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any 1 know any good chatrooms to go to? (besides this one, im in it rite now 2 if you wana chat)

but ones that a 13 year old is alowed into?
i rate 5's!

http://www.teenchat.com
http://www.teenspot.com/chat/
http://www.justachat.com
http://www.teenchatcenter.com
http://www.webarrow.net/chatindex/all.php

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I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone tonight and just casually he guessed what his gift was and he didn’t sound all that pleased. What makes it worse is that he asked if he had guessed right and I blurted out No, just because I was scared and upset!

I’m a little panicked. I thought I had a good idea but he sounded really unimpressed…

I’m totally lost as to what to do now! Should I try and get something else? Or just go with it and admitted I didn’t tell the truth?!

That's all you should give him. Don't even bother to explain it to him. I'm sure he'll be pleased enough that you got him a gift. =] Besides when he opens it, he'll be surprised because he won't be expecting it!

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HEY! whats goin on!? well i have this tanning lamp thing..and its kinda like going tanning except you have to like do each section of your body seperately. i mostly only do my face. but usually when i go tanning in a bed my face looks like a nice smooth tan. but when i use this tanning lamp (because im outta tans) my face looks really blotchy and kind of reddish. and it like dont go away..or fade into a tan. i even put bronzer like on to try and make it look smoother. but is there anyway i could make it look smooth and just like a nice tan without buying anything..since my mom wont let me?

Hey lovely. =] Ahhh, nothing much! Thanks.

Woah, I've never heard of a tanning lamp thing where you like do different sections of your body @ a time. That's really neat. =] Hehe. Honestly, I have NO idea what you could possibly do, seen as I've never really had that problem before, nor do I know anyone who has your problem. Maybe just try to explain to your mother that it's making you really self conscious that your face is red and blotchy. & If you do that then maybe you could buy stuff called, California Tan "Just faces" you can get it at Wal-mart I'm pretty sure and I highly recommend it. Or maybe just ask for it for Xmas? =] It's just that your face is VERY sensitive to the light, and maybe just use a moisturizer after you do the light on your face. See if that works, and if not I really think you should tell your mom how it's making you feel!

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I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina

All girls' bodies work differently. Don't worry about it, start worrying about it when you're 18.

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I think i have writers block. I love writing but these days i cant write even when i want to. What to do!?

Just write about something like, how excited you are about Christmas coming in 5 days. Or, write about family traditions that your family does, that may be unusual to others if they saw it. =]

Maybe write about your favorite subject @ school, or your best friend? Or a problem that you're going through everyday, and then everyday just write down something that you feel about that specific problem. I don't write, but for example, if I did. I'd write about my sister coming to visit my family in 2 days, and how excited I am because I haven't seen her in four months. =/

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What are some sites where I can post up poetry and have people comment on them?
I don't want deviantart or poetry.com

http://www.poets.org
http://www.poetshouse.org
http://www.poetryamerica.com
http://www.writing.com
http://www.poetrypoem.com

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so im 15, and i've been wearing tampons for quite a while now, and well ive never done this, but ive always wondered if you can pee while the tampon is still in you? because when i try to, it feels like its being pressured out, so i just take it out while i pee and just put a new tampon in..

Yes I can. It'll take a while to get used to the feeling of having a tampon in & peeing. But you should be able to.

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what does knurd mean? thanks.

Positive sense of geek.

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When you buy an iPod, do you have to buy the earphones seperate or do they come with it?

Hehe, the earphones come with the IPOD. As do much of everything else. http://store.apple.com/1-800-MY-APPLE/WebObjects/AppleStore.woa/7200105/wo/ZtYuAwfFZ6BG3F12TC67u2ytC5H/1.SLID?mco=CC4D3CBB&nclm=iPod
Check out this website, and it'll show you on the far right side under the black IPOD what you get with it! =]

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ok. i dont know how to make out. and i need help. dont try to pull off that, use your hand/or go with the flow crap. becuase i need to know what the flow is first. give me the full out instruction of this. i rate HIGH.

--lover939

It doesn't matter if you rate me high anyways, because your rating doesn't count against my regular rating that would actually change if I were answering a public question. I suggest trying a website called, "http://www.google.com" & then maybe learn some manners. Don't ever think about asking me a question and putting, "Don't blah blah blah" Because it's dumb. If you want advice, you get what I say, otherwise ask someone else.

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Don't fucking act like you know me. Because, you DON'T. If you did you wouldn't take the time of asking me such a retarded question. I've had plenty of dates in the past, and I'm happy to say I've been seeing someone for a few months now. Why in the hell did you come to me in the first place, if you didn't think I'd help you? You're just pathetic. Grow up a little bit, and gain some respect for others. You don't know me.

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I lost my permit and I was just wondering if anyone knew how much it costs to get another copy. I'm in Texas if it helps any.

15 dollars! :)

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Hey, Im 14 years old and found a bump on my vagina. It looked somewhat like a pimple. There's only one. Could this be herpes or what? Should I just forget about it? I'm a virgin. Any help thank you.

It's perfectly normal. DO you shave? Because that could just be a razor burn. It's normal though, just wait a while & eventually it'll go away. :)

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this kid i like has gotten a blowjob from a girl. i know that all boys only think about is SEX and alla that. obviously haha! but yeah i dont know what to do? because i feel like i have to do something sexual just for him to like me. and i know "yeah then blow him off" just because he would want something from me..but its not that easy! i mean i wouldnt mind makin out with him ;) i wouldnt feel very comfortable doing anything else tho..
what if he asked me? what do you think i should say if i wasnt ready..

No! Definitely say no. Don't ever do something like that if you aren't ready for it. Not all guys think about sex though, just a lot do, but honestly. If you think the only way he'll go out with you is if you suck him off - I don't think you should even go there. :) But you should definitely say no, if he asked you & you aren't ready!

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that thing you were talking about that was too big? haha its called a thyriod. just to let you know =) ps...how much do you weigh now?

Hehe, yeahh! I know, I learned that. I forgot all about it, but yeah I realized that. Hehe thanks! 126lbs!

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WOW.
i saw what you were writing before about skinny people and thats just plain RUDE. im pretty skinny and there is nothing i can do about it! i cant gain weight for whatever reason. I am speechlesss...you know how you feel when people say FAT* well your doing the same thing right back at us people who are thinner..
think about it smart one

There's plenty you can do about it, sweetheart. I just think it's ridiculous that girls can actually fit into a zero at Abercrombie. They're the girls that make me completely nauseated. Don't fucking leave me shit in my inbox like this ever again. It's a waste of my god damned time. IM me @ nainerzzz you dumbass bitch if you actually want to finish this conversation.

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ok i was thinking on something to get for my boyfriend. we have been dating for 2 months and i need advice. i was thinking about getting him for christmas the Dukes of Hazaed unrated dvd and some boxers. Do you think i should get him that? or something else? please help

Yeah that seems good. I was going to get my boyfriend boxers, but then I thought how is mother might react about that. I don't know it just might've seemed too awkward. But for my boyfriend, I got him a Dallas Cowboy hat, an Ecko tshirt, earrings, & a gift card @ Barnes & Nobles.
:)

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So you ran once a day? How many minutes to a run?

Hey! =]
I don't run EVERYDAY. But I exercise every day/go to the gym daily. I run about 4 times a week, one mile a day. But of course I can run a lot longer then that, but I don't really want to lose anymore weight! =] I run about 10 minutes a day, around my school track. But when I wanted to lose weight, I ran for like an hour to an hour 1/2 a day!

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how much is plastic wrap normally from the grocery store? and will it matter if its colored? thank you!

I think if it's colored it'll be more money. Depending on the brand & type you get. If you go for a cheap one, I'm pretty sure you can get one for like 50cents from the dollar store. But, the colored one will cost anywhere from 2-4$.
NaImEE. ♥

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I was just always wondering..how do you know if your actually bipolar or not? Im not sure if i am cause once in a while i can be really happy and the next minute im really depressed where i want to cry about nothing!? i dont know if im actually bipolar or just in a desperate need of attention?! please help. any websites would be good.

Here's a website for ya, I think it has everything you're looking for:
http://www.helpguide.org/mental/bipolar_disorder_symptoms_treatment.htm

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using a tampon for the first time, any thing i need to know? any tips please?

I HIGHLY suggest this site:
http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html

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