I have this really good friend and I've known her for about 3 years. We're really close and all but i feel like I like her a little more then a best friend. I know im not a lesbian because i've had boyfriends and been completely comfortable with them. it's just that my friend is always there for me and always makes me feel better about myself. has anyone ever felt this way about their best friend? Or could i be bi? what do you guys think? (I'm 14/f.)
Meghan09 answered Monday July 10 2006, 9:22 pm: Maybe you think of your friend as more then a best friend because you guys have become like sisters? Right now your at a confusing age with hormones going everywhere so it's probally hormones making you think that. If you still think it's more then that, you might wanna look into the Bi thing. Your probally fine though. [ Meghan09's advice column | Ask Meghan09 A Question ]
kick_me answered Monday July 10 2006, 7:13 pm: ok first of all dont believe of take "just_ask_me"'s advice cus he/she is all wrong no ur not bi or les u have have a great friend that you wish you can share with the world i mean your only 14 you dont know if you bi you could be loney and want a guy and the only person that is ther for you is your best friend....oh and dont confront your friend about this she will completely freak and there goes your best friend , alright well i hope you get things straight bye [ kick_me's advice column | Ask kick_me A Question ]
miren2k answered Monday July 10 2006, 6:44 pm: I don't think from what you just said that you are bi. I recon you just have yourself an extremely good friend, perhaps a soul friend; you're lucky. =] [ miren2k's advice column | Ask miren2k A Question ]
Keosha answered Monday July 10 2006, 6:38 pm: Umm..i get like that a lot too. Its just confusion, personally i think thats just how you want a boyfriend to be to you. You could be bi but i think that you admire your best friend a lot thats all. [ Keosha's advice column | Ask Keosha A Question ]
just_ask_me answered Monday July 10 2006, 6:34 pm: That's great that you feel so close to your best friend! You are very lucky to have someone so close for 3 years. If you think of her as more though, maybe you feel a romantic way towards her, that is totally OKAY. There's nothing wrong with being bi or lesbian. Sometimes girls just fantasize about another girl who is really close to them, and soon after that feeling just fades away naturally. Don't read too much into it! Just go along with your friendship like it is. [ just_ask_me's advice column | Ask just_ask_me A Question ]
thelaura answered Monday July 10 2006, 6:34 pm: Lots of people go through this.
Some teenagers go through a stage where they think they could be bisexual. Fact is, they aren't. They're just curious/confused/have raging hormones.
You're only 14, so you have so much time to find out the true you.
You are bisexual if:
You can see yourself having a RELATIONSHIP with either a man or woman. Not just if you think they're pretty or have a little crush. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
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