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What are some inspirational/moving on songs that you know?
They can be religious, but I want something along the lines of
"I'm Moving On" - Rascal Flatts.
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This isn't country, but I think this one is very good and you'll like it.
"Through the Fire" by The Crabb Family.
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How can I get a bigger butt? Can anyone send me the ebook for howtogetabiggerbutt? (link)
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Just as they say, "What goes through the lips, shows on the hips!" That's what everyone has always told me, though I wasn't trying to get a bigger butt, haha. Forgive me friend, just a joke because I have always been told this. Try this website below. :)
http://hubpages.com/hub/How-To-Get-A-Bigger-Butt
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I have a really hard time getting up in the morning, and alarms don't always work. Help!! (link)
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Here are suggestions, I have a friend whom has the same problem, so maybe I can help you.
1) Try having another person, if you are not living alone, wake you up.
2) If the alarm does happen to wake you up, as soon as you wake, turn on a lamp (if you do not have one, keep one right beside your bed).
3) Do not drink any caffeine or eat anything heavy the night before, sometimes that will mess with you in the morning.
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All these blank walls are bothering me in my room. What are some unique ways for a 14 year old to get them less boring?? (link)
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My suggestion would be instead of painting your walls just one color, paint them two colors! Such as one or two strokes pink and then one or two strokes green, etc. I only used pink and green as an example, it could be used with any color, also, you could do tri-colored, as well!
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Who do you think is going to win the superbowl this year??
Saints or Colts? Why?
I want your honest opinions.
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The Colts because I think they have prepared greatly and I am anxious to see how it plays out.
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i'm a girl and some guys i've been out with said i'm more of a teas than a flirt, but most of my guy-friends and best friends say that i just flirt alot. I don't think i'm a flirt or a teas, i'm just an outgoing person. I truely don't know the diffrence between the two, i thought they were the same. i asked some one befor but i couldn't get a stright answer. What's worse a flirt or a teas?
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Well, flirting is just being really friendly, sometimes it is taken for more than what it's worth and sometimes you mean to show you like someone in that way. A tease is a person who flirts and shows they like someone and/or may show a little affection, but then not give any physical attention to a guy. So basically you are "teasing" him with your looks, words or affection.
To answer your question -- a tease is considered to be worse. A flirt is fun and virtually harmless as long as you don't give away too much, meaning, you don't make someone think you are really into them if you are not.
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I'm 16 and not realy use to buying gifts for a boy/guy that's 16, 17, or 18. i could tell you aout the person and maybe this could help you help me.
*has an i-pod
*listens to all kinds of music
*loves soccer/ plays soccer
*10th grade
*fav. color is green and red
*has almost every namebrand shoe that has ever been sold
*sweet, kind, and OUTGOING
What do i get him?
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*Cologne
*Make a mixed cd for your guy
*If he's into soccer, get him some memorabilia of some sort.
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Someone texted me "i 143 you!"
What does that EVEN mean?
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It means I love you, I know -- confusing, haha.
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i just want to ask a simple question...is left for dead 2 only an online games ???i mean can i play it even if i don't have an internet connection at my hand??? single player only???? and if u can please suggest me some really good games which i can play on my laptop with quite high hardware.....some cool games which have some future weapons like warhead crysis.... and a couple of strateg games too with old fashiones troops with bow arrow and swords...like praetorians etc.plz help..... (link)
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It is not only on PC, but it is also on XBOX 360.
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Im making their sims but Idk what to give them as traits.
Here is the list of all the traits:
http://asilee.com/2009/06/01/the-sims-3-personality-traits-and-their-discriptions/
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Blair: Brave, Flirty, Great Kisser (haha, just because of what we see on the show).
Serena: Friendly, Flirty, Charismatic.
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My friend said that we were all going to play "the 21 questions game" when we meet at her house for dinner in a couple weeks. My problem is that I never heard of any such thing before! :(
Obviously there are questions but am I asking them or answering them or both? If I have to ask questions what kinds of things should I ask to play the 21 questions game without looking like a retard.
Thanks so much to those of you who have social lives and know these things! :) (link)
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Here is a website that I think will help you. :)
http://randiriel.wordpress.com/2008/04/28/21-questions-the-21-questions-you-should-ask-when-playing-this-ridiculous-game/
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Sperm dies when it hits the air, right?
I just really need to know because he came on my panties while they were off but then I put them back on like 20 minutes later. They were soaked with sperm but since it shot through the air and sperm dies when it hits air I am not going to get knocked up, right?
Worried. :-/ (link)
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Friend, sperm does not die when it hits air -- that is just a myth. Never let a guy do that on your panties, or if you do, wash them first, never put them back on. I would say if the sperm dried in your panties after the 20 minutes, you may be less likely to get pregnant, but "soaked" ups your chances. It is possible you may get pregnant if it leaked in to your vagina so keep an eye on your cycle and how you are feeling.
P.S. ALWAYS use a condom, believe me, you'll save yourself from these happenings next time.
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14/m
I really want to get my eyebrow pierced but I am worried.
What do you think about a guy who has an eyebrow piercing? Hot? Not? Gross? Nothing? Anything?
Oh and if a guy gets his eyebrow pierced which one should it be? Does it even matter which one?
Thank you ladies!
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There really is not a go-to answer for this question because everyone's opinions are different. One girl may love your eye piercing, while another may loath it. I, in my opinion, do not like eye piercings, I think guys look so much better natural and no piercings, but that is just my opinion, friend.
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I got my first pair of skate shoes and I have no idea what i should be wearing with them.
Can anyone help me pick what kind of jeans to wear so I don't look stupid? XD
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I recommend skinny jeans or boyfriend jeans.
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okay so i totally trust my bf, or at least i thot i did...to make long story short he went huntin in texas when he came back i found out he videoed a girl his age huntin by thereselves well shes on his facebook and his email says she tagged him in a pic...how can i see the pic w/o lettin them know who i am (link)
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Well, it is important to not jump the gun, so to speak, because it may not be anything and you must always ask him directly questions and never go off of what others may say (it may not be true).
However, to answer your question, just go on his Facebook page, and where it says "[her name] tagged a pick of [boyfriend's name]..." Click on that, it should take you right to that picture, even if she isn't your friend (it works that way for me, on my Facebook) and he will not know that as long as you don't comment on the picture.
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ok my hair is a bob hair cut and i straigten iht everyday but i havesoooooo many deadd endsz! its hairble! i dont wanna cut to much because my hairsz allreaddy up to my earsz! (at the end of them) helpp! (link)
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Hi, Friend
As far as I know, there is not a way to get rid of dead ends without cutting them off. However, your best bet is to try to disguise those dead end. I recommend using John Frieda's Frizz-Ease Hair Protecting Serum. It should really help to hide those dead ends.
Good luck! :)
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we're not officially together, we're just dating to get to know each other currently. i haven't known him that long, so what would be a good gift to give him? he's 23, 5'8", and he's a professional poker player, that's all i can think of right now, haha. thanks for the help! (link)
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*Cologne
*Make a mixed cd for your guy
*If he's into sports, get him some memorabilia of some sort.
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i am in depression and i feel hopeless. i've tried to fix myself but can anyone tell me optimistic or positive or happy quotes or things to do, anything like that?? (link)
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This website has plenty of them. :)
http://www.feedyouroptimism.com/QUOTES.HTML#HAPP
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no speeches and no need of trying to convince me otherwise, trust and believe everyone would be happy if i was dead or better yet to see me suffer, all i wanna know is if i continue to take these sleeping please without eating and drinking period how long will it take for me to die and how will i feel, i don't mind pain, i just wanna know how long (link)
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Since it's my job to give you good advice, it is what I must do. Listen friend, it may seem like those surrounding you do not want you around and for all I know, you may not have many supportive and caring people around. However, regardless, suicide is never the answer.
You are a great gift to this world and you can make it buddy, find a good friend or loved one to talk to and let all of this pain out - or a counselor. You have no idea how much better your life could improve from this state and you will see the choice to live is so better than the alternative.
-You don't want to put yourself through it, it will be as if you entered hell on earth, my friend. Try to find things you love in your life, and even if you honestly cannot find any, think of the things that would make it better and try to make it happen. That can improve your life generously. If you ever need to talk, please visit my forum on my advice column, I'd be happy to talk to you and help you in any way I can.
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My gf is worried because i was touching my penis and i know i didnt touch any juice on it but even if i did lets say if afterthat i fingered her and she is worried she might become pregnant after that? is that possible? (link)
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Absolutely possible and likely that she may get pregnant if you were to have any of your semen on your fingers while touching on intimately. Your girlfriend is right, my friend, after all, your semen is what causes her to be pregnant in the first place, so if it enters her in any way, it's always possible.
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