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< I am a Christian and I am a mother >
Hello all. I am a 36 year old married mother of three boys. I have my degree in Forensic psychology and business management- human resources, I work in social services while juggling my three children and a marriage. When I originally joined this community I was excited to get back into what I love and that is helping people through listening, understanding, and guidance. However I quickly found that through my desire to help others, others are helping me. I have found my advice column beyond rewarding. I have found myself getting extremely passionate about each and every question that I read and respond to. The more the questions the greater the connection I have found between people of all walks of life, ages groups, races, gender, and religion. What I have found to be our greatest bind is love. Love for others and the love of being loved.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you. Your advice was perfect and really made me think a lot. You've been very helpful and I absolutely will seek help from a professional. Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice come accept i will always love josiah or least part of me will and like lance alot too, so gonna see where it goes and yes wouldnt hurt anyone intentionally especially way i have been.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! It's nice to hear that other people go through similar things and make it out okay! I'm glad you are happy now and found the right man!
(Rating: 4) Thanks, I hope you are right and they will be able to help me
(Rating: 5) I just wanted to thank you for taking the time to reply in such a prompt manner. Most people would just give me a sentence or two and leave it as that. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart!
(Rating: 5) thanks I appreciate it. You're right I don't know when enough is enough, he has admitted recently he is a compulsive liar. We are going to try counseling if that doesn't work then I believe there is nothing left to do. thank you for reading and answering
(Rating: 5) thanks for making it clear but not making me feel dumb. :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much! I was feeling like I was the only one this ever happened to. I am sorry you had to do this too, but I am glad to know there is hope!
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU! That is so much help!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so so much :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the support and advice! Your answer was just what I needed and I will try to come back and let you know what I find out when I do. Thank you a million times!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for sharing! I took a pregnancy test that came out positive, went to the doctor and it turns out it was the top of my uterus peaking out! Apparently I was a bit further along than I thought.
(Rating: 5) Thx that really helped
(Rating: 5) thank you! haha this made me laugh. But actually, that is my exact plan. I just don't want to go through a wasted effort you know. He is genuinely a great guy and if I did happen to meet someone else down the line, I wouldn't mind just being friends with this guy. It's just that he's the only one I see at the moment. But thanks again, seems like you're on to my secret plan! >:)
(Rating: 5) thank you but you didn't say how you know I won't be?
(Rating: 5) Thanks. Everything you said has been working. Great advice!
(Rating: 5) Good point
(Rating: 5) thanks . and shes very young too be a grandmother .
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I think I'll try that out :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 4) Thanks! Your advice helps, and i will get it then...:)
(Rating: 5) I thin you are right that this is his true character! Thank you!
(Rating: 5) Perhaps. Thanks.
(Rating: 4) Thank u for your response. I know that for sure. And there is so much more to it. him and i both have been single for a long time due to bad endings. im a cold hearted person and typically hate men so this is a rare feeling, which is why im so flustered. Him and i are so career oriented we wouldnt let "love" interfere with our own futures. U no guys, they want one thing. as much as him and i both want that we r smarter than that. schooling pays off lol! i plan on getting a career and this security job is good cuz i can do homework for my bachelor degree. if anything were to come of this i wouldnt allow it to happen while still employed thru this company. I see him out side of work cuz he has a 2nd job at a bar by my house. He is very professional as am i. Therefore, i was thinking about talking it out with him and putting options out on the table for after i get a better job. stupid but im tired of running from love and i cant fight this one... in addition, every1 gets raises at this job on jan. 1st. each yr. no favoritism possible in this kind of company.
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. I really needed that. I feel like the only person ever going through this, but Its not only me
(Rating: 1) This was not the kind of advice I wanted to hear. I. do. not. want to co go a university. its just not for me. Did you not see where I said I am going to a community college in the fall? and may I add, Im getting my masters degree in psychology. My boyfriend works at a performance shop where his boss is PAYING for him to become ASE certified. With that he could own his own shop if he wanted. And by th way I have birth control that stay inside me for 5 years, so I dont have to worry about babies. You were no help to me. Asshole.
(Rating: 5) lol, thats funny yet true thanks:P
(Rating: 4) I must have not added that. Yes I did. I contacted the red cross, all book stores, even the library I even tried to print it out but I cant because it is 196 pages and the library does only black and white and does not do front and back. Thanks though. :D
(Rating: 5) Sorry for the late rating, I had some problems with my account. Thank you!
(Rating: 5) thanks good advice but yeah i always talk to her about these things but she ends up telling him about it and saying tha he has reasons to do that its like she taking up for his side but im about to move with my boyfriend so i hope i wont have to deal with this any more
(Rating: 5) i do thats really cute thanks
(Rating: 5) Thanks! Haha, the last thing you said is so true :p
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) It's not for me it's for my dad but thanks anyway :).!
(Rating: 5) If I recieve temp. I dont get child support. I child the modification like for ever ago its on hold with the courts.
(Rating: 4) thank you... they told me 2 months to wait... but i am scared that i do not get babies anymore :-(
(Rating: 5) i never thought about it that way! Thank you!!! I'm definately going to do that and it a little bit at a time :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your worry! Although it could just be an ear infection, it couldn't hurt to check right? And it could save me a lot of trouble later. Thank you for all the concern, it makes me feel pretty good! xDD! Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) I'm glad you understand how difficult it can be to just grow up out of the loop. xD! It's good to know I'm not alone. Oh and thank you, I've worked hard in building that reputation amongst everyone. 8D Your explanation of The Holy Spirit made sense! I was happy. Now I actually get it. xD! And in regards to your last question, no I don't think we ARE God either, but I think that he wants to unite us all, and that's why Jesus will return again. I don't however think he wants us to be ONE with him. But that's just my opinion. Thank you so much, I know my questions were probably difficult to answer, and I didn't expect this much feedback! I know if I had seen my question, I would've had to pass on it. But thank you for answering my questions. Haha, I'm so glad my questions also helped you too! xD! Oh, and some clarification on one thing, when I pray, who am I praying to? God or Jesus, or both? Thanks! Rachel
(Rating: 5) i really need someone to tell me that im doing the right thing it is really hard, but i really feel like we are going to work! thank you so much you really helped me out!
(Rating: 5) thanks, i'll try and talk to an orthodontist about it
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. I think that is exactly what I needed to hear. You are really great at this. :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks again :)
(Rating: 5) Did I mention he has no feelings for me?
(Rating: 5) thank youuuu! :) ill let you know.
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm sick of my friends sugar coating. This is exactly what I needed to hear. :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I know I'm not ready for kids yet.
(Rating: 5) thank you for your advice.. first let me tell you that reading your reply made me cry it was so sweet and touching that a complete stranger could care that much for me. when I say mean I am refering to the things he says to hurt me when I say agressive i am referring to the pushing and occasional hitting or physical things he does to hurt me its not often but I know once is more than enough... thanks so much for your advice and for your support its really nice to know that somewhere out there someone believes in me even if it is someone who doesnt even know who I am :)
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