sometimes..i feel uneedded...like if i died no one would care...no one loves me....my parents say they do but never show it....i think my parents think i'm useless...i wish i was loved...or had a purpose in the world...wat do i do...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? miren2k answered Monday July 10 2006, 6:12 pm: Everyone here has given you good advice - take it, so instead of repeating it all i'll tell you what you can do. Look back at all the achievments in your life, find what interests you and what your good at, and do it. It will make you feel less "useless" and make you feel like your doing something good, it will brighten your days or maybe even your whole life. Do it so you can say: "I'm not useless, I kick ass" whatever it is, road cleaning or the UFC it doesn't matter, sport or paper work job, whatever it is it's good and people will look up to the fact you do it because your good at it. You are needed for what you do and no it isn't sitting on your ass attention seeking. Now go and find your specialty and use it, you can get loving support from everyone you know. [ miren2k's advice column | Ask miren2k A Question ]
thelaura answered Monday July 10 2006, 5:47 pm: I can guarantee you most people have thought this at least once in their life.
Yeah okay, your life might "suck". You have school, hormones are all over the place, might have trouble with friends, etc. But believe me. There are people out there who are far worse off than you. You should be thankful you're alive and for other things you do have.
No one has one of those perfect families where everything is great.
But they do love you. You are their child. Parents have unconditional love for their children.
You THINK they think you're useless. What's the bets they don't? How can you be useless? If you try your best at things, there's no such thing as being useless. You've tried. You might fail, but it doesn't matter. You've done your best.
Your purpose in this world at this moment in time is to do as well as you can so you will be prepared for when you are older.
You're just having a downer at this moment in time. It will pass. Don't let it get you down. Chin up. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
AskTammy answered Monday July 10 2006, 4:35 pm: Jesus loves you. "For God SOOOO LOved the world that he gave his only begotten son...that whosoever shall believe in him shall not perish but have everlasting life!" He loved you so much he died for you. And you do have a purpose in this world- "to glorify god." Seriously pray and accept the fact that you have a best friend right there waiting to know you better and he loves you more than you could ever imagine. [ AskTammy's advice column | Ask AskTammy A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Monday July 10 2006, 4:33 pm: sounds to me like you are depressed. you should really see a therapist. i know how it is. you might need a prescription drug because you can have a chemical imbalance in your brain that makes you feel sad all the time. or you might just need someone to talk to. family therapy might help too. just try it out. i think you will feel alot better. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
Keosha answered Monday July 10 2006, 4:31 pm: ok...you may not want to hear what i have to say but its absolutely true, for 1: i think your depressed..depression can come from anything...stress, chemical imbalance in the brain ( meaning you may need meds to balance out your chemicals ) Everyone has a purpose in life, Gods made you for a purpose and he has a plan for your life, Obviously your not close with God, and the power of prayer is great. It works! So pray, if you dont know how to pray email me and i'll help you or IM me E-mail:Keosha15@aol.com AIM:Keosha15
2ndly no one can love you the way you want until you love yourself first. Self-love and self-discovery are 2 very important things in your life that you need to learn before you feel like life sucks, honestly life is what you make it, so you need to figure out what you want it to be like and come up with a commitment plan to yourself to work on changes, nothing like this can happen overnight but it will happen with confidence and faith. Trust in God when you feel like you have no one else...Much love, Keosha [ Keosha's advice column | Ask Keosha A Question ]
caramella answered Monday July 10 2006, 3:20 pm: no your not unwanted your just bored at the moment....when your bored negative thoughts pour into your head.they said they love you , your still in high school...i think...and your probably stuck on studying at the moment and time seems to have stopped but you do have a use in this world....your ...YOU and theres not one person in the world that IS you or like you...your unique....finish your high school go to college and dream about your future that your gonna be something BIG one day and EVERYONES gonna know,love, and respect you. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
kick_me answered Monday July 10 2006, 3:19 pm: your parents mioght not show they love you becus of probably they dont have so much time or dont notice that you wanna be showed that you are loved but they do love you to tell you the truth you re probably loved by some people you didnt even know they loved you and noone is useless or unneeded and im sure alot of people would be in sorrow if you were to die much luck to you bye [ kick_me's advice column | Ask kick_me A Question ]
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