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my boyfriend dont trust me as much as he should but i dont do anything wrong..i dont talk to other guys and i dont flirt...i just go to school do my work and nothing else..but every time i get home and call him we argue about what happened in school..can someone please help me and tell me what i can do to prove to him he can trust me or help him trust me?????
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First of all, find out about the reasons for your arguments. if they are just too simple, tell him, there is nothing to worry about. If you really did something bad, apologize. But then, you should also ask him because he might have a problem with something. Maybe, you can work it out and everything will be fine.
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exactly...rs#.
if all you guys have to talk bout is "who's messing around with who"..then why bother with a relationship at all ?!
Relationships are based in fun & happy & smiling & being together. Trust follows those things b/c of "FUN & HAPPY & SMILING & Being Together!
Not insecurities.
If that is all being together brings out of you 2, then maybe you should reconsider.
remember...love doesn't argue or hurt.
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To make a realationship work you need trust. How long have you guys been together? If it hasn't been a long time then I understand that, but if it has then I don't know what to tell ya. It takes time to get to know someone well enough to be able to trust them. If he doesn't trust you for no apparent reason then you really need to talk to him. Just tell him that if he wants this to work that he has to be able to trust you & that you didn't do anything for him to act like that. If he gets mad then fine but he really shouldn't. Now if you guys keep fighting then I think you guys should at least take a break & figure what you guys want.
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trust is more fundamental to a relationship than love. if he doesnt trust you than it will not work. you shouldnt have to get him to trust you, he should already trust. my guess is that he is doing something wrong and is projecting that distrust onto you.
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