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ask mackenzie





I did not write the book of love,
and I do not claim to be full of wisdom.

I sure do make mistakes,
but I live and learn!

I try to let no one come to me,
without leaving happier. [:



"Exert your talents,
and distinguish yourself.
Don't even think about
retiring from the World,
until the World will be
sorry that you retire!"



advice

♥[?]♥ The other nite me and my boyfriend got "comfortable." He ate me out, but soon after i started bleeding. it wasnt my period because i already had it. whats wrong?
*lyss*
Was he inserting fingers or anything other objects? Is it possible he was too rough on you?? Perhaps your 'broke' your hymen? Was this just a little bit of blood, or is it a constant flow?? If there was just a little bit, I wouldn't stress over it. However, if this keeps up, I would THEN suggest seeking a medical opinion. Until then, no worries. =]

♥[?]♥ ok. im looking into starting a website. just like something for stuff about me, a place for people to leave comments, and all that kinda stuff. does anyone know where i can do that for free? thanks :)
You can try:
- http://www.geocities.com
- http://www.freewebs.com
- http://www.angelfire.com
- http://www.myspace.com
- http://www.tripod.com

Goodluck! :D

♥[?]♥ Ok i have heard that mausterbaiting wiht a shower head is bad, because its never good to get water in your vagina.is it true, and if it is, why is it bad? I rate high for good answers!
Many people all around the world have this question. They actually have websites on this topic. You can find them at:
- http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/experts/sex/qas/0,,284458_613658,00.html
- http://www.mymasturbation.com/female/shower-spray.htm
- http://www.talksexwithsue.com/masturbationfemale.html

♥[?]♥ Hey ok so tommrow my aunts ( 3 ofthem) and 2 of my cousins are going out to lunch then getting our nails done for my Grandmother Birthday. I was thinking about wearing a navy blue abercormie and fitch polo and a demin short skirt. Do you think it would be ok for this, any more suggestions?


Thanks
I think that's perfectly suitable. Sounds lovely, infact. However, if you'd really like some more ideas, how about black stretch pants and a nice peach or light green tshirt? Just a suggestion. It's your call, but the outfit you have in mind seems perfectly fine to me. Goodluck deciding! =]

♥[?]♥ I AM SOOO BORED waht should i do?
HeRe's a few websites foR ya:
-- http://www.illwillpress.com [MY FAVORITE!!]
-- http://www.xanga.com
-- http://www.joescartoon.com
-- http://games.yahoo.com
-- http://www.facebattle.com
-- http://www.thespark.com
-- http://ww.quizilla.com
-- http://www.videogameflash.com/keatonworld/strawberry.html
Enjoy!! :D

♥[?]♥ wen ur having sex what does it mean wen a girl climaxes?
It means she's experienced what's called an 'orgasm'. An orgasm is the peak, or climax, of sexual arrousal. Basically she'll be breathing heavy and groaning a bit..

♥[?]♥ anybody know where to get cursors for xanga and how to install them (or watever) i rate hi
Yep, you can get cursors at:
-- http://www.starlightmks.com
-- http://www.diamondrains.com
-- http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=CursorCrazy

As far as getting them to show up on your Xanga, you simply COPY the code they PROVIDE you with, by holding down "CTRL" and pushing "C". then you simply PASTE it on your "LOOK & FEEL" page in the VERY BOTTOM BOX titled "WEBSITE STATS". Piece of cake! :D

♥[?]♥ my friend is a little to clicky.it is almost like she is obsested with me what should i do
Get a dictionary?

♥[?]♥ ok ive had my period for about 2 years now but ive always worn a pad! im going to a pool party next week and i know that im going to have my period when the party is! im just soooooooo scrared i dont know what to do! ive come close to using one 2 times but i always chicken out! im reallly realllllly scared! please tell me what i should do becuase i have to go to this party and i have to use a pad
Swimming with a pad is a DEFINITE no-no. First of all, it will BULGE through your bathing suit like HELL, which would be VERY embarrassing!! Secondly, once you hit the water, it will begin to break apart, and cotton will be all in the pool, and it won't protect you after that, ya know?? And the 'fluid' will more than like leak down your legs. Now, I'm not shore about YOU.. but that doesn't seem like fun to MEEEE. Honestly, the only options I see for you is using a tampon, or not swimming. And wearing a tampon isn't awful, Hun. MOST females PERFER them, and insertion isn't dreadful. It's prettie simple actually. I've looked online for you, and I came up with a few sites that explain HOW TO use a tampon. I think you should check these out:
- http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html
- http://www.thesite.org/healthandwellbeing/askthesiteqandas/generalhealthqandas/tampontroubles
- http://www.beinggirl.com/en_US/pages/articledetail.jsp?ContentId=ART2


Hopefully this helps? Sorrie to bear such bad news, Hun.. there just ISN'T another option.. =/

♥[?]♥ is there any way to delete the sites you have been on the the address bar?
Yes. On an OPEN internet window go up to "TOOLS". Then go down to "INTERNET OPTIONS". A new smaller gray window will appear, and this is where you go down to "HISTORY", and click "CLEAR HISTORY". =]

♥[?]♥ ok. guys id like to ask you this: me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months and we never like kiss or hug. what can i do to let him know that i want to do that kinda stuff without makin him feel pressured or bad.?

yall are the best :)
This probably isn't what you wanted to hear, but why don't YOU make the first move??? I mean, if you're ALREADY dating, you MUST know he has nothing against doing such things with you, or else you two WOULDN'T BE TOGETHER, right??? And guys like it when girls make the first move. One day when you're sitting or laying next to him, lean on him, and put your hand on his chest, and head on his shoulder. I'm shore this will thrill him! =]

♥[?]♥ get ready for a long one..please help!

ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!!
luv, x3 hannah
Awwwww!!! I'm sorrie to hear this. This is really sad. That's a prettie shitty thing for Paige to do. And I honestly don't know what to tell ya, Hun. I mean, you've TRIED to explain things to Jackie. You've TRIED to patch it up. You've TRIED to open the lines of commuinication. You've made PLENTY of attempts, she's just shown she simply wants none of it. Though unfortunate, I say it's best to leave it alone for now, in hopes she will come back. Things worked out before, perhaps they will again. I guess for now you're best if you show her you accept and respect her decisions by leaving it alone and hoping for the best. =/

♥[?]♥ heyy! ok well we are looking to see if anyone knows if there is a possible way for getting different cursors on a column. If you know where to get them and how to we will rate you 5!
thanks!
Establishing a cursor on your column is done through an HTML code. HTML codes are currently disabled, therefore, unless you have a paid account, you can not have one. Sorrie =/

♥[?]♥ i did somehting i regret so much its not something i can take back
what do i do to get on with my life and forget that i did such a thing
Well I guess it just depends on the severity of it, ya know??? I mean, PERSONALLY, I NEVER regret ANYTHING that at ONE TIME brought me HAPPINESS. So if this 'regret' was worth it at the time, it's my opinion to not feel guilty about it. And the way I look at things.. what's done is done, and it's in the past now. Dwelling over it obviously won't alter what ALREADY happened, so what's the point in working myself up over nothing??? I'm really not shore if this of any use to you, but hopefully it's at least got you thinkin'. Goodluck! =]

♥[?]♥ i'm in love with this guy that lives all the way across the country.. and now he keeps telling me to think realistically and that we're probably never going to meet. what should i do about this? i am also female and 15 years of age, and i live in pennsylvania. and he is 18, and lives in california.
Well whether you WILL meet SOMEDAY or not is unforeseen FOR NOW. I mean, WHO KNOWS; it COULD happen. HOWEVER, the chances off that happening ARE probably very slim, you must admit, right? At least count on now meeting him within the next few years probably, seeing as how you're so young. Just know that this WON'T happen on it's own. You won't magically be walking through a grocery store and HAPPEN to bump into him. If you two EVER plan to get together, you two must MAKE it happen. If he goes off saying it'll "never" happen... then he's already closed the idea off, and it NEVER WILL. Just be optimistic. You never know what the future may hold, and STRANGER THINGS HAVE HAPPENED. :D

♥[?]♥ Ahh, okay I know this is weird but um..Every time I shave "down there", it seems like I still have some stubble or w/e..Does anyone have any tips or something because this is starting to bug me..And please dont say waxing, Ive tried it, it hurts lol..Ill give you a 5 if you give me a good idea!
Some tips:
- NEVER dRy shave.
- Find a shaving cream/gel you're happie with.
- If you can't go out and purchase shaving gel, use a bar of soap and lather your legs up REALLY good, but keep it moist and lathered.. don't let it dry out.
- If you CAN purchase shaving gel, I recommend 'Skintimate's Shaving Gel' or 'Barbasol Shaving Cream".
- Use a good Razor, and change it often, if not EVERY time.
- Yes, disposable razors are fine.
- After shaving, you could apply lotion or baby oil to help moisturize, and assist in preventing razor burn.
- DO NOT shave daily!! Try every otheR two days or so.



Hopefully this helps ya! :)

♥[?]♥ I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?

Thx
Why don't you try asking him to come along bowling or out to dinner one night with some friends of yours?? I'm shore he'd appreciate an invitation like that. And if you're scared it may seem like you're asking him on a "date", then say it hyper-sounding, and even with a friend or two at your side. Just be polite and smile.. I'm shore you'll do fine.
Go get 'em, Tiger!! :P

♥[?]♥ I just recentely got out of a 10 month relationship, (Three weeks ago) but also just found somebody new. This new guy I'm pretty sure might ask me out soon, but the problem is he's a grade older than me. I know that's not much older at all, but my parents are very protective. I know that if he were to ask me out I'd say yes, but I don't know how to break it to my parents. I don't have the closest relationship with them when it comes to boys. Also, when my sister was a freshman like I am she dated a senior and they let her go out with him all the time. Don't you think it would be unfair if they didn't do the same for me? So how do you think I should break it to my parents?
Actually, I DO think it would seem unfair, but that's just my personal opinion. And why do you even have to bring it up?? Don't say he's older. If they ask, they ask. Just present him naturally, and leave that part out. I've never brought that up before. It never mattered to them I guess, and I wouldn't care anyways. I think if YOU don't make it an issue, chances are THEY won't make it an issue, ya know? Hopefully everything goes as expected! =]

♥[?]♥ my boyfriend's best friend (we'll call him..bob) just told me he loves* me. but i love* my boyfriend. but i admit, ive had a tiny crush on bob . wat should i do?!
~thanx in advavnce~

*love as in lik a whole lot
Did you get impatient? You've already asked this.

♥[?]♥ I have a mol on my face and its really ugly.. how do i get rid of it or cover it up or at least make it less noticable??!!! ahhhh
I'm not positive, but I do believe that the only way to GET RID of it would be a trip to the doctor/hospital. But if you're interested in covering it up, foundation over it. And if it still shows up, trying dabing some eye shadow that's a bit darker than your skin tone ON it. Hopefully this will work for you!! =]


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