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I like this guy but my sis tryed to hook us up then he said no because i dated his bro and he sait it would be oquard but i got money to go out with his bro and i never liked him but what do i do i am so depressed i wont do any thing like work.
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ok, the first thing you need to do is talk to the guy, you cant have a relationship if you first dont establish a relationship with him. Then you need to explain with him that (in a kind way) you were never really interested in his brother that way and that you went on a couple dates with him to help someone out (DO NOT SAY YOU WERE PAYED!!!). Talk to him in a hallway 3 times then give him your number, say "just so we can finish our conversation" you should talk with him for at least 30 minetes (in one phone call) but make sure this isnt you first phone call with him. you can then bring up a group thing, and invite him, if he comes you can invite him to dinner with you, your sister and her boyfriend. And finally if that all goes well you can ask him to the park or mall with you as just friends (dont stess the words just friend otherwise he may think you dont like him), and eventully you can make a move on him like taking his hand or hugging him for something he did to make you happy. Then you ask him on a date. sry it is so long, but you have to fix alot!
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First off, why would you do something that hurtful to go out with someone? A guy did that to me and i liked him a lot, i got really hurt when i heard that he used me for a deal/dare. But thats not the question.
Well, don't tell him you used his brother for money, he might find that as a bitchy thing to do, and because of that people can look at you as a girl that does stupid stuff like that, and no guy would want go out with you. You're going to rate me a lot lower because i said that, but it's the truth and it's reality. Maybe if you didn't do something so stupid that pretty much ruined your chance with him, maybe right now you guys would be in a happy relationship and you wouldn't be depressed and he wouldn't be bothered by your sister.
here is what i would do:
try talking to him, saying that you thought his brother was something else [yes, you might have to say a white lie]. Tell him to ask his brother is he would mind if he went out with you. That is a start. Then if he minds, try being really close friends, like a complicated relationship, you wouldn't say you're going out but you act like it. If he says no to that then im guessing he doesn't really see you as a girlfriend ://
im sorry, good luck!
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