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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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mmk i don't care if people say it's out of style i like them.
anyway what kinds of shoes whould look good with them? would flats? and i have this jean skirt wit a little puffy ruffle at the bottom would that look ok with leg warmers?

and thanks!!

Yeah, you can wear them with flats, & that idea sounds cute.

Is there anyway to get my period faster?
Only a couple days earlier... could it be affected by like what types of food I eat, or anything?
My period should come friday or saturday, and I want it like today or tuesday (tomorow)
Thanks!

Unfortunately, there isn't a way to speed it up. Just wait it out, it'll come & go soon enough.

Me and my friend want to dress up as Paris and Nicole for halloween, but dont have a clue what they would wear! PLEASE send us your ideas!
PS
big glasses have already been bought

You can wear low cut tight jeans, short skirts, & skimpy tops, & high heels with a huge purse, or wear like a really revealing dress.

14/f

i've never had sex before, i haven't even made out that much, but i have an issue. i think i have genital herpes.

i've learned that genital herpes symptoms are pimply, reddish, puss-y marks in the genital area. once in a while i'll get a few gross, zitty white-head looking things near my vagina. they're itchy and sometimes pussy, and clear up usually within 2 weeks. it's been happening for about 3 years now. what IS this? please help!

If you've never had sex, there's no way for you to get genital herpes. If you're really scared, see a OBGYN [gynocologist] & get checked out, but it's probably nothing, so don't worry too much.

ok soo i hate school and i dont know why! i want to go live with my aunt in california for a while just for a change..i know its pretty random. i dont think i could tell my mom that without making her feel bad. i dont want her to think im unhappy because of my family because im not. i just feel like i dont belong here. how do i like school better??

In order to make school better try out some sports. Join clubs, spend more time with your friends, stuff like that. If you enjoy the things you do at school & have something to look forward to each day, you'll like it.

hey guys im 14 years of age and am looking for a job but no one will hired someone under the age of 16 that i know of so far if anyone know somewhere that will hire at 14 please tell me

Try babysitting. Not many places hire when you're under 16, and even when you turn 16 it can be hard to find a job. Babysitting is probably your best bet for right now.

My parents are divorced, but still have the same ideas on alot of stuff. I am white. I have blonde hair and blue eyes. My parents both say that i can not like(have a crush on), date, or marry anyone who is Black, "Mexican"(I tell them all the time "HISPANIC"), Chinese, or Mixed. The thing is, I like ALOT of people! About half of which are not white. Its not because I like other colors, I just happen to like these people. my parents say they will disown me if i ever marry someone not white. The boy I am crazy about is Hispanic. I have a lot of different colored friends. So racism realy offends me. But whenever i mention this, they get mad. What can I do!

There's not much you can do for now. I'm not sure how old you are because you didn't include your age, but it's obvious you're still living at home. Honestly, don't tell your parents the races of your friends. If they don't know, they can't get upset, can they? To tell you the truth though, you're living under their roof so you need to follow their rules.

When you move out, date & marry who you want. Once you don't live with them anymore, their opinions & beliefs won't control your life & you'll be alright.

what makes your life exciting? sports, hobbies, clubs, school, friends, family, etc.. in particular? like specifically? i really do not find enjoyment in life and i am trying to appreciate what i have but its hard sometimes

Honestly, the things I do just make my life exciting. Whether it's hanging out or going some place, it gets me excited & I love it.

To tell you the truth, not everyone finds life enjoyable, but when you live on the edge & do what you wanna do with no regrets, you will begin to love exactly what you're doing.

What are something I can do to be more flexiable. Im a cheerleader and our competion is coming up and I want my jumps and spilts to be better.
So I guess Im also asking for things to do to make my jumps better too.. THANKS! =D

You need to stretch constantly. Go to a gym specially for cheerleaders. They have a ton of equipment that has stuff to help with jumps/splits & whatever else you need help on.

Or ask your coach to help you get them down better. If your coach is busy, ask another cheerleader from your squad. Until then:

That could possibly be of help to you.

ok . this summer i cheated on my boyfriend . & i toLd him Like a month ago . he took me back and its been gooddd , weLL [ aLmost ] its been a whiLe now & he toLd me he wiLl never be able to trust me and again and beLeive me . weLL hes been keeping tight tabs onme and everything . he says he's tired of us arguing and tired of worring about who im taLkin to and wat im doni . does this mean he wants to break up ?

its been 7 months . i Love this boy with my heart

but its Like we just cant move on because he KN0WS i wouLd [ never ] hurt him again but he just doesnt wanna Let him seLf beLieve it & i mean its kiLLing me . i dont wanna Lose him ; but its Like were stuck on that same day i toLd him ,with just a day never ending ?

ugh

i dont wanna Lose him .

I think it's best you probably break up. You made a mistake and unfortunately, that's a mistake that's hard to fix. You're very lucky that your boyfriend took you back, but now he's having issues.

Honestly, it's best if you do end the relationship. He said he'll never be able to trust you or believe what you say, so if there's no trust in a relationship, then there's no relationship period. End it.

WHAT IS TIHS???

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Roflmfaosfh.

Wow, it's like a retarded llama thing. It's really hilarious. Wow, hahaha.

Oj, so I pop my fingers, and I know I really need to stop...but I don't know how...^^ Anyway advice will be so helpfull!

Thanks advance!!

I crack my knuckles too, and I get mad at myself all the time for it, but honestly - just think of all the horrible outcomes of it. You might arthritis when you're older. And then your hands will be ugly.

Honestly, try Google for some techniques.

i am 15 and have really small boobs like a 32 A and what happens if when i make out with my bf he wants to feel up my shirt, it would be really embarassing becuase im so small, but i dont want him to think im not intrested. What should i do? and how long should i know him before i let him do this?

I think that your boyfriend doesn't really care about your breast-size. He's with you because he likes you, not because you have big boobs. Honestly, I wouldn't worry. If he really liked you, he wouldn't care & if he does care, then he's shallow.

But really, don't worry. You've still got some time to grow & if you don't, then embrace what you've got. Big boobs suck anyways. I'd kill to be an A or a B again.

where can you buy that shampoo i read that it makes your hair grow faster and thicker? is that true?

You can probably buy it at Sally's Beauty Supply. =)

How do you "google" people theres some people id really like to get some stuff on

Go to www.google.com & type in that person's name. Click "search." Sites will come up that will contain information about that person. Click the ones you'd like to see.

However, if you're searching someone who isn't really famous; such as a friend, it probably won't work too well.

I want to get my belly pierced but i'm scared that it'll hurt =[,does it hurt ?

It depends on the person, really. Everyone takes pain differently. What may tickle to me may hurt you & vice versa. Honestly though, who really cares if it hurts? It just looks good in the end & you'll love it.

I asked my friends the same questions and every single one of them with their naval pierced said that they didn't feel it & when they asked if the guy was done yet, he had been done for a while.

how do you give them?

We'll get in trouble if we answer this.

That would be able to help you a lot more thsan we can.

if you let a boy touch you is that bad..like in your private parts????

If you want him to, no. If you don't want him to, yes.

what does "a leer" mean? because "a" means "to" and leer unconjugated means "to read" so is it "to to read"???

It just means to read. It doesn't have a special meaning like "to to read." Hahaha.

I had the same screen name since the 5ht grade and i want to change it. But i have no ideas. My name is Jasmine. If you have any ideas please share them.

You could always have it:

princess jasmine

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