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< I am a Christian and I am a mother >Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.
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Let me just start out by saying, I am a firm believer in God. He is my life, and I love him so much. :D But, you see, I was raised in a Christian household. I grew up being told that Jesus was my savior, and God was my Father. I never questioned anything. Until now. I am known amongst my friends as the religious one, the one they know to NEVER offer a drink or cigarette to. Ever. ;D I have strong ideals of what is right and wrong, and a strong conscience, of which I believe to be God guiding me. So being known as that person, my friend not long ago once came to me with a dilemma, asking me all these questions about Jesus, God, etc. I had not the slightest clue of how to answer. All my faith in Him wasn't born, it was always there. I hadn't been convinced of his presence. There was never any question. So therefore, I have no facts or anything. No shield against the questions of curious people! I only have/need love, and feelings of His presence to convince me. You can't really debate with feelings, lol. Anyway, I've recently realized; All these years of just assuming and stuff, and only dealing with God, I have no idea what the Holy Spirit is! I also have no relationship with Jesus. Which has made me realize: I'm a lukewarm. I'm a poser. I've gone through my life believing I was a true christian, and now it's sorta hit me like a ton of bricks. So after all those words, here's my question: How are all three really connected? Are Jesus and God the same thing? But, why did Jesus refer to God as "The Father" if he WAS God? If they're all the same thing, what's the point of having three different things? I'm so confused. I pray to God like he's my best friend, and my dad. We're pretty tight. But when it comes to Jesus... I don't understand! When I pray to God, am I praying to Jesus too? But the Bible says if I don't know Jesus, I might as well not know God. So according to the Bible, it doesn't matter that I trust and believe in God as much as I do if I don't have a relationship with Jesus? I mean I know Christ is the only way but... UGH. -Face/palm- I've looked it up on Google, The Father, Son, and Holy Spirit thing? But I've only gotten either huge, complicated answers, or useless historical answers. I've prayed to God about it, and I think Advicenators is where He's telling me to go to. I need a human to human ANSWER, ya know, that ANSWERS my question? So can someone simply answer my questions without any unnecessary crap or anything, like stupid Wikipedia? LOL. Thank you, my sanity depends on you! OH, side question, when I'm worshiping God in song, this unknown wave of emotion flows in my chest, and all my questions fade away, and it's as if He's looking down on me, and it's calm and serene... Is this rational, and normal? My brain's not making that up, is it? xDDD!
I felt the same way you did. I was adopted at age two and my family was already a Christain family so I basically dove right in. I never knew anything about other religions just that I am a Christian and thats what you have to be to be saved. It wasn't until I got married, had a family of my own, and started struggling through life that I truly found Jesus for myself. I think you are doing a great job. You don't demand respect you COMMAND respect from your peers in that they know not to use certain language around you or suggest certain activities in your presence or what have you. That says a lot.
Ok, the Holy Spirit. I believe that the Holy Spirit is kinda like an invisible guide. You know that feeling you get from music? I get that same feeling. I think thats one instance where we encounter the Holy Spirit. Noone can take that away from us. God gave us the Holy Spirit because we go through alot of crap day in and day out. Society pulling at us every "which a way" but that feeling we can't describe God gave to us to hold us to keep us to remind us. But as I said the awesome thing about it no body can take that. It's a feeling that unless you felt it you won't understand. Another example might be lets say you had the worst day, you're hungry, tired, and it's hot. You are in the worst mood but then you see a little old lady slip and fall. You rush over to her and help her up and make sure she's ok. Well you totally forgot (at least at that moment) about all your troubles. You were concerned for the little old lady. Thats the Holy Spirit. What else can change your mind, your heart to look outside yourself to care for another in the midst of your own problems?
Now Jesus, I think although God and Jesus are One. God has us to pray to him through Jesus Christ for this reason; Jesus was put on earth to save us from our sins right. Ok, but Jesus was also made into a real man. He needs to eat, drink, and sleep. He has real feelings, emotions, love, caring, compasion cries, hurts, and sorrow. So I think God wants to show us that although times are tough we can make it. Jesus did and so can we. Also to be a Christian is to be CHrist like correct. If Christ is God I'm wondering are we supposed to live right ask for forgiveness to be one with the Lord as well? Do you think God's whole plan was to make humans to be part of him. I don't want to cross a line and say we are God, because clearly we are not but do you think that was God's intent for all to be one with him as Jesus is?
You have opened my eyes up to a lot of questions I didn't even know I had and even some ahha momments I think. WOW! I think trying to answer your questions has helped me more than I have helped you. lol
Please let me know if this helped and I'd love some feedback regarding my last question about being one with God.
So, like the title says, I have a terrible memory. It's really bad. I've just turned seventeen, and I'm a girl. Okay, so it's bad to the point of where someone will ask me a question, and 3 seconds later it will fade away, and I won't remember what they asked. Or, I'm in mid-sentence or story, and I'll forget what I was talking about. I also can't remember things from two or three years ago. It's all a fuzzy blur. I'll read a book and forget some of the plot. I'll get up to get something, and when I get there, I'll forget what on earth I was doing. Or, I'll put some water on the stove to boil, and a minute later I'll forget I'm cooking, and then in 10 minutes smell something weird and realize my water is all evaporated and burned. Or, "Hey Ashley, (Made up name.), can you unload the dishwasher for me? Thanks." -Twenty minutes later- "ASHLEY, you didn't unload the dishwasher!" "I didn't what...? OH crap I forgot!!". I'm known among my friend's for having a terrible memory, but it's like, really scary sometimes. If this has anything to do with it, I don't drink pop a lot, but I do get head aches A LOT, and I get dizzy often. I don't want to make a big deal out of it, so I haven't asked my doctor. I have told my mother, but she waved it off as just me being me. But it's getting to the point where I put something somewhere, and I come back and it isn't there, but no one has touched it, so I must've done something with it! And it's happening way too much and too often now... It's gotten worse over the years. So, I'm just wondering if I should be concerned, or if it's just a normal teenager thing. Help would be appreciated, thanks!
I am very worried for you because of the head aches and dizzy spells. These two symptoms can be indicative of something very serious going on. Please go see a doctor. The memory loss could be right along with the other two symptoms I just don't know. But this is your life. Your brain is a very sensitive organ one in which we can not wait around and see what happens. Before it gets worse please go see a doctor and follow up with all appointments. Some times you have to be persistant with doctors. At times they are quick to write you off as having an ear infection or something else not too serious. But this is your life and you deserve a great quality of life. Don't let the doctors cast you aside. You are a real person that matters and your health is all you have if nothing else so promise me you will see a doctor. PLEASE!
im 18 my boyfriend of three years is moving back to england in like 6 weeks. i really dont know what to do im staying home to go to college beacuse for the obvious reasons i shouldnt run away with a boy even thou i really love him and dont know how im going to cope with out him because i went from seeing him everday for three years for maybe two years to maybe seeing him 2 times a year. i want to go see him in december when i have my winter break because its so long hopeing i have the money. i just dont really know what to do right now how to handle it i dont know.
This has be be so tough on you right now and I am so sorry. I think however, that you will be surprised at how time will quickly help you deal with his absence so much easier. I know right now it doesn't seem like it but you will be happy again in no time. I think the best thing to do is stay connected and plan your visits. Your time together when you guys are able to visit one another will be so great. You will be so excited and the love will be so strong as if you just met. However, use this time away to explore who you are what you enjoy and meet new people and try new things. Don't spend your time depressed worrying about a situation you can not change right now. I think you are such a strong and intelligent girl. Do you know how many girls are willing to jepardize their future by chasing after a man rather than focusing on themselves first. I am so proud of you for loving yourself and realizing how much you are worth. You are doing a great job making very wise decisions. I think eventually love will bring him back and you both will be in a great place to settle down and be together. But please enjoy your youth. Everyday I wish I could go back and relive my early 20s. I would have enjoyed my freedoms and taken advantage of so many opportunities. But, you can't go back so remember now is the time of your life. Go to school, meet new friends, travel, sky dive. . . do it all and have fun. You'll be ok, I promise.
if a friend had cheated me then what to do
I've had a lot of "friends" cheat me over my life time. I think you have to decide if your friendship is worth over looking the issue or not. If it's a money issue I would suggest that now you know what kind of person they are so you can no longer trust them with your money or to pay you back. Each friend you must take in consideration the length of time you've been friends, how much they mean to you, if the way they have wronger you is just too much to look past and if they are worth keeping around. Perhaps this friend is fine for getting together to play basketball for example but not to have watch your house when you are away. Does that make sense. I hope I have helped. But if your question is how to get back what you've been cheated please send me more information and I would be happy to give any advice I might have. Good luck . . .
i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 months. we've been long time friends, and dated once before, but now its becoming more serious. lately, he's been getting tutored by his ex girlfriend. she goes over to his house, and he goes to hers all the time. they used to have a really close relationship, and now its getting back on track. he says i have nothing to worry about and he wont ever go back to her. i feel very jealous and insecure. i dont know what to do. please help.
It's absolutely disrespectful for him to be spending time with his ex for any reason. Your feelings of jealousy and insecurity are not unreasonable. He has put you and your relationship in a very uncomfortable and unfair situation. This should have never happened and I'm so sorry that it did. Whatever his ex was tutoring him in could have been done by another tutor. Trust me when I say this was all just an excuse to have time with the ex. In relationships where your boyfriend/girlfriend matter you simply just don't put yourself in positions that would raise questions of being faithful. If he truly cares about you and your relatiosnhip he will let the ex go and focus on you. If I were you I wouldn't accept this at all.
hi(: im 15 years old almost 16. I hate when people say the reason why you have acne is because your growing up! im not sure if its acne but i have bumps on my forhead. i don;t really stick with face washes for that long but they never work. maybe the first day they do but then stop. my sister has the same thing as me maybe a little better and she was to lazy to wash her face so she stopped and it has been getting a little better. im not sure if i should do that to. any reccomendations. and my parents won't bring me to the dermotologist or anything so please help!(: thanks(:
I've found the best solution is to use the brand Purpose. I use the cleansing bar and the moisterizer. It's important that you wash your face at least once a day but also to not wash too much. Too much or too little is not good.
Some other tips: if you wear makeup be sure to use a different makeup applicator everytime. Also be sure to use a different wash cloth with each face wash.
I am a girl age 19 and my boyfriend is turning 18. He is my best friend and I do think I have love for him, but lately I don't want to be tied down anymore and I've started to wish I was single. It's not really my boyfriends fault, but since I've been dating him, I don't do things I used to love and I don't really see my friends as much as I would if I didn't have such a close relationship with my bf. He's such a sweet guy and I'm lucky to be dating him, so I felt like I should be honest and tell him I need space. So I did and i thought things were better, but now he says we "need to have another talk" and he concluded that he feels kinda like im using him just so that i am not alone...since I want to date him but I don't want to be like super clingy and super committed and telling him I want to stay with him forever and ever. Do you think I should try and work it out with him since he is such a great guy, or should we break up because we both want different things? My family says I should work things out or at least wait it out because they know how close we have been.
You are so young. You have not experienced the world or even gotten the opportunity to meet new people. I think you did just right by letting him know you needed space. Why be tied down before you even know who you are? You have the rest of your life to settle down and be in a committed relationship. Right now is your time to live, learn, and have fun. He's a nice guy, ok thats all fine and well but what does that have to do with you? When you are ready to settle down if he is still available then great if not then it wasn't meant to be. But don't give of your youth so soon. HAVE FUN!
Ok I'm 13 year old girl and I'm Horney and have no boyfriend. But I want to know how to masturbat but idk how. I'm so held in from EVERYTHING so pls don't judge me. Just anser my question. How can I masturbate???
You are on the wrong sight. It's obvious you are not 13 nor are you a girl. AS a matter of fact all of your posts will now be flagged and reported.
my old orthodontist is claiming i owe him a large remaining balance when i know for a fact i paid everything up front ($5,000) to be exact! anyways, i moved to a new state and i wanted to know if i am able to go to a new orthodontist without having my records sent over because my old ortho said he refuses to send the records unless i pay it all off. i don't care how much it costs, i just really need to find a new ortho who will work with what i have. thank you all in advance.
I would explain the situation to the new orthodontist and hopefully the new one can work with the info they have or just frowm taking xrays and doing an examination.
However, do you have any receipts or bank statements from what you paid the other orthodontist? You don't want the situation to come back and haught you later donw the line. This bill that you already paid could show up on your credit report reflecting negative accounts which could impact your ability to get jobs, cars, homes, and loans. You don't want these problems so try and rectify the situation if there is anyway possible. You may also want to make mention that it is unreasonable to believe the orthodontist would have done all this work for you if you hadn't paid any money. Generally they want money upfront and each month if it hasn't been paid in full. So, why would they let a $5,000 bill rack up. Doesn't make since but get this taken care of asap.
Back to the new orthodontist. I'm sure they can figure out a solution. Money talks, if you have money they have a method. There are plenty of people that actually get braces more than once without giving past dental records, so I'm very certain you will be fine. Good luck!
my ex and i broke up about 2 weeks ago, i realised i couldn't be without him and asked him to reconsider us together (we broke up cause he thinks i have other interests and that i have cheated on him) which to be honest i have never,i'm a very good girl i dont do stuff like that and certainly wouldn't have done it to him, BUT he thinks i'm so pretty that every guy possibly wants to get with me, he blames me for wanting their attention he thinks that just because i like to look pretty(i have low selfesteem so feeling good about looking good makes me feel better) but he thinks i do it to get men's attention, which i don't and nor do i have tons of guys after me, and when i had someone interested on me i would tell them i was in a relationship but my boyfriend's stubburn and jealous..anyway..we live now in different countries but he was comming back to see me this july, yet he stopped talking to me said he wasn't comming cause he didn't believe i havent cheated etc..i tried to convince him, yet he finally said one day ok ill go and that he loved me and he was incredibly sweet that night..then the next morning i woke to no texts from him no nothing and he didnt texted me during all day..then i sent him tons of texts and now he's like i cant talk im at work, and i know hes not at work anymore yet he hasnt reply, he is notanswering the phone, he almost never picks up the phone when i talk unless i have been calling for quiet a while, i dont get why he says he wants me one day then acts like he totally hates me the next, anyway i dont know how to get over it and eventho my head knows if he would love me he wouldnt hurt me like this like being all time out with his friends say we would talk then never do , he takes HOURS to reply to my messages and seems to forget " his phone at home alot recently, he refuses to add meon bbm ..i understand this behaviour says he doesn't want me BUT he says he does! and that he was gonna come see me ! so i dont understand wha'ts going on or what to do!
please help ...this has never happened to me i can usually get over people pretty quickly, idk why its so different now, i'm 22 he's 23
Sweetie he is a lier and has been since day one. Do not believe a thing that comes out of his mouth. He has other girls I promise you this. When you all were in a realtionship he was manipulating the situation at every hand. He wanted to make it seems as if you were the one in the wrong. Unfortunately you fell right into his game. The game he is playing is not new. It has been used on practically EVERY girl out there. But, I think you are coming to the place in your life where you have opened your eyes and realized his lies. I'm wondering is he from Mexico. I also lean to wondering if he actually is in another country at all. This guy is beyond a looser. He is down right pathetic. You on the other hand deserve so much more than this. Life is too short to be wasting time on this idiot. It's time for him to be a distant memory in your life. Don't you want to be happy, don't you deserve happiness and to be loved my a real man who recognizes a girl that should be treated like a queen. Move on already. Let him know that his tired games are played out and are no good here. Tell him to find someone who believes his lies. Please don't waste another minute worrying about him. Who is he???? NOBODY.
Can long term vaginal infections such as yeast infections that last longer than normal or BV mess with the reproductive system? I'm only 17 years old at the moment but I do plan on having kids some time in my future. I have had this yeast infection for about two months ( even though that's way to long for a yeast infection to last and I'm beginning to think its something else)and it won't go away. I just want to know could this possibly mess up my chances of having kids in my future?
Since it's only been two months it's not very likely that this infection has done any real harm. HOwever it is very important that you go see a gynocologist ASAP.
On the other side of things I belive that if you have treated this infection as a yeast infection and it hasn't left there are two possiblities going on with you. The first: if it is indeed a yeast infection you might have an auto immune disease which can be treated. I have an auto immune disease "lupus" and it causes me to have yeast infections that won't go away from time to time. The other and more likely answer is that you don't have a yeast infection but something else.
My first guess would be that you have a bacteria infection that is easily curable or you might have an STD clamydia and/or gonorrhea. Both of these are easily curable as well. So, don't worry too much. A quick visit to the doctor will more than not give you an answer right there in the office or just a couple days later over the phone.
I don't think you have anything major to worry about. But, if it is an std now would be the best time to start practicing safe sex. Although clamydia and gonorrhea are easy to rid of unfortunately other stds aren't that simple. So, take precautions EVERY single time.
Relax and don't worry. You're reproductive system should be ok as long as you go ahead and make an appointment for the first avaiable time slot. Take care, and you will be fine I promise :)
This guy I talk to was talking to this girl and she said "Seems like you like natural white girls with frilly blouses." I'm only part white, and I dont understand why she said that. What does that mean?
It sounds to me like they were saying that the guy likes natural= not a lot of makeup, just a natural beautiful girl sorta of like Jennifer Aniston or the sweet girl next door.
White= caucasion
Frilly blouses= again that innocent girl next door, not a "slut" with a belly shirt or low cut showing all her private areas.
She is saying all this because she is jealous of you. Girls can be very insecure especially at a young age. They don't understand a young guys thought process so they make comments to get a reaction or response from the guy. She most likely likes this guy and she probably does things she wouldn't want to just to make them like her. I wouldn't worry about her comment. She probably doesn't even know what she meant. lol Just laugh it off and move on. You don't have time for this childish nonesense, you are way too good for all that.
can I lose 20 pounds by August 25th by drinking water eating right and exercising a lot?
I'm 5'5" and 145 pounds
I think you definately can lose 20 pounds by August 25th. However, it won't be the healthiest way of losing weight. 145 pounds sounds about right for your height but if you are anything like me I know you won't be satisfied at that weight. If you want to do an extreme weight loss the best thing to do is eat a lot less but be sure to drink a ton of water. How much water depends on if you are out in the heat, how much you work out and how little you eat. You definately don't want to get dehydrated and also you will get constipated when you decrease your food intake so water is imparative. Now the other thing is working out. However, be careful how you workout. Certain routines cause you to gain muscle and ultimately you gain weight. Don't get me wrong it's good to increase your muscle because muscle also helps in the loss of weight. But you may think your workouts are not working well just based on the numbers on the scale. So keep that in mind as you workout. Egg whites, salad, green tea, olive oil, grape fruit, hot red peppers,high fiber cereals and cinnamon, are all foods that I found to lose weight. After having three children I lost 60 pounds in less than a year, actually less than 8 months and I didn't even workout. All I did was implament the food into my diet and majorly decrease my food intake and increase my water intake. ANother key factor is cutting out ALL sugary drinks especially alcohol. But soda pop makes a huge difference- you'd be surprise. Good luck with your weight loss and please be careful and don't go over board. It can be done and you can do it!
how can one be free from the spirit of leisbainisn? i really do need help/advice. "
i am from nigeria."
Although I do not aggree with gay and lesbian lifestyle I do strongly feel that everyone should be treated with dignity and respect at all times. That being said if you are wanting to "be free from the spirit of lesbianisn" have you considered turning to your religion. I'm not sure if you have a religion but as for me I am a Christian. I have found that when I face struggles in life it is always best to turn my problems to the Lord. He can change your mind, your way of life, and anything else because there is nothing God can not do. He knows that Satan is strong and can influence our minds but God is always here to help us through. God loves all of us including you and he won't let you be lost if you just trust and believe in him. He will give you the answers you need and the strength to make it through the influence of Satan. Remember to pray is my best advice.
I have a big crush on this guy but idk how he feels about me. I go up talk to him and he seems uninterested like I bother him. He gives like 1 word answers and it feels like I'm forcing the conversation. So i figure he doesn't like me so I go on about my business and start hanging out with my other friends. While I'm with them I notice he keeps looking over at me even my friend says he kept looking over at us. I don't understand it. I tried to be nice and friendly with him but he seem like he didn't want nothing to do with me so why does he stare at me all the time?
He likes you and he likes you A LOT. He's just nervous and doesn't know how to handle the situation. He probably doesn't know if you are interested so he doesn't want to feel stupid if he were to tell you and you rejected him. Take your time and let it play out. He will come around and if not it's his lost when you are with someone else.
If I were you I would pay him a compliment and flirt a little and see if he'll work up his nerve if not it's 2011 feel free to make the first move, but always be safe and never be disrespected.
im 15 almost 16 and i have never had my first kiss or had a boyfriend or had my hand held. i have had many guys like me but i wasnt able to date. in auagust i will be because i will be 16 haha.
but isnt that really bad and im going to be a junior and im not experienced, even a little? :( im not even sure how to kiss, what if we bump noses or something lol, or what about making out, and if i do get a boyfriend what if they ask how far ive gone, should i lie, because i dont want to make myself look like an idiot! :(
Let me tell you that I am so proud of you for recognizing how special you are and that you are worth way more than to just give out your affection and love to any old body. It is ashame that more young ladies don't have the self esteem or love for themselves as you have. There is absolutely NO reason to lie or be ashamed of your inexperience. You have only lived 15/16 years, you have the rest of your life to be sexually active. It doesn't take anything to have sex but it takes a strong, itelligent person not to have sex. Did you know that although girls who are "easy" seem to get alot of attention the guys don't really like or respect them. You are a respectable young lady and quite honestly real men want a girl just like you. Who wants some girl thats been with every guy out there? NO ONE! When guys are ready to be in a serious realtionship they don't want a slut to take home to meet their mother. They want a girl like you.
Be proud of yourself because you are defiantely on the right track. You obviously have wonderful parents that have taught you well about self worth and being true to yourself. Now that you are old enough to date, please be safe and don't change. Please wait until you find the right one before you give your innocence away. A real man waits for you and proves his love. Love is more than just a word but actions over a life time.
So, if a guy ask how far you've gone tell him no man has been good enough for you yet. And you don't just give it way, you're too special for that. Believe me, when they find out you've never done anything sexually that will make them want you all the more but DON'T give in. You're too beautiful for that on the outside and the inside.
i know this is so weird to ask but my boyfriend is sick of missionary and i always make him do that because i dont know how to ride. he wants me to so bad but im SO nervous im going to mess up or something. dont tell me you should be honest with him and tell him blah no i just want to know the steps on how to ride my boyfriend. so please be as specific!! thankss so much
I'm 18, and sexually active with my boyfriend for the past 3 months. Last night, I noticed (after using the bathroom) that there was pinkish blood on the paper, It was there for several hours but stopped. THen this morning it turned into a brownish discharge. My period ended 2 weeks ago and I'm not due for it again for another 2 weeks, so it's not my period. What's wrong with me? STD? Pregnancy? Please help!!
Honestly it sounds like pregnancy to me. That is what it was like for me everytime and I have three children. With my first pregnancy I had pinkish dischage that lasted and lasted and I never got check out and the pregnancy ended in miscarriage. If you are not on birth control and your periods are normal I highly doubt it is regular spotting without pregnancy. Please get checked out asap, although if it is too early a pregnancy test may not be accurate. I wish you the best.
Is there anyway to make your voice sound better when your singing? I'm a 13 year old girl and I'm not the best singer but I'm deft not the worst. I just need help and advice. Thanks! :)
When you breath in make sure your stomach is filled with the air and not your chest. You should be able to see either your chest moving upward or your stomach pushing outward. Also breath/sing from your throat and not your head or nose. You shouldn't feel any pressure from your head at all. Don't sing outdoors or in the cold. Drink very warm water almost hot or any warm drink. Also don't sing first thing in the moring. Late at night is actually the best time to sing assuming you aren't too tired. Never sing while sick because that will ruin your vocal chords.
I am of 16 and female....it my first love ever....i love him a lot and i know he love me too...but i dont what had happened to him, his reaction was changed suddenly....he always says i love u a lot and i cant live without u,u r too sexy, too beaution,amazing,etc.....i love him too...and i know i cant live without him....suddenly his reaction towards me changed and he started saying dont text me or dont call me by mistake also...i will change my no. And will never talk to u.....it hurted me badly....i love him madly....seeing his changed attitude made me cry....and made me to do hillarious things like cutting my hand with knife,etc.....i know he love me more than anything in the world but at the same time i cant bear his changed behaviour too.....please give advices....i need u all... Thank you!
Sweetie, no man is worth hurting yourself for. You are a beautiful girl that deserves to be treated with love and respect. Don't let this guy decide your happiness. Anyone who treats you badly is not in love with you. He is using your kindness and love to get what he wants. All guys are nice at first but how they act later down the line is the true person. Please leave this boy alone. He does not deserve you. I know it is not easy but if you would just try and open yourself up to meeting new people eventually you will find yourself so much happier.
You are worth so much more than this. Please please please I beg you do NOT hurt yourself EVER again. Talk to your mom, your friends, anyone who care and I know a lot of people do. If you want to talk with me I will giv eyou my number. You are WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, KIND, LOVING. Anyone guy would be lucky to have you as their girlfriend. Your boyfriend is a looser. Leave him sweetie. PLEASE!!! There are so many people out there that care and love you including me. I love you.
I'm so sorry you are going through this :(