umm so me nd my b/f kinda had sex i dunno. like he got a condom nd when we're doing it he couldn't go in all the way. i noe thats really embarrassing. but he wuz really hard. nd i wuz rlly tight.. nd i wanna noe what can i do to make it more loose so he can go in all the way. and umm also even if he didn't go in all the way that means still that im no a virgin nemore right? please helpp ASAP!!
Additional info, added Wednesday July 30 2008, 5:16 pm: and i was bleeding down there too so yeah... . Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? LiLMAMAx answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 4:58 pm: No, it's not embarrassing that he couldn't go all the way in. It's normal for a lot of girls during their first time. The only thing that can make you a little looser is getting "fingered" a few times before sex. Also, technically you are a virgin until your hymen breaks [your cherry popped] you know when that happens when you bleed after sex, or any other sexual actions. Also, I've learned that your hymen can break from sports but that doesn't mean your not a virgin. Honestly, you're a virgin until you have actual sex. Good luck sweetie. ♥ [ LiLMAMAx's advice column | Ask LiLMAMAx A Question ]
elw5039 answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 4:06 pm: There is not much you can do to make yourself looser. Just try to relax if you try having sex again and the only other thing u can do is have him use his hand before you have sex. Have him use more fingers than usual. That will stretch you out a little bit. But the main thing is to relax because if your tense that only makes it worse. As far as still being a virgin.. I cant really answer that for you. Thats something you should base on your own opinion. Its your body.. no one elses. Good luck! [ elw5039's advice column | Ask elw5039 A Question ]
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