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making out
ok. i dont know how to make out. and i need help. dont try to pull off that, use your hand/or go with the flow crap. becuase i need to know what the flow is first. give me the full out instruction of this. i rate HIGH.
--lover939
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Making out seems so hard. But, it's really not. I'm sure you heard "It comes naturally." Great advice huh? But, it really does come naturally. PSH, I was so scared when I first made out, because the guy was so experienced and I wasn't! But, once the person leans in for a kiss, lean in as well and once you touch the face open your mouth alittle bit and start out with little kisses. Then, you guys will start making out. If they put your tongue in your mouth, do the same, don't be sloppy about it though, just massage your tongue, with theres. Basically, just follow their lead!
&& remember, practice makes perfect ;)
I hope this helps and if you need anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.
♥ Kourtney
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seriously ALL i know to tell you is to go with flow. follow the guy's lead. let him start off and just go along with what he does.
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I'll give you basic tips you need to know.
1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck.
2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break.
3. Hold your partner , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides.
4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses.
5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood.
6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else.
7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips.
8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts their tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion.
9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing.
10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it. Lol
11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue.
12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite.
13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through.
14. Breathe through your nose.
15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through their hair. Again, don't cause pain.
16. Continue kissing & have fun. :D
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You can threaten me all you want, I'm still going to answer however I was going to answer in the first place.
Making out is a facilitation of physical affection. The centerpiece is hot LIP-ON-LIP ACTION. Which begs the question of how you get started, which is probably your question.
Drawing from personal experience, that initiating kiss is probably the hardest thing to do. Everything else before and after is easier. On more than one occasion I've felt breast before kissing a girl. Something about knowing she doesn't mind me touching her breast makes me feel secure that she's not going to reject me.
The majority of my first kisses with girls (which lead to subsequent make-out sessions) were while we were sitting. Typically there is either a movie before, or playing at the time. There's that look in her eye.
How? Shit, half the time I just told myself to do it, and then did. Other half, I got pounced. Woo hoo.
Okay, lip on lip action. What's there to it? I consider it kind of a medium of communication. Kind of like how I touch a girl's palm while we're holding hands or just touching each other's hands. Someone does something. The other reciprocates. Very basic communication. Other times, it's erratic, two people competing for physical dominance. I'm still talking about lips.
Of course, that brings the tongue into play. Tongue domination typically happens during heated moments. But, it gets old and tiring fast. I much prefer using tongue for darting swipes of the lips or licking really strange parts of a girl's mouth. I'm an odd person.
Eventually, lips break and may wander to other exposed areas. Cheek, forehead, neck, maybe up the arms and back. Sometimes fiery, sometimes slow and doting.
Where do hands go? I still haven't figured that out. Sometimes I cup her face. Sometimes my hands are in hers. Sometimes they're on her breasts. Sometimes they're on her ass. Sometimes they're on her tummy. Sometimes they're running through her hair. Sometimes they're just clutching her back for dear life.
It's my opinion that as soon as lips or hands start slipping UNDER clothes that it goes from making out to Heavy Making Out, which can even lead to Petting and of course Heavy Petting.
Like it, love it, go out there and kick some ass. This answer is done.
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It doesn't matter if you rate me high anyways, because your rating doesn't count against my regular rating that would actually change if I were answering a public question. I suggest trying a website called, "[Link](Mouse over link to see full location); & then maybe learn some manners. Don't ever think about asking me a question and putting, "Don't blah blah blah" Because it's dumb. If you want advice, you get what I say, otherwise ask someone else.
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Don't fucking act like you know me. Because, you DON'T. If you did you wouldn't take the time of asking me such a retarded question. I've had plenty of dates in the past, and I'm happy to say I've been seeing someone for a few months now. Why in the hell did you come to me in the first place, if you didn't think I'd help you? You're just pathetic. Grow up a little bit, and gain some respect for others. You don't know me.
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