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this kid i like has gotten a blowjob from a girl. i know that all boys only think about is SEX and alla that. obviously haha! but yeah i dont know what to do? because i feel like i have to do something sexual just for him to like me. and i know "yeah then blow him off" just because he would want something from me..but its not that easy! i mean i wouldnt mind makin out with him ;) i wouldnt feel very comfortable doing anything else tho..
what if he asked me? what do you think i should say if i wasnt ready..
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No! Definitely say no. Don't ever do something like that if you aren't ready for it. Not all guys think about sex though, just a lot do, but honestly. If you think the only way he'll go out with you is if you suck him off - I don't think you should even go there. :) But you should definitely say no, if he asked you & you aren't ready!
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noo! dont do anything your not comfortable with a guy.. that will just screw up things and if this guy really lieks you he will wait. if he askes you just be straight up and say not now or not yet or anything because you dont wanna get used! if he dumps you or doesnt talk to you any more because of it, its his loss, and then you woudlnt have to waste your time on a asshole like that. but if he really does like you he wont rush you into anything
so good luck!
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If you're not ready, then he can't push you into doing that. I mean, the first step to anything, is kissing and then making out! And if he does ask you while you're making out, just say "Well, I'm not comfortable doing that since we're not dating or anything..." Just say something like that, don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. And if he doesn't like that answer, then you seriously need to blow that kid off. I know you like him, I know how that goes, but you don't deserve that!!
I hope this helps and if you need help with anything else, just leave a message in my inbox.
♥ Kourtney
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