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my cousin is my best friend?
15/f
allright so here's the deal. one of my best friends is my cousin. im over there like everyday and i feel like such a loser because i mean ..its my cousin? and people are like gosh your always over there...shes your best friend? and im like yeahh one of them. i mean sometimes i will do other things with my friends but my cousin doesnt have many friends so she always asks me to come over. for some reason we dont do mcuh but i still have fun :D but i feel retarded because there is this cute kid that lives by them and he always sees me over there and i talk to him sometimes and he probably thinks i have no life or friends since im always over at my cousins. do you think there is something wrong with this situation? i mean i love doing things with my other friends but its always so hard to go through with plans with them because they're always working or busy! but i was just checkin to see what you guys thought. thanks
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i actually have two different friends who are best friends with their cousins. actually, i didn't even know their best friends were their cousins... i just knew they were best friends. there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. in fact, if my cousin lived in my town, we would probably be best friends too. and if you have fun when you hang out with your cousin, then why shouldn't you? there's nothing wrong with that. at my school there are a lot of people that have brothers/sisters/cousins at the same school so it really doesn't matter who hangs out with their own family half the time. in fact, nobody really cares. and besides, the cute boy probably doesn't care either... especially if he likes you! lol. don't worry about it, i have the same problem with my friends so most of the time i hang out with my sister when she's in town, and she's 8 years older than me!
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um....there is nothing wrong with that my best friend is my cousin we do everything together..i think it's funner that way because my mom lets her go everywhere with us and stuff just cuz she's family!!!!
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hey... i think its a good thing to be real good friends with your cousin. its great to be close with family, family will always stick around. plus, you have a cutey to hang around you, sounds like you got a pretty good thing going over there. so, NO i dont think its u8nhealthy at all.
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it's perfectly normal for your cousin to be your best friend.
i actually have many friends that spent a lot of time at their cousins too =)
im sure that cute kid would understand that you're just best friends and like spending time with each other. it's normal, really.
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One of my best friends is my cousin too! So I know how you feel, but its really cool that you have a great relationship with your cousin! Not many people do, and that guy probably thinks its cool that you spend time with family. Its not wierd at all that you have fun with her, so keep hanging out with her!
hope this helps :)
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No i think this is totally fine. Family is the most important thing, and it's great that she's you best friend. I think it's totally OKAY!!!!
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