hey this queshtion is mosly for girls. i have a firend that i like and i think that she might like me too but im not really sure if i should ask her. i think that she is sorta giveing me an idea that she dose but im just affraid that if i do ask her and she dosent like me then we wont be as close. what do you guys think i should do and how should i aproch her wiht it. plz answer tis and thank you
If I were you, I'd take her aside from everyone else, so you guys are kinda alone, and ask her if she wanted to go out for ice cream or something. Not dinner, not lunch. Someplace that could be really casual, but could also be a casual date. So when you ask her she could think maybe you like her and are wanting to take her out someplace.
Pay for her stuff.
And afterward, if she seemed like she was having a good time, ask if she'd like to do something again sometime.
But if she isn't interested in you, you could save yourself the embarrassment of being turned down and act like it was just a casual fun thing to do after school.
write back if you have any more questions.
trust me, if you do this, you'll find out either way.
I hope it helped. =] good luck [ DivinelyBroken's advice column | Ask DivinelyBroken A Question ]
hotpotato answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 3:15 pm: You can joke about you guys being a couple and maybe get a third mutual friend to be like, "Yeahh, you guys would look so cute together!" and you could kid around and hang your arm around her and say "We already are." or something and see how she takes it. Or something less subtle. If she doesn't want to just play it off as a joke. [ hotpotato's advice column | Ask hotpotato A Question ]
blackrose13 answered Tuesday October 23 2007, 2:36 pm: Okay well you have to make sure she likes you you should Guess,, First when you wanna talk to her tell her that what your about to say shouldnt ruin your friendship and stuff just wait a little bit before you talk to her when your sure that she likes you then you can go up to her and talk to her about it
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