me and my mates wen we leave school all say we will go to the same university. i really want to but i also want to do things for myself. i dont no how to tell my mates but hopefully sum 1 out there will help me thanx
well i think you should tell them where you want to go because thahs prolly wat your interested in and stuff like thah rite? i mean you guys can go to the same university and the university you guys choose could be something you want to do for yourself too...ya noe?
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I am going to the 8th grade and I did excellent in the 7th grade . I am so nervous, but I don't know how to feel because, I know it's only natural. So last year I liked this guy ALOT ALOT ALOT because, all I did over the whole year was obsess about him . I used to try to act perfectand all and I really lost my true self when trying to be perfect . Well over the summer, I know who I am and I feel great and all , but I don't want to be in any classes with him because, I know that these feeligs will instantly come back and I'll really want him and it'll be a whole repeat of the 7th grade again . Tell me what to do and how to deal with this because, I big time need you HELP . Thanx . I'LL RATE YOU .
ohmigosh thahs exactly how i was just this past year...the guy i was totally crushin over found out tho at the end of the year and i was able to finally breathe again i gess coz i dunt hab to hold back and try acting all perfect in front of him anymore...so heres the thing....just tell him ASAP...it helps coz then you can just act normal and if he likes you for you then he'll prolly be the one to make the first move...ya noe?
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Hey!I am 14 almost 15(august 17)and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2months.And he says i am perfect and like the "one".And says that we will be together forever.And i feel the exact same way too.And he asked me to marry him and i said yes!But we are not going to get married till we are out of school!But did i do the right thing about saying yes???ill rate you if u answer!~Kristen~
was it like a spur of the moment thing? dont you think thah your like a lil young to anser questions like thah? (no offense er anything) anyways if thahs how ya feel then i gess theres nothing rong...just make soore ya dont change your mind in the footoore...ya noe?
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okay. there is this kid that has been in love with me for like 3 years. he constantly used to bother me at school and on the internet and stuff. not to be superficial or anything like that but this kid smells so bad you can't breathe around him - no lie. two summers ago, he told me he loved me and i said " ew" and he threw a glass bottle at me. after that i didn't talk to him for a while. then i decided i was too mean and decided to talk to him again.. but his obsession with me got HORRIBLE. finally at the end of my junior year he was pestering me and i couldnt take it anymore and i screamed at him to leave me alone. then after school i was walking to work, and i saw him in my field on the way there. i freaked out and didnt know what to do so i let him talk and after that i didnt want anything to do with him because seriously this kid is MESSED UP ( like OCD and anxiety disorder). i just dont know what to do when i go back to school and have to see him again. hellllpppp!
turn him down politely and (if you can stand doing this) tell him youll be his frend and gib him a shot at thah at the least... itd be cruel to turn him down and not hab anything to do with him afterwards...mite as well try and see how he is as a frend...make soore he understands where to draw the line if he wants to be your frend tho coz if not things can get a lil whacky...ya no?
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My best guy friend wanted to kill himself. At least thats what he told me. He said it was because a girl didnt like him. He said that no one cared and that he had already tried before. It really worried me and I told him that I cared. As I was walking to the bus, it really hit me what he had said. When I got on the bus I realized that i liked him as more than a friend. The problem is, the next day he acted as if nothing happened. I'm not sure if he was telling the truth about wanting to kill himself. I'm only 13 but I have liked him for over 5 months. My question is ...........
Do you think you have to be a certain age to love?
no way...you can love wenebe love hits you...you dont hab to wait till your fifteen or anything... if you like him just make soore ya let him noe before someone else does...ya noe?
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my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie
definitely!! if you dont he could go for it agin and thahs not a good thing!! the sooner the better...ya noe?
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Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks.
no one i noe has had this before buh here goes: mehbe you just like your mom more...like you noe how some ppl hab wats called a "favorites list" and like they like those ppl above everyone else...well mehbe subconciously you hab a "favorites list" and your dad just idnt in there..ya noe? latta on youll prolly get oba this whole thing...ya noe?
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I'm 12 and i like to watch soap operas... am i weird??
no way!! soap operas are coo...theres no problem with watchin them!! dont be embarrassed by it!!
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well my friend is spending the night with me!and my sis was going to dothan tomorrow and i was orignally going with her but instead we were gonna see if i could go to my friends house that is spending the night with me i dont know what to do casue i feel bad that i'm not going with my sister who should i go with? my sister or my friend?
i think you should definitely go with your sister first...a) because family should be put first and b) because the plans were originally with your sister and set those plans first
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ok furst of aLL....here thes short ?.....what do you do if a guy you really like who is usually always sweet to you and acts like your boyfriend suddenly starts treating you like you dont mean shit to him??.....and second..my best friend (FOR 10 YEARS) got in a arguemnt and just stopped talking about 2 months ago.......we havent spoken since......she is s0o different now.....she has changed physically like dresses diff and wears sluttier clothes every since she has hang out with this group of people who dont really like me.....and she acts like she hates me and the arguement was so stupid we just got sick of being together 24/7 and stopped talking....now i really miss her and i want to be her friend bc after we gradu ate 8th grade in 8 dayz......i wont c her agen since she doesnt live nex door to me nemore....her family moved to cypress so they live in a diff city but she finishing the rest of this skool yr up and she isnt going to my highskool.....wut do i do since we hav been best friends for 10 years?? i thought our 10 years ment something to her?? should i confront her? what do i say!??!? HELP!!
for the first question about thah guy...totally forget about him...some of his frends coulda pounded a tonna shit in his hed and if hes not gonna be nice then screw him
fer the second one there isnt reallie much to say... just apologize fer watebe happened between you two in the fite eben tho it wadnt your fault...then tell her thah you just missed her and thah she just seemed to like slip away err sumthing... you wouldnt want her to move away with this caught in your mind because you two will prolly be thinkin of it a ton because you guys hab been bff's for like ebe (er ten yrs)...if its as stoopid a fite as you say it is then talk about it and SOON!like before the end of the school yr
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my mom wont let me play the gutire because she thinks its for boys only!!!! isnt that stupid?!?! my friends and i are in a band and i want to learn how to play the gutire! how do i convince her to let me???
ohmigosh thahs exactly how my mom is with sports...she onie lets me do soccer because thahs the onie sport she thinks is decent for both boys and girls... i gess all i can say about this is to talk to her about it...playing the guitar is a lotta fun and you shouldnt hab to miss out on it just coz ur a GIRL!!! so tell her how much fun it is and stuff like thah and gib her an idea of how funn it is...if ur reallie close with her suggest fer her to learn it too er sumthin...ya noe?
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I really really like this guy I'll call Mark, but he's going out with a different girl who I'll call Ruth. Ruth was at her cottage, and she called her best friend, and Mark was at her best friend's house! This is not the first time Mark did this, he cheated on a previous girlfriend with Ruth. The only problem is, how do I tell Ruth? She doesn't know, because her best friend lied and said it was her little brother.
tell it straight...i think thahs the onie way... if she dusnt blieve it then i gess all you can do is wait until she finds out on her own and be there to support her as a frend...
o and cross this guy off your "Crush List" because if he cheats once...you can bet he mite cheat on you too
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well i like this one guy and i think he like me! we talk all the time like on the internet and phone. i asked him one day on the internet if he likes me and didnt answer and signed off! does that mean he and is probebly to shy to answer or he doesnt like me???
dont ask him on the internet coz most probably you wont get a reply or anything like wat just happened...insted ask him in person...then youll see
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My daughter is almost 5 and she has a hard time entertaining herself so I can get dressed for the day or do work around the house. She has a lot of toys but rarely plays with most of them and wants to either watch t.v. or follow us around. It drives me crazy and my husband too, because she comes in our room when we tell her not to. I've threatened to throw out her toys, but it does no good. When we get angry she just laughs at us. We tried closing her up in her room but she just pounds on the door and screams that she is scared. We are expecting another child and we are afraid her behaivior is going to just get worse when the baby comes. She does not behave like this for other family that watches her. Anyone got any advice? Preferably parents who can relate to this situation and have some solutions please.
im not exactly a parent buh ive seen enuff of these cases to noe thah the child prolly just wants more attention from you (the parents)... she could be feeling alone wen playing with her toys and would want company (like a frend or one of you) to play with her...i dunno all the details buh im soore spending more time with her and getting her frends thah can come over and stuff can help...
[since shes 5 she should be starting kindergarten soon rite? encourage her to make frends]
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i'd like to start my own babysitting business. how can i get started??
first talk to neighbors and people you know and ask them if they or someone they noe wants/needs a babysitter
then charge at a minimum price
after a wile the kids will come to noe you and enjoy you and wen theyre parents see the good job your doing theyll most likely recommend you to other ppl as well
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Okay. I am really shy. I am going to 9th grade next year & I want to make new friends. And when it comes to guys, Im super shy. I need advice on how too go up and talk to someone. And what too say. Thanksssss
just be yourself...and at all times just breathe! some ppl just totally freak out and the ending comes out horrible so dont freak... if someone talks to you... talk back...it works
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I never told anyone this but I've been bulimic for 2 years. I know you may say that I should top but I can't. It's so hard, and I don't know what to do and I do not want to see a doctor. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!
uhm all i can say is talk to someone who can probably help you with it...i dont noe your reasonings as to why you dont want to see a doctor buh mehbe thahs the best way to go... holding back from the eatin may cause it to get worse and thah could be a lot more complicated than the stage its in now...
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I am sure that this question has been asked before but I'd like some answers pertaining to my exact situation. I ussually hate online advice forums, but thougth I'd give it a try before I critisize it. Ok, so enough, here's my problem.
My best friend is a girl. She (and I) are 15 years old. I've known her for about two years now. We have been through so much together and help eachother out in so many ways that I see our friendship permanent unless I personally screw it up. When we first met, I immediatly liked her and wanted to date her. When I found out she felt the same way, I planned on asking her out. But some stupid girl found out that she liked me and proclaimed it to the school and also wrote a letter from me (which I didn't write) to her asking her out. Then this menace of a girl embarrased her in front of the entire cafeteria by starting a chant of "ask her out (then my name)". After that, we just became friends and never really brought it up again. It's been two years since then and we have both had at least one boyfriend or girlfriend. I am starting to really like her and it haints me that we never even gave it a shot. But I am not sure if she likes me more than a best friend or if she would agree to go out with me. She is the only person I trust and I can't give her up as a friend, which is why I haven't risked our friendship by asking her out. So, where do I go? What do I do? What do I tell her? What will she say? If she refuses to go out with me, will our friendship be awkward and ruined?
go for it! theres nothin you hab to lose...just because she rejects you dunt mean thah you will both fall out of sync or anything...i cant reallie anser all your questions like "what do i do?" or "what will she say?" buh i think thah things will work out...
if you dont take a chance now you mite reallie regret it latter, and since you hab a chance to NOT regret it then you should take advantage of it wile you can...as i sed theres nothing to lose and if shes your best frend then everythin should stay the same...theres no reason for things to get awkward IF she rejects you...if she dusnt reject you then happy ending and no worries
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You think you got it all but you know you never really do I thought I had it all and than I found out or it just seems that I don't. I have many reason why I just don't act like I do or say this is how I feel how my life is going right now.Maybe u can help me out~Kristen~
tell me if i got this all rong and stuff buh are you saying sumthing about like taking things for granted and how people take YOU for granted and wen you suddenly become different, they become different too?
if ya are theres onie one solution: make new frends thah understand
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ok im 13 and my friend thats 12 and weve been friends ever since like we were 2 and shes a year younger then me n stuff so she used to look up to me and when i was in 7th grade and she was going into 6th she was super scared and so i told her it was no big deal and so ya she did rilly good makin friends n stuff cuz shes like rilly popular so then there is a girl that shes like best friends w/ now and shes like a rilly "bad girl" or however u wanna explain that and she steals drinks n smokes n stuff and shes only 12 too! so then those 2 became rilly good friends n just last weekend she went up to her cabin for a week and my friend since she was w/ her friend got caught stealing drinking and smoking so now im like super mad at her n stuff and shes always like god im sorry it was a mistake and i told her before she went up there to be careful cuz i knew that was gonna happen and it did.. and im super mad at both of them cuz her friend got her into it becuz she told my friend to smoke drink and steal stuff and idk wut to do cuz everytime i try to talk to her about it and try to tell her not to do that ever again and her parents found out and they didnt do anything they just grounded her for a week and then left it at that i mean shes 12 years old and i know shes gonna do it again! and im scared and i dont know wut to do cuz idk how to talk to her if shes gonna tell me not to talk about it.. so wut should i do?! ill rate u for this if u answer this! pleez i need help before she goes n does it again!
if she dusnt want to talk about it with you or anyone else find someone she wants to talk about it with...or find someone she'll talk to about it PERIOD (if its thah bad)...
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