about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

ALMIRA preety ? thanks for being nice but its not sharing time serously ew.to all you guys im telling you all this cause i really think your ugly period

Al is pretty & I'm not only being nice, I'm telling the truth. We could care less that you think we're ugly because we know we aren't. Hm, I bet you look like a fucking idiot. You can't even say who you are because you're fucking afraid. Why would we be scared??

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my boyfriend dont trust me as much as he should but i dont do anything wrong..i dont talk to other guys and i dont flirt...i just go to school do my work and nothing else..but every time i get home and call him we argue about what happened in school..can someone please help me and tell me what i can do to prove to him he can trust me or help him trust me?????

To make a realationship work you need trust. How long have you guys been together? If it hasn't been a long time then I understand that, but if it has then I don't know what to tell ya. It takes time to get to know someone well enough to be able to trust them. If he doesn't trust you for no apparent reason then you really need to talk to him. Just tell him that if he wants this to work that he has to be able to trust you & that you didn't do anything for him to act like that. If he gets mad then fine but he really shouldn't. Now if you guys keep fighting then I think you guys should at least take a break & figure what you guys want.

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ok which looks better white nailpolish on your toenails and red on nails or red on toenails with white on nails? or white on toenails and pink on nails, or pink on toenails white on nails? sorry so confusing. all 5's for opinions. thanks.

I think that red looks better on your nails & white on toenails but I think that red also looks good on toenails. White on nails can look cute but sometimes it looks tacky. Again, pink looks cute on nails & toenails.

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Okay well i went to my church and my boyfriend(Tom) wasnt hanging out w/ me but he was hanging out w/ everyone but me(including his new g/f). he said that i was ignoring him and that he wanted to go out w/ Sally(who he just met not even 3 days ago), so i broke up w/ him. and 1 day later he ended up asking Sally out. Sally said yes. now they are going out....i really did like him...like soooo much.....but then at church Tom and Sally were hugging and holding hands and crap rite in front of me ( proably just to get me jealous). now we all hate eachother but i still kinda like him...but i hate Sally.....What should i do????

*Names changed for safety

-confused

It's not worth being stuck on him because he seems to just want to make you jelous. You shouldn't wait on a creep like that. People might say just talk to him, but don't. There really isn't anything you guys could talk about. Maybe in a couple of weeks you guys could be friends but just move on. Trust me. You'll find a better guy. Just flirt, & meet new people & it will take your mind off him.

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can anyone think of any reason why a bf wouldnt be happy for his gf if she found a job that she really liked?
I'll right anyone who answers with a 5. Thanks!

Yes. He probablly think she might meet another guy at work or that she won't spend much time with him.

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my hair is so unmanageable!!!!!
where my parting is little bits always stick up! no matter what i use it wont stop!
can any one giv me sum advice on what products to use?
its so annoying!

o im from uk btw

I think it's just because your hair is damaged. Have you tried using a good hairspray or gel?? It should work. Since it's winter everyones hair seems to be staticky, maybe that's the problem. Make sure you wash your hair with conditioner & before using any hot irons in your hair you should get a spray called Ion so it doesn't damage it.

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Can anyone give me good brands of Hair Straightners? Doesn't matter if expensive, just the best brands in your perspectives. Thanks.
NaImEE ♥

Chi! It works really good but if you do want something cheaper I think that Revlon works good too. I mean they're all straighteners and they all straighten your hair. ♥

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anyone know any good resizing pic urls?

i rate fives.

Photobucket is really good. You can put up to 500 pictures & it's free.

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You're not ganster but prep right?

I'm not for real a gangster & who ever thinks that I really am or that that's what I'm trying to be is fucked up.

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Heyy

Hey.

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Does anyone have any sites that have sad, heartbroken, teen love quotes?

http://www.xanga.com/ALL__ic0nsqu0tesmusic

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i have never had a crush on girls just boys i wanna have sex with boys. with girls the same and i fantasize about doing stuff to them tell me what is wrong with me this is the worse i have ever felt in my life. i rate high if u help me good

I don't think that you are lesbian. A lot of girls hormones start to do this & they just don't know who they are interested in more. For now you can just take the time & figure this out. If you keep thinking like that, then you might be bisexual & there is nothing wrong with that.

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ok i know it's still winter but summer will be here before I know it and i'm sick of looking like a beached whale when im in a suit so how can i shed these pounds im thinking about getting a new walkman and a couple jogging suits with christmas money but are there any exercises i can do in my room like dancing exercizing or w/e it is? HELP! this whale thing has me worried.

*plus.. i'm sick of the guys thinking of me as the fat chick

Everyone hates hearing the words eat healthy & exercise, but if you really want to be fit & healthy then you should do it. The BEST thing to do would be talking to your doctor and getting a nutrionist. They will tell you what you should & shouldn't eat but it's common sence. You're never going to loose weight if you keep eating sweets, fried food, & fats. Replace them with fruits & veggies. Eating fruits & vegtables doesn't have to be hard & it doesn't have to taste gross, so go online & look up some recepies you or your mom could make. Do about 30 sit ups or any exercises you like to do. If you want more go to www.toneteen.com

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Just since it's officially winter and cold/flu season, I just wanted to let everyone know that Trader Joe's has this stuff called Airborne developed by a teacher and it works well to help you stumble over colds as to not miss the upcoming holidays. Happy Holidays, everbody!! Love Always, Igotamonopoly :)

I never heard of it. Whenever it gets cold I get sick so hopefully that'll work. :D

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TeZA!!! im goin to this big game thing tomorrow and i dont have ANYTHING to wear..im serious. nothing cute! i dont have any cute sweatshirts.they're all huge..no sweaters..scarfs..anything! and its wayy to cold out to be wearing like t-shirts nd crap. i dont have any jean jackets nothing! and i cant borrow anything from anyone because im meeting them there..so obviously i cant borrow from them?! haha..ahh what do i do! i need to look cute :)

Oh wow!! I'm sure you have SOMETHING! Get a pair of jeans & cute shoes & some kind of fitting sweater. I don't know what else you can do since you can't borrow from a friend & I don't think you would go out and just buy a whole new outfit for the game. Just do your hair & make up cute & your top won't matter much. ♥

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ok so im on my period...funfun...and my tummy hurts like never before...what are somethings/anything i can do/take to feel better? 13/f if that helps?(not my first time also)

In my opinion, I don't think that Midol or Advil will help. It's normal to get cramps but you just need to relax. When I get cramps, they're HORRIBLE!! Well when I do have them, I take something warm and keep it on my stomach. It helpes me so much. If you don't know what to put, just go take a bath. Relax with lots of bubbles. :D Drink a lot of water!! In health class, our teacher told us girls to drink milk when he have cramps. It helped me out once but I have no idea how.

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im 15..going on 16 and i havent had a boyfriend yet. everytime someone brings up the subject about having a boyfriend i get so like nervous and self-conscious because im afraid they'll ask like oh who was your last boyfriend? how many boyfriends have you had before? and my old friend was talkin bout boys and my other friend goes yahhh but she hasnt had a boyfriend yet. and the girls like OMG WHAT? you havent had one yet? seriously?! like she was shocked. because apparently alotta people think im prettY? i dont see it but whatever. im not that good with guys i mean yah i talk to them and all ..but as friends. im way too shy to like hang out with them or something. maybe they just dont see me as girlfriend material? my best friend says maybe i may look like a bitch or something..or guys are just afraid to come out and tell me because they are scared of rejection. but actually im not kinda scared to get my first boyfriend (if that ever comes :( because i really wont know how to act since ive never had one before. ahhh please give me suggestions anything will help..seriously!

It's normal that you haven't had a boyfriend yet. Those girls shouldn't act like it's a big deal because it's really not. The reason I think you might of not had a guy approach you is because you don't talk much to them. You have to let loose & just be comftrable with talking to guys & be confident. People have a thing of thinking that they will embarass themselves and that they will do something or say something stupid & it's not like that. Just have fun flirting with them. You're a girl, you'll enjoy it. The more guys you flirt with, they will get to know you better and better & even like you.

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what are all ways that you can get like a disease like STDS AIDS ne thing like that..i mean you dont have to list all of them but yeahh..is making out pratically the only sexual thing you can do without having the possibility of getting a disease?

&hearts
thanks

Syphilis- You can get it from anal or oral sex. If a person has it and if they have sores, you have to be careful not to get it. It's very very discusting & some of them hurt a lot.

Mono- Virus that you can spread easily. The mono virus affects your lymph nodes, throat, salivary glands, liver, spleen, and blood, and it can make you lose your appetite and feel tired and achy all over.

AIDS- It can be passed on through blood and other body fluids. (not including saliva) It can also be passed from having unprotected sex or when you do drugs & you use someones needle.

STD- You can get and pass STDs through vaginal, anal, or oral sex. It can also picked up from contact with damp or moist objects such as towels, wet clothing, or a toilet seat, if the genital area gets in contact with these damp objects. Some STDs cause no symptoms. But STDs can still be passed from person to person even if there are no symptoms.

Genital Herpes- You can get genital herpes by having sex with someone who has open sores. Some symptoms that you have it are:

-An itching or burning feeling in the genital or anal area.

-Flu-like, including fever swollen glands, pain in the legs.

-A feeling of pressure in the area below the stomach

Making out is not the only thing where you can't get a disease. You can get mono which is spread like that.

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14/f

i just started goin out with this guy.. about 5 days ago. hes away rite now and wont be able to talk to him until xmas eve. I havent really opened up to him yet. And im really shy so its always hard for me to around anyone. How can i be more open and myself on the phone with him expecially? Also, his birthday is soon. Should I get him anything? Im of course gonna talk to him on the fone..and wish him a happy b-day but idk if im gonna hang out with him before or after or w/e .
just please try and help me. thank you. i hope i wasnt too confusing

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It's okay to be shy but you've only been going out for 5 days. It will take you some time to get comftrable around him & everything else. You just have to have fun being around him & talking to him. That's how you can open up. Get to know him first & then you have to be able to trust him. Since his birthday is comming up you should get him something. Not a lot, but something small to show that you care. Like a giftcard or cologne.

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ok so im still young and im allowed to start wearing makeup.. i wanna know know tips that will help me look pretty and not slutty and is good for a 13 year old.. i have pretty pale skin but not that pale. i have blue eyes and light brown hair. thx i really need some help cause i have no idea how to wera makeup.. omg please dont ask me to ask my mom lol

Start of with basics. Eyeliner, mascara, eye shadow & lipgloss. That's all you really need. I don't think you will need any foundation, but if you seriously do get one that is just a shade darker then your natrual skin tone. Before applying foundation, put on some face lotion. It will make your skin more smooth and won't dry up. You can apply foundation with a make up sponge or a foundation brush. It's always better to use powder after foundation because it will cover up what the foundation didn't & it will make it more smooth & just better. Next just add a little eyeliner. Since you have blue eyes I think you should use brown eyeliner. Black looks really un-natrual but whatever you think looks best. If you want to wear eyeshadow, use natrual colors. Like greens, golds & shimmer. Top it of with some mascara & lipgloss & you'll look great.

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