well i have this friend and one day we started hooking up. After that he asked me if i wanted to keep it between us or tell people and i said keep it between us. We still hook up and we have been for a few months. He hasnt told anyone and i was wondering if hes doing that because he promised me he wouldnt or if hes like embarrassed to tell anyone? .. i dont know because sometimes he flirts with me but sometimes he doesnt really pay attention to me. What do you think?
frenchfries21 answered Monday February 21 2005, 12:52 pm: maybe you should tell him you think its time to let the secret out and see what he says/does. then if he says no lets keep it a secret ask why. if he says ok then theres your answer. just see what happens and then you can probably figure it out on ur own.
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Karen answered Monday February 21 2005, 12:09 pm: This guy is keeping his promise, like he said he would. If you told him that you want to keep this between you two, then he is. I don't think he is embarrassed, he probably just doesn't want anyone to know that you are easy and you are just hooking up while you two aren't in a relationship.
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Teza answered Monday February 21 2005, 12:04 pm: i think that hes keeping his promise and not to tell anyone because you said to keep it between u guys. but why dont you want any1 to know? x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
gsngirl7 answered Monday February 21 2005, 12:01 pm: He's just keeping his promise. If you asked him to then he is a great guy for keeping his promise. Hope my advice helps! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Monday February 21 2005, 11:44 am: He's being nice and keeping his promise. Would you rather have him tell everyone that you are easy and he can sleep with you without any sort of commitment? Why are you asking this question? Is it because you are embarrassed? [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
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