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My name is Danielle and I love to help people. Ask my anything and I will try my best to answer as accurately as I can with personal advice from my expierince or knowledge.. Good luck and God Bless all!
*Keosha*

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i called me ex desprate cause when he was dating me he was talking alot of shit on this one girl
saying shes a slut how he doesnt like being around her how hes never going to date her
and as soon as we break up he randomly flirts with her and... kisses her on the cheek.

isnt that desprate?

and this to
he met this girl over myspace and they talk about meeting and if they life close they would date

isnt that being desprate also?

sorry i asked 2 questions in one

Its a good possibility that he is desperate but i think hes also trying to make you jealous, you have 2 choices...
Play his game
Ignore his game

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I have this really good friend and I've known her for about 3 years. We're really close and all but i feel like I like her a little more then a best friend. I know im not a lesbian because i've had boyfriends and been completely comfortable with them. it's just that my friend is always there for me and always makes me feel better about myself. has anyone ever felt this way about their best friend? Or could i be bi? what do you guys think? (I'm 14/f.)

Umm..i get like that a lot too. Its just confusion, personally i think thats just how you want a boyfriend to be to you. You could be bi but i think that you admire your best friend a lot thats all.

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I have skipped two monthes in a row. I have not had sex. I am kind of worried. Is it normal to skip? My hormones are the same, as if I were on my period, but nothings happend for 2 monthes? Help!

Depending on how long u have had ur menstrual cycle your period will be irregular for the frist few years.. its not abnormal because ive had mine for 6 yrs and its just like yours..the pill helps keep it regular if you want to try that

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My friend is doing drugs a lot. She smokes weed every day and does ecstacy a few times a week. I have talked to her about it a lot, and she's not going to change. I don't know if I should tell her mom or do something else. So what should I do?

Try again, and if she doesnt listen to you, go and talk to someone, a therapist or a parent or a family friend and let someone know, because drugs are dangerous and she could be risking life or death.

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Does anyone know any good sappy teenage romance novels? I need something good to read. =D

Not exactly romance but very very very good books for teens.
Author: Sharon Mills Draper
Series and triology so read them in this order:
Tears of a Tiger
Forged by Fire
Darkness Before Dawn
Good luck hope you like them!

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when you hold a guys hand, are you supposed to squeeze it? do they like that?

You can but id only think during a movie or something, i dont know if they like it because all guys are different, you can try it and if he likes it then he will not say anything im guessing and if he doesnt then im sure hell find a way to let you know...maybe tickle it with your fingers

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My boyfreind and I used to smoke together a lot. Like all the time and i didnt like it so i tried talking to him about it and all he said was "You think your better then me because I smoke" and i dont think that at all, i just want to have a normal, fun relationship w/out drugs. How do i get him to think more positivley??

You cannot change someone who doesnt want to change nor help someone who doesnt want to be helped. i would just let him flow in his own direction and go on yours and see if that is a wake up call for him

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ok
im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!

Your not going to want to hear this but im telling you from personal expierence,
be different, dont try and be like everyone else whos had a b/f and kissed and some even sex already because they will not end up happy 75% of the time. Boys are basically into sex and boys will do anything to get you to do it with them, dont rush to grow up or have a "love life" your only 13! I let a boy ruin my life for 3 1/2 years b/c i wanted a "love life" i ended up in jail and i ended up loing everything and havin to start over...dont worry about guys right now, focus on school and getting good grades so you can make it through college

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I've had a sore throat for about a week maybe 2 and it jsut won't go away. it hurts when i swallow food or drinks and when i speak its hurts sometimes. i've drank a lot of water and had a lot of tea. I don't know what else to do, any suggestions?

Keep drinking lots of ICE COLD water and icy pops will help. You may have tonsilitis, or a cold, take tylenol cold and flu and use throat losenges

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any good books you would like to suggest on about dealing with drugs and like teenage life and what a teenager goes through? like go ask alice, a million little pieces and stuff like that

3 of the best books ever are a series and a triology read them in this order:

Author: Sharon Mills Draper

Tears of a Tiger
Forged by Fire
Darkness Before Dawn

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Alright, before I ask my question I want you guys to know that even though it's kind of funny, I'm being completely 100% serious.


Last night I was over at a friends house and we found his step mom's...dildo. Well someone thought it'd be funny if we put Icy Hot on it so that whenever she uses it...well you know. I thought it'd be funny as well so I went with it. When I got home I realized that it was a pretty immature thing to do and I was questioning whether or not I should call her and tell her about it or to tell my friend to wash it off or something before she gets to it. What do y'all think I should do? Or should I just not say anything?

Well you should call and tell your friend to wash it off or tell her mom, i mean icy hot is for EXTERNAL USE ONLY meaning it cant go inside of anything like a vagina, so it could damage her vaginal walls or cause an infection for all you know...

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I have to take medicine throughout the day. Recently, I was told I should start taking a Calcium supplement, in addition to my other meds. My questions are: Does taking calcium along with another pill lessen the strength of that other pill? Is there a difference in taking calcium in the morning as opposed to at night? Thanks-

It shouldn't make a difference because a calcium supplement is a homogenic healthy way of treating the symptoms of lack of calcium. Whomever prescribed you to this should know this but as for now, no it shouldn't affect anything because it is a vitamin and it wont hurt you. I dont think there is a difference in taking calcium supplement in the morning or at night but to double check everything ive said call your local health dept.

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sometimes..i feel uneedded...like if i died no one would care...no one loves me....my parents say they do but never show it....i think my parents think i'm useless...i wish i was loved...or had a purpose in the world...wat do i do...

ok...you may not want to hear what i have to say but its absolutely true, for 1: i think your depressed..depression can come from anything...stress, chemical imbalance in the brain ( meaning you may need meds to balance out your chemicals ) Everyone has a purpose in life, Gods made you for a purpose and he has a plan for your life, Obviously your not close with God, and the power of prayer is great. It works! So pray, if you dont know how to pray email me and i'll help you or IM me E-mail:Keosha15@aol.com AIM:Keosha15
2ndly no one can love you the way you want until you love yourself first. Self-love and self-discovery are 2 very important things in your life that you need to learn before you feel like life sucks, honestly life is what you make it, so you need to figure out what you want it to be like and come up with a commitment plan to yourself to work on changes, nothing like this can happen overnight but it will happen with confidence and faith. Trust in God when you feel like you have no one else...Much love, Keosha

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I want a good facewash that has a few different parts to it ex) blackhead remover, cleansing wash

does anybody know some really good facewash that is pretty cheap?I dont mean like proactiv or anything big like that, like something that i can just buy at a drugstore.
Thankz!

Neutrogena morning burst works well...
Noxema in the big jars, looks kind of like a cream but its not its a wash...
CeraVe- my dermatologist gave some to me and i think you can get it at walmart.....
try it and let me know how your results get

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Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?

No its completely normal

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ok im over weight and my family and friends are always like "loose weight" and ive tried the no junk food and exercize and thewhatching calories and non of this seems to work what should i do?

Its clearly difficult to lose weight without a daily scheduled routine and diet that you make a commitment to keep up with. So I would just try to commit to it and go to the gym and find a "personal trainer" my dad is one and they'll help you with whatever you want help with.

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17/f
The pastor at my church is sick and members of my church are going on a juice fast for 7 days. I am 5'6" and I weigh about 130 pounds (mostly muscle). My question is about how much weight will I lose during this and what's the safest way to come off the fast and try to gain my weight back (in muscle)?
Thanks sooooooo much!!!!

Mainly you will only gain and lose water weight during this period of time so i wouldnt worry myself over this but if your that concerned then dont do it.

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My hair is really poofy. Even after I straighten it bottom layer, then top. I've bleached my hair and all that good stuff. I was wondering, if I got my hair chemicaly straightened, would that make it non-poofy?

Sorry, for the bad spelling.

Lucky us! I have very poofy and curly hair so im the right person to talk to. Put stuff in your hair when u straighten it, like I use grease (for black peoples hair) and i put it in before i straighten each section of my hair with a flat iron

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What products work best to clear up acne. I know proactiv but what else?

Go to a dermatologist they have everything there and its only like 50 dollars and they should give you samples of things for ur problem

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Okay, so i don't have any friends. frankly alot of people don't like me because of all the drama that went on last year in 8th grade. Now i am really scared to be going into freshman, when almost everybody hates me when i only have about 4 girl friends.. and would've i`m not in any classes with them? well thats not my problem.. my problem is.. the people that don't like me are going to harass me and get everybody to gain up on me.. i`m now a religious christian && not many people know that, except for the people that went to church camp with me. i don't know what i am going to do. what should i say to people who are trying to fight with me.. should i like apologize to them.. so that they don't cause drama for me in 9th? i really just wanna stay out and be like unknown.. but thats not going to happen.. what do i do :[[ please please help.

Im in almost the same boat, just leave all of your problems in gods hands and dont worry about what people say about you, once they see you have changed things will get better. Trust me im in the exact same boat...butyou cant hide from everyone forever

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