do. Please help meh!
14/f
Love maddie

I think you guys should go back to the counselor. It's important to live in a healthy and secure home because you might pick up what your sister and dad are doing. This is not right, and you need to put an end to this because you can get through to them. You love them both, and it hurts you to see them fighting and behaving like this. Talk to them first to see if they can settle things for your sake, and then get them some help. Make sure the help comes fully through, and doesn't stop. I hope that everything works out for you and I hope I helped. If you have any more questions, You can send me a message or question in my inbox and I would be more than heppy to answer them ASAP!

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I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
Thanks.

You should try going to...

Forever 21
Wetseal
Charlotte-Russe
Express
Banana Republic
Nordstrom
Bebe
The Buckle
Urban Outfitters
Delias

You can look at other stores on the internet also.
I hope I helped!

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I know people will get their makeup professionally done for prom or whatever. But, I wanted to get mine done before I take my senior portraits, what is the cheapest it would cost? Who/where would I call the schedule an appointment?

They have professional make-up artists at Nordstrom (it's a department store). I don't know if it's free or not...sorry.

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My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice.

I think that you guys should be together. I mean, yeah-it might hurt his new girlfriend, but he shouldn't let her think that he likes her as a girlfriend, if he only likes her as a friend because that's playing with her heart, and that isn't fair. Breaking it off is the best option. You will regret it if you don't choose to be together with him because you really like him. Anyways, it was neither of your fault that you guys broke up in the first place because it was somebody else who got involved in the email. If you really like himand car eabout him then go with him. Tell the girlfriend though, because she has a right to know. I hope everything works out for the best, and I hope I helped!

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i wanna look really cute tonight to see my boyfriend. what should i do with my hair, & what makeup, & what clothes should i wear? like wae a black skirt or sumthing. it's really humid here. i really want to make him say "wow". any advice pleasee. thanks

Well, you don't want to go too too extravagant. You should wear like a small black dress (spagetti strap, tube top, or halter), but don't let it be too short-then it doesn't look nice. The length of it should probably be about to the middle of you thigh. Then throw on a pair of some flat, plain black flip flops to keep things simple so that it doesn't look like you tried so hard. Curl your hair, and put on lip gloss that fits the color of your skin. Put some eyeliner, and some eyeshadow. You don't want to put a lot of make-up on. I hope your boyfriend is awed, and I hope I helped!

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Okay every year i get clothes from the mall picking things from like JC pennys and Macys and some from Aero but my mall doesnt have alotta fine clothes. This year i wanna be on top with the new teen fashions. So heres my (2) questions Is finding clothes over the net better for me? And if so does anyone know any good clothes sites? ** with good deals? (or am i asking to much.. ** lost & confused~ thanx

I think that ordering from the internet is a good idea if the mall near you doesn't have a good number of good or decent stores. This sounds like my situation because the malls nearest me aren't good mall at all that have stores I don't even like. I just go to another county to shop (but there's one shopping center that has some good stores that's in the same county but in a different city). You could try that. Here are some good stores that sell for good and reasonable prices. (I like to shop at -most of-these stores also).

1. American Eagle @ www.ae.com
2. Wet Seal @ www.wetseal.com
3. Forever 21 @ www.forever21.com
4. Charlotte Russe @ www.charlotte-russe.com
5. Hollister @ www.hollisterco.com

There are other good stores too if you look on the internet. I hope I helped!

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I'm litterally sitting here crying my eye's out because of the boy i love and have been going out with for almost a year now. I don't understand him he tells me he's change when sometimes he shows it then he goes back to his dickless self. God he keeps calling "Rosy" we'll say and "Rosy" in this situation will be my mom and I'm not gonna get into that but she's just a judgemental, annoying, mother ever she's always there which all moms should be. But holy shit god he makes me cry almost every night. And I can't stand it. Breaking up with him is not in the question. I'm not going to we have been on and off so many times and I'm not putting that shit at risk. I'm just so pissed off tell me how like I can avoid the tears and just grow up and stop crying about every damn thing. I'll rate if I know how.

You say that you guys breaking up is out of the question, but you should definitely consider it because you don't want to be in an unhealthy relashionship like this. Your boyfriend shouldn't make you cry, but he should comfort you and cheer you up. He's not a real man, and you can see that too. Comfront him and tell him that he is wrong for making you cry. You have to be strong, and by doing that, you have to tell your boyfriend your feelings. If he doens't seem to care and he doesn't change, then you should find someone else who can respect you and treat you right. I hope I helped!

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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my boyfriend broke up in march. but we still talk like were goin out like we still say i love you and everything. but than the other day i got asked out by another guy and i said yea. but when my xbf found out he was mad. and start sayin i thought you loved me and everything. so i broke up with my recent bf. cuz i still have feelings for my x i dont know what to do cuz my x says things will never be the same between us again so i dont know if i should move on or what someone please help me i rate high!!!

I think that you should straighten things out with your ex. It's obvious that he still has feelings for you, and that you still have feelings for him. It's hard for him to think that you've moved on if you two still love eachother. He's getting the wrong idea about this, and you need to let him know that before it's too late. Let him know that you still love him, and that you guys can still have that love if he wants to. He's hurt, and one way to show him that you care about him is to comfort him, cheer hi up, and let him know that you and that other guy have no relashionship at all. I hope I helped!

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I love this guy and he loves me but where not together anymore but I have to make a chosie its either I move away and go to another school or stay here untill I am done with high school and the only thing that is keeping me here is my ex and my chruch but I love him and I want to make it work with my ex please help me I don't no what to do help?

Well, the last thing you want to do is walk away from love. You really care about him, so why would you want to leave him? You should finish out your high school and stick with your church. Your heart is here, so don't leave. Try and see if you guys can form a relashionship. He probably still has feelings for you, and you'll never know until you find out for yourself, and you can't do that if you move. You'll regret it if you do leave, so don't. I hope that everything works out for you and that I helped!

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can someone give me some break up songs or some songs that say your mad or something. please...i rate 5's.

Well, "Since you've been gone" and "Behind these Hazel eyes" are good break-up songs because it tells about the bad break-up of her and her boyfriend. They're on her cd called "Breakaway". I hope I helped!

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