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freshmann with no friends.
Okay, so i don't have any friends. frankly alot of people don't like me because of all the drama that went on last year in 8th grade. Now i am really scared to be going into freshman, when almost everybody hates me when i only have about 4 girl friends.. and would've i`m not in any classes with them? well thats not my problem.. my problem is.. the people that don't like me are going to harass me and get everybody to gain up on me.. i`m now a religious christian && not many people know that, except for the people that went to church camp with me. i don't know what i am going to do. what should i say to people who are trying to fight with me.. should i like apologize to them.. so that they don't cause drama for me in 9th? i really just wanna stay out and be like unknown.. but thats not going to happen.. what do i do :[[ please please help.
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Going into high school is a new experiece, a new start. It's said that you get out of touch with the majority of the kids you were friends with in middle school once you go to high school. I have a couple suggestions for if they tease you:
1. Tell someone! If you don't feel right telling the principal or a teacher, tell your 4 friends. I'm sure they'll be willing to protect you and help you.
2. Don't pay attention to them. I know it's hard not to, but if you just don't answer to them, don't even look at them , they'll soon get tired of bullying you. People bully other people because they want to see their reaction. BUt if you don't give them a reaction, they'll get bored of it.
You know, in high school, people usually mellow out and don't care as much. I have a friend who in middle school, tried to please everyone and be friends with everybody, since high school, he's completely mellowed out and has a great group of friends while everyone else pretty much leaves him alone. Good luck with all of this and remember: high school is the best years of your life!
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Im in almost the same boat, just leave all of your problems in gods hands and dont worry about what people say about you, once they see you have changed things will get better. Trust me im in the exact same boat...butyou cant hide from everyone forever
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Well sweetie I know how that feels. High school is a fresh start! Change the things you used to do that caused the drama. I dont know exactly what you did, but im pretty sure you can change it. Girls are bitches, you learn that in middle school. Apologizing would be the best thing, and if they arent mature enough to except it then forget them! 4 friends is great, and you should get to be friends with a lot of guys. there is soo much less drama with them and they are fun to hang out with.
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Hunny, it's highschool. Through out your life people will try to bring you down. But kids in highschool HATE drama. And if you cause it, they will turn you away. You have to act like none of it phases you. Just go with the flow. If people start with you be like look I'm sorry for whatever happened in the past, and if you don't like me I don't care. Get over it. You don't have to explain to people your reasons for being you. Just be yourself, stay away from drama, and don't let jealous people ruin your freshman year. There will be tons of new faces for you to be friends with. Forget the people who try to bring you down; they aren't real friends anyways.
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Oh, this is great! The same thing happened to me at the end of 8th grade. And I became a freshman, and guess what? No one remembered anything. Chances are they'll be too busy trying to get the upperclassmen not to gang up on THEM. Just find some people who share your interests (a Christian club? My school's got one). And don't be unknown! If you're loud and proud, more people will be attracted to you and less people will have the nerve to gang up on you when you have a good circle of friends. Don't deny yourself the awesomnity of freshman year!
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Just ignore them. Dont pay any mind to them. Even if they do tease you, just walk away.
In the meantime, pray to God that everything works out alright.
Trust in him.
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