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I've been on and off with this kid for over a year and right now i guess were "together" but anyways, me being really curious and in a way physoctic ,went onto his facebook, like hacked in. I read his inbox and like wall to wall with girls and he acts like hes single and talks dirty to them and it got me soo upset. Like one wall to wall with a girl was like bring a friend, (basically for him)? We go to different schools and barely see eachother so as far as i know he could be living a whole different life, trying to hit on girls and stuff. The problem is i cant confront him and tell him because he'd know and i know what him to find out i hacked in. Anyways i dont know what to do? ahh!
This actually happened to me before. I was with a guy for a year and I didnt even know he had an email until I saw it on one of his papers for school one day. So i went and hacked into it and there was a bunch of emails from girls talkin about dirty stuff, just like your boyfriend. I came right out with it to him and told him I hacked into it and said what I had to say about. Of course he tried denying it but theres not much he could deny. But thats what I did and that would be my advice to you. Tell him u know and saw it all and see what he has to say for himself. Good luck.
what are some pretty good make up buys that i could get from dollar tree and 99 cents store? thanks
I like wet 'n' wild. the products are cheap but they dont work like theyre cheap. their concealer works awesomeeee!
17/f
so.. my mom and i. not the happy campers. me and her always argue. she has done a tremendous amount of emotional damage to me. my father does nothing due to the fact that he is scared of my mother and would rather agree than pick a fight.. 17 years.. and she has over protected me.. which isnt really a good thing.. she has turned into a control freak who will yell and scream and complain till he has broken an eardrum.. this woman hits.. she says things i dont think children are supposed to hear from their mothers.. you'd think she is a stepmother. basically my home life is not where i want to be. ill be graduating hs june 2009, and i have been planning to move in with my bf after hs. only problem is my mother. i'd probably lose her and my father for the rest of my life.. what do you guys think? become independent although not an easy trip once high school is over? or put up with her and eventually get thrown out , yelled at, and hit because i do not meet her standards? what are my options? what can i do? i know moving in with him isnt the best idea. but it seems the best so far. someone give me a little guidance?
thanks =/
losthope
I think that you should sit down and think real long and hard about what will make YOU happy. what the best thing for YOU is. Not your mother, or your father, or your boyfriend, but YOU. Even make a list of pros and cons for both of these situations and any other situations you can think of. Did you ever think about going away to college? Maybe that could be an option for you. But dont just think about the time being. Think about the long run. Any whatever decison you make, the people who truly love and care about you will be there in the end even if the dont agree with it at the time being. Your the only person who has to live the rest of your life. Make the best of it.
Im going to be moving to Philly to be with my boyfriend sept 1. i just go my tounge pierced on thursday the 7th. I want to know if you think it woud be okay to give him oral sex and if so is there a certain way i can do it so it wont hurt me? Also i was wondering if september 1st is too soon to give him oral sex? Thank you
I think you'll be fine. Tongue piercings only take like a week to heal. Theyre the fastest healing piercings. I gave oral sex to a guy the day after i got mine. So like 3 weeks later is absolutely fine.
Okay, I was dating this guy who I was with for two years (we're not together anymore).
I lost my virginity to him, but honestly I didn't enjoy having sex with him.
I'm trying to make this as clean as possible, because I really don't want to break the rules, but I need help.
Anyway, he would want to do it all the time, but if I said I didn't feel like it, he'd tell me to stop being selfish and that sometimes you have to put your feelings aside for the one you love.
So, sometimes I'd give in, but sometimes I'd keep saying no, and he'd as if he could just "put it in" once so he could go and take care of it himself or something. Sometimes I'd let him, sometimes I wouldn't.
But one time when I did let him, he didn't just do it once, so I told him to stop, and he didn't. So I kept telling him to stop and eventually I was crying and he held my arms down so I couldn't fight him until he came...
Now he's trying to say it wasn't rape because I willingly let him put it in, and he tried to say I liked it, which I swear I didn't. I was crying the whole time.
I know it's probably a stupid question, and I'm not planning on going to the police or anything because it happened about a year ago, I just need to know for my own sake if that would be considered rape or not.
Thanks.
Im no lawyer or anything but in my opinion yes it would be rape. Because of the fact that you told him to stop and not only did he not stop but he held you down and took advantage of you. I really hope your not still with this guy. He desnt sound like the type of person you should want to be with.
I'm 17/f and sexually active with my boyfriend of almost a year.
My vagina lets out discharge, and yes this is gross, but its only a little yellowish when i have to hold my pee or something. and also, like after i masterbate, it itches. & i rarely masterbate & it hasn't itched in awhile-
but not when i have sex with my boyfriend?
do i have a yeast infection?
If you had a yeast infection you would know it. You would be CRAZY itchy and a really thick discharge. So I dont think you have one but if your not sure you can go to a doctor or just buy the at home treatment kits like monistat. If you have one that will take care of it.
Okay I have a physical on Monday (in 2 days) at my family's doctor. Every year I go for physicals so that I can play sports. I always have to pee in the cup. If the last time I smoked weed was yesterday (FRIDAY) .. do they even take the pee for a drug test? Or do they just check for other stuff that could be in there and not for drugs? I've been having to pee in a cup since I was little, so I'm pretty sure that peeing in a cup wasn't for just a drug test. Help.. I'm FREAKING out.
Your right peeing in a cup isnt only for drug tests. They do it to check for a bunch of other things. If its a physical for sports it may be possible that they drug test it depending on the school. I know my old high school drug tested the athletes. But if you just drink water continuously under your pee runs clear, you'll be fine. You can clean your system out in as little as 2 hours. But once you clean it out dont smoke until after the physical! Dont stress tho.. you'll be fine.
o.k. i hate it when at the mall or stores the sales person always ask me if i need help and they talk to me like they know me. i dont want to be rude so i say no but it seem like they only do it to make you spend more money. and that makes me mad. would anyone angry that is annoying and what would you do to like put an end to it.
I %100 agree with the other answer. I was an employee at a retail store in a mall before and it is the JOB to go up and talk to the customers. Yes it can be irritating sometimes when you just want to look on there own but deal with it. They get in trouble by managers if they dont do what your saying is to "irritating". There is a lot more things in the world that are a lot worse and more irritating than a mall employee approaching you and asking if you need help finding something or offering to show you new products. If you dont want to talk to them, say "No thank you, but I'll let you know if I need anything."
15/F
I have hypothyroidism, depression, PMDD, hypoglycemia and we dont have it all fixed yet but close.
My doctors said the only thing we can really do at this point is wait for the meds to kick in which could take like FOREVER, and get me on a good sleeping schedule: ten hours of sleep going back a half hour each week.
But I have to be in homeroom by 7:25 and I take quite a while to get ready. I barely have time for breakfast which I NEED.
My school said I can have lunch and study block first period and just come in after that, but Id be missing out on all those people, morning pep rallies, which wouldnt help my self esteem. NO I cannot stay for afterschool activites.
SO do you guys wake up "fully refreshed" each morning, like I think Im supposed to? And how do you make TIME for so much going on?? I needneedneed to be ready this year :[
Ive almost failed 8th and 9th grade by absenteeism [whole second semester] and Im running out of advanced courses. Arrgh, HELLLP!
I dont think that any high school school student wakes up "fully refreshed". I know I definately didnt when I was in high school. I struggled to get out of bed each morning. I understand that these problems you are having is not your fault but you are the only one that can do something about it. If the school is willing to work with you than great. But if you dont want to accept their offer because of missing out on the social activies then its up to you to do something else. You need to make sacrifices. Like if you take long to get ready, then do what you can at night like shower and your hair and things liek that so that you just have to do quick touch ups in the morning. There may be some things you will have to cut out of your morning routine. Try to be in bed by 10:00 at the latest. And like I said,dont expect to feel "fully refreshed" because I've never experienced that one day of my life when I was in school.
14/F
Everybody knows how guys look at lesbian things, right? Like, playgirl or something? People consider that normal for a guy or whatever. Well, what about a girl who looks a gay guy things? See, I have met a lot of gay men in my 14 years of life. They're really nice to talk to and interesting to hang out with. Just recently, I discovered, yes only just discovered, that there is such thing as yaoi, Japanese for gay porn.
Well, I was flipping through pictures of anime yaoi. You know, because it's techincally not as GRAPHIC as the normal kind of stuff... ANYWAY, I found an interest in writing the yaoi for homosexual friends of mine. I got very good reviews on the stories so far and it makes them feel good knowing that somebody out there actually enjoys their... Interests, I guess is the word? Well, some people disagree with it. I don't mind. ^^ Also, I was just wondering, is it considered a bad thing that I am interested in this 'gay' stuff? I mean, I never thought of it as bad until a friend of mind said so. Please help me with this. ^^;
-Cheesecake
It is completely normal. Everyone is into different kinds of things. I am a bisexual female and my girlfriend enjoys male gay porn. Its only weird if you think its weird. Dont let any one else tell u that what your into or enjoy is weird. Thats for you to decide.
umm so me nd my b/f kinda had sex i dunno. like he got a condom nd when we're doing it he couldn't go in all the way. i noe thats really embarrassing. but he wuz really hard. nd i wuz rlly tight.. nd i wanna noe what can i do to make it more loose so he can go in all the way. and umm also even if he didn't go in all the way that means still that im no a virgin nemore right? please helpp ASAP!!
There is not much you can do to make yourself looser. Just try to relax if you try having sex again and the only other thing u can do is have him use his hand before you have sex. Have him use more fingers than usual. That will stretch you out a little bit. But the main thing is to relax because if your tense that only makes it worse. As far as still being a virgin.. I cant really answer that for you. Thats something you should base on your own opinion. Its your body.. no one elses. Good luck!
my friend got her cartilage pierced and ridiculously got it done by her friend who is not a professional. everything was sterilized but it's been about a week and a half and he ear is red, infected, and there's like puss surrounding the ear. on top of it, the earing got pushed into her ear so she's in complete pain.
my question is how can she take it out the least painfully way? she CANNOT go to the hospital today and it's really bad. please any help would be wonderful.
Make a salt water solution and keep dipping a clean paper towel in it and hold it on the piercing. That will help with the pain and irritation. She can keep doing this for as long as she wants but after a little bit make a new solution because you want to keep it warm and you dont want any of the infection being transferred from the paper towel back into the solution. After that just take it out as quickly but gently as possible. And again keep putting the salt water on it even after you remove the stud. Hope this helps. Let me know how it goes!
16/f
im bisexual and i admitt im not a virgin
i have different feelings for guys and girls
Guys: it feels better to do it with a guy than a girl
Girls:im more attracted to a girl than a guy and they turn me on more than a guy does
for the past 3 yrs ive been bi and for the past 1ish years its been getting awkward for me, lately everytime i see a naked guy i have to cough out the gag so i wont affend the guy. AND its been getting harder and harder to be turned on enough for a guy even to get in me in the first place...
the question is am i a future lesbo?
You could be a lesbian. You could be bisexual. you could even be straight and just be curious or exploring. The point is that you dont really need to know exactly what your sexual orientation is right now. just do what you feel comfortable with and what is goin to make you happy. dont stress about it. youll figure it out sooner or later but u dont need a label.
I am female, 21years old and from South-Africa. My boyfriend was biosexual before we've met,as he told me.We have a serious relationship know and i love him alot,butI am scared he will turn gay after a few years. Should i rather leave him know,or just accept him for who he is?
if you can deal with that accept it. its not going to change. he wont turn gay he'll just be bi forever. but obviously he's happy with you and wants to be with you. but if u cant accept it, tell him. he is who he is and u cant change that.
i'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 22 and he wants to have sex but i dont and he sead ''if we dont then we have to stop going out'' but truely love him and we have been going out for 2 years but if we did have sex he it would be rape right cuz i'ma minnor and thats why i dont want to and i told him that but he still wants to i would have sex but it's illegal so i dont know what to do should i have sex or not (keeping in mind we love each other)????
-Bryona
if he really loved you he wouldnt tell you that you need to have sex with him. he would wait until you were ready. what hes doing and saying to you is wrong. and your right it is illegal. if he were to get caught he would be put in jail. dont give in. do what is best for you. if he really does care for you, he'll still be there. if he leaves then your much better off without him and you can find someone that will respect you and your decisions much more. Good luck
Today at summer school one of the guy came up to me and the following conversation ensued:
Guy: Hey Laura, can you hold something for me?
Me: What?
When he said that, he also made held out his hand and made some weird gesture with it. I've seen it before but I have no idea what it means, if it means anything at all. The gesture basically looks like this: http://i34.tinypic.com/2l8izpx.jpg
So if anyone knows what that hand signal thingy means, would you kindly explain it to me? Thanks.
its doesnt mean anything. its a joke ppl do to get u to look at it. Your not supposed to look at it. I dont know its stupid but it doesnt mean anything and it doesnt mean fuck off. whoever said that is dumb.
over vacation i met a guy we both liked eachother then became bf gf. then we loved eachother an would say it alot. then outa nowhere he stopped talkin to me an wont answer his phone or a text. then he blocks me on myspace n erases all my comments. hes a jerk an i get hurt to much but i just cant ever get over stuff. im pretty much over him but what can i do. but i did send him a new friend request on myspace with the note sayin what did i do an why are u so pissed please call me. stupid i know, i have no way to talk to him. i know hes a jerk but we both loved eachother soo much, what can i do? he lives to far away
It sounds to me like it was just a summer fling. Maybe not for you but definately for him. If he really wanted anything to do with you he wouldnt have done all those things. My advice for you is to take the hint he's trying to give you and move on. Youll be better off.
f/17
My bf (18) does the cutest things for me. during school, he filled my locker with a bunch of balloons and chocolate and stuffed animals and confetti and when I opened it, everything came pouring out and a sign popped out that said i love you. Another thing he did was write cute little messages on a million rose petals that led to my front door. I constantly find little love notes in random places whenever he comes over or in my car. one time he wrote all over his body, supposedly to support his sister's soccer game and there was ink alllll over him and then at midnight we rode our tandem 2-seat bike to the lake and we swam and when he got out of the water, everything washed off except for I love you on his abs. He wrote everything but that in washable marker. The first two months we went going out, we climbed into a treehouse in his friends neighborhood and he took out his guitar and sang to me. He does cute things like this all the time and it just makes me feel so special and all i do is cook him food and give him back rubs sometimes. I love him so much and I feel bad like he does so much for me and i can't think of anything creative and cute and I really want to. I really wanna show him I care as much as he shows me. Nothing sexual, either. Any ideas??
I would do something like make a little book for him of like 100 reasons why you love him. or make him a scrapbook of things from your relationship. you could try writing him a poem if ur good at that type of thing. or even just writing him a letter telling him what he means to you and expressing your feelings for him. you could make him a cd of all the songs that remind you of him. or make him a little coupon book filled w/ things like 100 kisses or a back massage or like if theres something he likes doing that u dont give put one in there about that. Hope these ideas helped. And by the way your really lucky to have a bf like that. Hold onto him!!
We were chatting online because I ask her to meet me on the chat room after her class because I needed to talk to her. When she did I told her I am bi sexual and have feelings for her. We chatted for an hour about my self coming out and my emotion depression I was dealing with. She said she was fine with me coming out and that I like her she supported me, she even told she is sexual confused herself. After that she ask if she can come over I ask why and she said I don’t have to if you want me to. I told her I didn’t mind. She had to get off online because she was going to work. So she came by then we watch TV. she was there for 30 mins then left to go to work.Nothing happen and we didn’t talk much just only about the movie. But why did she come over? I felt awkward because I told her how I felt about her. I am bisexual girl.
Probably because she is fine with you coming out and supports you just like she said.
Dont get so worried.
me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more.
OKay I think that you and all the other people that answered this question and being naive. Do you think tha your boyfriend would admit that he was cheating to you? Doubt it. If this person is really your best friend then why would she want to hurt you. Friends are there to help you not sabotage your relationships. Wouldnt she want to see you happy? And just because no one else saw it doesnt mean that its not true. And how would you feel if he was cheating on you and she knew it and didnt tell you? Im sure you would be mad about that. Give her a break. And if your still unsure do some detective work and find out if hes cheating yourself. But dont just take his word for it.