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dealing with a jerk of a bf
over vacation i met a guy we both liked eachother then became bf gf. then we loved eachother an would say it alot. then outa nowhere he stopped talkin to me an wont answer his phone or a text. then he blocks me on myspace n erases all my comments. hes a jerk an i get hurt to much but i just cant ever get over stuff. im pretty much over him but what can i do. but i did send him a new friend request on myspace with the note sayin what did i do an why are u so pissed please call me. stupid i know, i have no way to talk to him. i know hes a jerk but we both loved eachother soo much, what can i do? he lives to far away
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you need to let him go because if he cut you out of his life there is obviously something very dangerous going on in his mind. think of it as a gift that he is removing himself from your life. don't even worry about why he did what he did, you are better off devoting your attention to someone who deserves it! :)
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It sounds to me like it was just a summer fling. Maybe not for you but definately for him. If he really wanted anything to do with you he wouldnt have done all those things. My advice for you is to take the hint he's trying to give you and move on. Youll be better off.
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Firstly, get the idea that you both loved each other, YOU did, he NEVER did!! When guys REALLY do love someone, they NEVER do something like that... And it is just real honesty!
So take away that idea, and face a fact, he NEVER loved you and he LIED! The fact that he lied shows that you shouldn't be wasting your time with him because he, firstly, doesn't appreciate you and, secondly, he doesn't care!
So I suggest you be strong, for yourself and go out with your girlfriends, and just force COMPLETE over-him! I feel that you aren't COMPLETELY over him because you still think you two love each other. So go out and hang out and stuff, meet new guys and get flirting or whatever! Forget about him, he isn't worth it! And you definitely aren't worth being treated so ridiculously!
For future, try not to 'please' or use any of those words when someone like this guy has ignored you, if he wants to talk to you, he will go out of his way to, so don't plead or force, it wil happen if it has to. Basically, let him think and feel, this way, you are much stronger and he will be able to see the fact that you aren't someone he can just hurt and leave!
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Well since he lives so far away, he possibly [i don't really know] doesn't care about your feelings. How long did you guys hang out on vaca? If it was like one night, then he could of been using you. Or he could of thought you were something else. But because you guys say "I love you" a lot, he could be just throwing that around. Did he ask you out that night that he met you? I need a little more info. here to help you, you can inbox me.
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