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The guy I'm currently with is a GREAT kisser hes one of the best kissers in town! but i have a problem.... the guy i went out with b4 him was the first guy i made out with and he was BAD!!!! and now im afraid wen i work up the nerve to actually make out with my boyfriend now that I'm gonna b REALLY bad! Im scared as hell and dont no wot to do! see my ex said i was a good kisser but i was the first one he has made out with too and he was bad anyways... and see i have a few friends that said they wod make out with me and tell me if im bad or good or wot not but i cant do that anymore now that i have a boyfriend! Help plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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i dont get why people act like kissing is a sport of some type... its not hard, you'll be fine.
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my bf never talks 2 me at skool...i am his 1st gf ever...and he gets REALLY nervous around me!..wut do i do???...i like him a lot ...but he need s 2 talk 2 me 2! (link)
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um... talk to him ?? what could be more obvious... or dump him..
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Hey, I'm a girl and I'm 14 years old. Okay I'm sure I love guys and everything, but I'm attracted to my best friend and my best friend is also a girl and 13 years old. I know I'm not attracted to any other girls, but her. It's weird because I feel if I could be with her it would be less complex then with a guy and since I know everything about her and she knows everything about me I feel we could be very happy together. I don't look at other girls or watch porno to see girls at all. I flirt with guys but just a lot less now because I'm focused on my best friend and I. I know for a fact if she doesn't want to be with me that way I'll go back to guys and I'll have no regret in my life becuase i went for her. We've experimented 3 times now and liked it time. One time she's wanted me so badly she's licked her lips at me and at the same time stared deep in my eyes craving to touch me. We do have a plan to try to go to college together and live together and get a big house together. We feel very relaxed and happy around each other. My life couldn't feel anymore complete without her. It's like guys are a last resort because I know if I can't have be with her then I'll go for guys. I'm very scared to tell her because if I do she'll be freaked out and wouldn't wanna be best freinds with me anymore or just be around me anymore. Please help a girl out! (link)
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it seems like she is thinkin the same thing that you are, hun... shes your best friend so dont worry! she wont care.. just talk to her about it!!
hope i helped!!
~*~frenchfries21~*~
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ok.. well I have this boyfriend who is about 5 years older than me and everyone is saying that it's wrong and stuff I mean like u no what they say and stuff.. and my friends are just making me choose between him and them and I seriously don't want to choose either.. I no it seems wrong that this guy is 5 years older than me.. but if you only knew him.. he's the sweetest.. most sensitive.. greatest guy in the world.. and I really like him.. he tells me I'm beautiful when we're out in the rain with my makeup running down my face and my hair getting frizzy.. he puts me before everything and I just love him and I dont know what to do.. my friends are giving me shit I really don't need and just making me feel worse.. I don't want to choose between them and I just want him and my friends.. why is it so hard for them to understand that?
ps- 13/f (link)
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well i understand what your sayin... i see how your friends dont want you to stay away from him since that would make him 18.. but i understand how you love him and it doesnt matter how old he is. you also do have to realize this is illegal. i think if you love him then you should try harder to work it out. because i wouldnt give up your friends for him. guys come and go but friends last forever. if they really want you to pick and wont give in then dont pick them... theyll give in.
hope i helped!!
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I was a cutter for about eh, a few months. Then all hell broke loose I was sent away, skip the drama. I've been clean for almost a year..but now more sucky drama is stirring about in my world. I've been thinking about selfharm, but I've still been clean.
Now that you ahve the background...
What can I do with all of my..'emotions'..(did that ever sound cheesy) I already am a poet and a novelest. I pound out on Bass, too...
Danke
-Mistress Maddy (link)
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well maybe try talking to someone... telling them how you feel... seems like you have alot of emotion to let out so let it go.
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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/? (link)
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um... whats wrong with his mom? are you afraid of her? let him call you before you call him. thats the way it works in my mind. but if you really want to then just call. no ones gonna care.
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Me and my boyfriend has been dating for about eight months now and i love him to death.. i mean he is my world, my everything, my one and only, but i feel like i am causing problems for him and his friends who was here before me, i mean he ignores them when i am around and now they are mad at him, and i feel bad i mean i dont want to break up a friendship thats been there for 6 years, i mean she was there before me, but the thing is if he chooses he has to choose one of us because we dont like each other REALLY HATE EACH OTHER.. but like i said i love him and i dont want him to think i am making him choose but i also dont want them to not be friends.. what should i do??? (link)
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tell him he doesnt have to choose. the worst thing you can do in that situation is make the person choose from their bf/gf and their best friend. trust me. my friends want me to pick my best friend or my bf and i dont wanna pick either, its too hard. let him be friends with her but you do come first if your his gf. she can wait to get some time with him when ur not there. let him be friends with her and go out with you.
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hey Im 13/f and im in the 8th grade lately I have been thinking about college and I plan to go. I just dont know whats the best college to apply to in or around NY or not to far away I need to know things about it and like top 10 best thnx (link)
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if your 13 i wouldnt be worrying about what college to go to yet but w/e.. google it
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Ok, I'm 13/f and my parents won't allow me to have a boyfriend. I've tried almost everything!! If any of ya have any ideas to get my parents to think it's ok to let me have a boyfriend, please message me!! (link)
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well if you ask me, your parents dont have to know. my parents dont know about my boyfriend and thats the way i like it. good luck hun,
~frenchfries21~
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ok long story short>>>i got caught shopliftin.....(my friends had nothin to do wit it)......**dont tell me anythin about the shopliftin like its bad or anythin bc i undastand everythin that happened**....but my friends mom is pissed at her bc she is the one i was stealin shit 4....but i still dont want her to take anypart of it ....and im only aloud over her house if i talk to her parents but how would i start up a convo wit her parents?
if you dont mention anything about shopliftin is bad or anythin like that ill rate high...thanx (link)
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just say your really sorry and tell them your never gonna do it again and you hope they wont be mad at you for this mistake and not to take their daughter responsible for it. sorry you got caught! good luck!
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I like your style..you are very mature for your age. You definatly didn't deserve those horrible ratings that those people gave you just because you gave an honest answer. Don't worry about the ratings, just keep answering the questions and if they don't understand that your answers are very helpful, it's their loss. Keep it up kid! (link)
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thanx!! i dont get that alot... leave me ur column and ill take a look at it!
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My heart is broken. My friends do not speak to me. People at school believe I won't fight back. What do I do when nothign is right anymore? It is impossible to be myself. This world is full critics. You think this is overreacting? You're wrong. I don't know how I go from day to day. All eyes that land on me judge me for what I look like. Well, that is completely incorrect. If only you could hear what they say. It does not make me depressed, It is not the people out there, but in my own home which make me weep at night. My own parents! People accuse me of witchcraft, drugs, cutting, and stealing(among other things that don't even cross my mind). How would you feel if everyone you thought loved you, began to look on you with pity and disgust. It's unbearable! What should I do? My nights are dark, but my days are even darker.
Signed-
Longing for the Stars (link)
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believe it or not theres people out there with problems just like you. im one of them. i can tell you i get depressed too. i dont get accused of things like that but i cant stand my parents and i feel like most of my life sucks. the one thing i ever look forward to is weekends. tonight im at home because my mom got really mad at me for stupid shit and now i cant go out. i really want to go out because theres this guy i wanna see and he doesnt go to my school... i never get to see him. i understand how you feel. trapped in a world of people not noticing you at all or people who notice way too much. being bothered by the people all around you and sometimes you just feel like you want them to die. alot of the time actually. believe it or not, theres people out there looking to be your friend. if your current friends dont talk to you then theyre not friends. talk to me more. my aim screen name is: ilive4summer63. i hope you'll talk to me.
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Would you think of your friend defferently if your friend told you that your Bi? and would you still like be friends with them? (link)
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that wouldnt change anything for me! i love all my friends so much that it wouldnt matter to me. nothing would change between us! if your having a problem with something like that leave me another question and id love to help ya!
p.s. do i know you?
~*~french fries 21~*~
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Hi. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but we really have no where to go to have sex. No car no nothing. We're both 16 and my question is, is it wrong to have sex in a movie theater when no one is there? And what happens if someone walks in? And how long does it take your first time? (link)
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movie theater? no, no way. you've gotta be able to find a better place than that. try when one of ur parents go out.
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ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby? (link)
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you need to go to the doctor right away... and i would go to the police too because even if he didnt kill the baby, he could have and even though it wasnt born its still a unborn human life. hope everythin works out!
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Well i've likes this guy for a long time now, and hes told me that he likes me and hes told some of my friends that he likes me, but hes gone out with a couple of gurls already, and i told him i liked him and stuff but he says that i dont show it and that im mean to him and i dont show any effection towards him. and my friends were telling him to go out with me and he was sayin how can i go out with her when shes so mean to me. but i realli realli like him.
i told him once that we should go out and give it a try and see how it goes, and he said thats wat i like to hear. and i asked him so are u gonna go out with me and he said lol and just shut up and stayed on for like 10 min and than left. i was talkin to him on aol.
but i like him.
help me plz. (link)
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ask him for an answer. next time your talking online ask him if he does want to go out with you because ur getting the impression that he doesnt. tell him you really like him and wanna go out with him. hope this helps ya out!!
~*stefie*~
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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alot of guys do just want sex. its a proven fact. if you dont then the girl you go out with will find that out in time. if you dont act like that then no one is gonna assume anything about you. hope i helped!
~~stephie~~
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well i have this friend and one day we started hooking up. After that he asked me if i wanted to keep it between us or tell people and i said keep it between us. We still hook up and we have been for a few months. He hasnt told anyone and i was wondering if hes doing that because he promised me he wouldnt or if hes like embarrassed to tell anyone? .. i dont know because sometimes he flirts with me but sometimes he doesnt really pay attention to me. What do you think? (link)
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maybe you should tell him you think its time to let the secret out and see what he says/does. then if he says no lets keep it a secret ask why. if he says ok then theres your answer. just see what happens and then you can probably figure it out on ur own.
~~xo stefie xo~~
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well i love this kid named phill..when ever i havnt seen him for a long time (1 week) then when i see him i love him!! he just got out of a 1 year relaship (sp) with a girl named gina. phill likes me and stuff..but idk i love him..should i like ask him out or wait a little bit! i rate high
-confused (link)
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well that depends. if he just got out of a one year realationship, if he broke up with gina then go ahead! but if gina broke up with him then i would give it a little time and wait for phill to ask you out. hope it works out!!
~~xo stefie xo~~
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for any of you on AIM.. there's a virus going around saying "PICS ON THE BEACH" and it gives a website.. i accidentally clicked it because someones profile popped up while viewing a website, and now i have this virus and i have no idea how to get rid of it! it pops up as an away message, and i tried using my anti-virus software, and it won't let me use it! i used my ad-aware and it said i had nothing! does anybody know how to get rid of it ? im me if u need to see the thing (shad 0 w x5) .. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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omg the same thing is happening to me... if you find out how to get rid of it please tell me!
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