ok . this summer i cheated on my boyfriend . & i toLd him Like a month ago . he took me back and its been gooddd , weLL [ aLmost ] its been a whiLe now & he toLd me he wiLl never be able to trust me and again and beLeive me . weLL hes been keeping tight tabs onme and everything . he says he's tired of us arguing and tired of worring about who im taLkin to and wat im doni . does this mean he wants to break up ?
its been 7 months . i Love this boy with my heart
but its Like we just cant move on because he KN0WS i wouLd [ never ] hurt him again but he just doesnt wanna Let him seLf beLieve it & i mean its kiLLing me . i dont wanna Lose him ; but its Like were stuck on that same day i toLd him ,with just a day never ending ?
christina answered Wednesday October 24 2007, 1:39 am: I think it's best you probably break up. You made a mistake and unfortunately, that's a mistake that's hard to fix. You're very lucky that your boyfriend took you back, but now he's having issues.
Honestly, it's best if you do end the relationship. He said he'll never be able to trust you or believe what you say, so if there's no trust in a relationship, then there's no relationship period. End it. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
pouncebaby9 answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 7:33 pm: I know where your coming from, I've cheated too. It took like 3 months to gain trust back, but i love him so much and its worth it. If you dont want to lose him it might be best to just try and be friends . If you two think you can work it out, go for it. Love conquers all. If you two cant work this out maybe you two weren't meant to be; and everything happens for a reason. well good luck and let me know how everything goes ;) [ pouncebaby9's advice column | Ask pouncebaby9 A Question ]
LagunaBabe answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 1:31 pm: Unfortunately, I think he is hinting that it's time for the two of you to go your seperate ways. And honestly, I believe that's the best things for not only him, but for you too. Think about it, arguing everyday, always knowing that he doesn't trust you..wouldn't you rather be either single for a while or with someone who will trust you? I don't think this relationship is going to work, without trust -- you have nothing. [ LagunaBabe's advice column | Ask LagunaBabe A Question ]
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