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My ex-best friend
get ready for a long one..please help!
ok well one day i met this girl online, jackie, she seemed cool..over time we became best friends and called eachother all the time and stuff, gave eachother b-day presents in the mail (( by the way i live in fl and she lives in Ny )) and yah well one day i scammed her favorite sn and jackie didnt know it was me..yes she has a verry good reason to dislike me!!.. so0o its been about a year and i told her..she hated me for a while, but we soon became friends. now on the othher hand, jackie has a friend named paige and she is always trying to break me and jackie up..well she finally did, paige hacked all of jackies sns and then changed the password to caroline,((that was the pw of the sn i scammed)), and made it look all like i did it but i didnt and jackie doesnt belive me, now shes leaving me nasty messages and mean calls on my phone and i didnt hack it i tryed to explain that to jackie, but i want my best friend back, please help me!!
luv, x3 hannah
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Maybe try leaving a sincere message on her cell phone. Mention that if you did do it that you would have told her by now since she was already mad at you. Also, that you told her once why wouldn't you tell her again? And how do you know it was paige? If you're sure, try asking paige *sincerely* why she's doing what she is doing. Good luck!
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well i too had this problem i would write a letter tell her that you did not do this and that you only scammed her once and that you were very sorry for doing that and you wish that she could forgive you and you and her could be friends. Thats what i did. so I hope that helped.
-Lauren
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Awwwww!!! I'm sorrie to hear this. This is really sad. That's a prettie shitty thing for Paige to do. And I honestly don't know what to tell ya, Hun. I mean, you've TRIED to explain things to Jackie. You've TRIED to patch it up. You've TRIED to open the lines of commuinication. You've made PLENTY of attempts, she's just shown she simply wants none of it. Though unfortunate, I say it's best to leave it alone for now, in hopes she will come back. Things worked out before, perhaps they will again. I guess for now you're best if you show her you accept and respect her decisions by leaving it alone and hoping for the best. =/
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Man, you are in a bad spot. You can't make the girl think what you say is right, although we all wish we could. She has a mind of her own and there is nothing you can do about it. All you can do as explain yourself, no matter how many times it takes, keep telling her the truth, and maybe someday she will believe you. A relationship over the internet is usually destined for failure, but it's your life do what you want. The only thing you can do is stick to your story and continue telling her the truth. That's all you can do...oh and pray that things change.
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