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My boobs. :( They are UNEVEN! is there any way to even them out? or make them look less lop-sided?
Are uneven boobs normal or is this something that means I am deformed in some kinda way?
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Hey! Well both my Mom and Aunt have this problem.. It's nothing to worry about too much, you're not going to die or anything. Lol.
My Aunt was lopsided very badly though. One of her breasts was an A cup and the other was a C. I never noticed my whole life, she would just wear a C cup bra and stuff the smaller one so they matched.. I learned about her breasts being like this from my family when she went to get surgery and have an implant in the smaller one. She's in her late 30's and recently got this done.
Just remember. Everyone is made special. Not everyone is perfect. If a guy ever doesn't like you for this reason, then don't be upset. he's just not the right guy for you. [ My Uncle has loved and supported my aunt for almost 20 years. ]
And if it bothers you too much to stand, consider plastic surgery. But if I were in your position I would just say.. "Love me or leave me biotches!" x] It's just the way God made you and there's a reason for it. Though you may not know what that is.
Keep your head up and don't let it bother you!
-Jessica
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Im confused IDK what I should do for this new school year..I usally shop at like hot topic for tops and macys for bottoms..but this summer one of my friends were alot of prep clothes and she got alot of guy and me and here are like the same in looks...do guy prefer girls like this....another question I have is
what should I were
scene clothes
or american eagle...clothes (link)
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Okay this is a big deal with me.
YOU DON'T WANT PEOPLE TO LIKE YOU FOR WHAT YOU WEAR! BUT WHO YOU ARE!!!!!
it shouldn't matter what you're wearing. If you're only with people who are like that, frankly, you need new friends [ and guys ] who love you for YOU.
If it's a popularity thing... you're just putting yourself around fake people... Don't turn into one of those. No one can respect them! They're not acting or dressing the way they want.
My brother is a famous skateboarder in my city. I'm famous for being his younger sister. And I wear whatever I want... People still love me. Because I act and dress they way I want to.
Don't change yourself for other people. No one will respect you. And worse of all, you won't respect yourself for being honest.
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14/F/UK
So i have an amazing boyfriend who i'd never dump. He's out side of my school (goes to a different one) and we see eachother over weekends. We've been going out now for about a month.
We've hugged and kissed (like a peck on the lips) and now i think he wants to go further like a pull (snog) kinda thing (fair enough).
I was just wondering whether there were any tips that people had for me? One of my friends said that there's some sort of way that your tongue has to go? like girls go clockwise or something? I wasn't sure so is it true?
Please, ny thing will do. It's not my first but i've not done it in about 3 years. :S Any fo your tips will do, anything at all.
Thank you. :) x (link)
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Just go with the flow! x]
But whatever you do, keep it as clean as possible! Super wet kisses are not sexy.
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17/f he's 18/f
i really like this guy and i'm pretty sure he likes me. he's hinted it but hasn't come right out and said it but a while ago he promised himself that he's not going to have any relationships for a while because they've caused him a lot of grief and stress. so i'm asking you guys, if you like someone but don't want a relationship even though you know that you and this person would be good together, is there any chance that you would make an acception?? (link)
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I'm not a guy, but I just had to say this...
If he doesn't want you 100% then he doesn't deserve you. And he's not worth it.
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I am 13/f and my bf is 14/m. We have been going out for 2 months and tomorrow he is coming over, only even though we have been going out that long we both get nervous around each other. We are both shy, so there is never much convo between us in real life, but there is when we IM. I know that sounds lame, so don't tell me. What do you think I can talk to him about? He is a skater, and he said he was going to show me some of ot his tricks on a bored. I don't know if he was just joking around with this, but he also takes Karate and he said he was going to teach me some self defense (he doesn't know this, and I am not going to tell him but, I used to take karate for a couple of years before I met him, but he likes telling me a bunch of stuff about it, and I act impressed).
Anyways. . .
Another thing that is going on is that at school all of our friends won't stop bugging us about kissing. Yea I know that also sounds lame that we haven't kissed yet, but I am his first real gf. I have been kissed before but only once a few years ago. He told me that he didn't want to kiss in school, the first time. The other day, we were talking to our best friend, Derek (yes he is both of ours best friend) and Derek kept bugging Shane (my bf) to kiss me at least on the check. He said that he would, but I am not sure. Do you think he would?
Please answer and sorry that it is long I promise I will rate if you answer.
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Your first kiss needs to be special. Obviously Shane wants it to be since he doesn't want it to be at school. Your friends at school aren't helping this. lol. You should ask them in private to stop. You dont want him to kiss you because everyone else wants him to, but because he wants to.
So ask your friends to stop, tell them what I just said and if they're good friends they'll respect that.
About when you two hang out, I understand completely about the not having anything to talk about. Both my boyfriend and I are shy too. So just talk about common interests.
My boyfriend and I are both REALLY into Led Zeppelin. We have had hours worth of conversations about them.
So you should tell him that you were also in Karate. That's something you both know about and can talk about.
Maybe when he comes over to your house you can get onto YouTube.com or something like that and find funny videos. It's fun and a great conversation starter for later.
Hope this helped. Come to me if you need more advice. =]
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When a guy feels you up, does he actually go inside your bra or just on the outside? And if he goes on the inside...what if your nipples get hard? Is that like not supposed to happen? Will the guys be like um....eww
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You can't exactly know whether any guy will go inside or the outside of the bra. But knowing guys, probably underneath it. Unless he's shy. But it's totally normal for your nipples to get hard. And guys LOVE that. Trust me. Good luck. =]
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hey this queshtion is mosly for girls. i have a firend that i like and i think that she might like me too but im not really sure if i should ask her. i think that she is sorta giveing me an idea that she dose but im just affraid that if i do ask her and she dosent like me then we wont be as close. what do you guys think i should do and how should i aproch her wiht it. plz answer tis and thank you (link)
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First off, I'm a 17/f.
If I were you, I'd take her aside from everyone else, so you guys are kinda alone, and ask her if she wanted to go out for ice cream or something. Not dinner, not lunch. Someplace that could be really casual, but could also be a casual date. So when you ask her she could think maybe you like her and are wanting to take her out someplace.
Pay for her stuff.
And afterward, if she seemed like she was having a good time, ask if she'd like to do something again sometime.
But if she isn't interested in you, you could save yourself the embarrassment of being turned down and act like it was just a casual fun thing to do after school.
write back if you have any more questions.
trust me, if you do this, you'll find out either way.
I hope it helped. =] good luck
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i am 15 and have really small boobs like a 32 A and what happens if when i make out with my bf he wants to feel up my shirt, it would be really embarassing becuase im so small, but i dont want him to think im not intrested. What should i do? and how long should i know him before i let him do this? (link)
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First of all, he's your boyfriend, and he obviously knows the size of boobs you have. If I were you I'd take it as a compliment if he wanted to touch them. I mean if he wanted to touch them he obviously likes them right? Don't worry about it. Besides, if he thinks your boobs are too small then he obviously dislikes you for the wrong reasons and he isn't a good guy to be with.
remember, confidence is sexy. =]
Well, as far as how long you two should be together before you do this, is up to you. But as a female, you have the say-so as to when you are ready. If you're uncomfortable with it, tell him why. And if he's a good guy he'll understand and won't try to pressure you into it. And if he does try to pressure you, he isn't worth it, and you should get out of that relationship.
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ok well i liked or at least i think i still like him im not even sure anymore, but lets just say that i still do like him. well he found out that i liked him so he invited me to his house on memorial day weekend and we hung out in his basement and watched a movie and we hooked up. and it was my first time and i was really happy. and we dont go to the same school anymore cos i moved two years ago, but we stayed friends. and so the night before school started that weekend at like 11pm i texted him and i said"i loved being with you on friday night! i miss you already!" and he texted me back, and was like "me too, what are you doing next weekend" which kinda made me upset cos like i guess i was expecting for him to message me with something else. ok so then last weekend i wanted him to come over, but he asked if he could sleep over cos his mom wouldnt want to pick him up so late since we live a halfhour apart. and so i asked my mom and she said yes. but then the night he was supposed to come over i really didnt feel right about him sleeping over so i told him that i had to study for my finals and he kinda got mad. but then yesterday neither of us had school so he invited me to his house. and i went and i nkow that he isnt a virgin and i am. and i knew that i wasnt ready to make it to that point yet cos hes the only one who ive ever hooked up with you know and i dont love him. and we were making out on his couch(no one was home) and we were lying down. and we were making out and i felt him touch my belt and i waited to see if he would try to undo it and i felt him try to or at least i thought i did and i said no. and he took his hand off and he said he was sorry and we kept making out. and he kept trying to put his hand up my shirt, and i kept moving his hand away. but then he finally did. and i dont rember if i made him stop o he just did on his own. but then he kept moving my hand toward his penis and he put my hand over his penis(his pants were still on) and he just to make me like massage it if you will. and i moved my hand again. and then i fell asleep and i dont know if he knew if i were asleep or not and i woke up and we were holding hadn and he start moving my hand down his boxers slowly and before he got the chance to move my hand all the way down i just pulled my hand totally away, and like i heard him kinda like "huff+puff" like he was fustrated. and then he had his hand like under my belly button like sotof going down my pants, and he was just rubbing me. but i was really afraid he was gonna stick his hand down there so i moved his hand about 6 inches up. and i was really upset cos i wasnt ready to have sex or anything or go to the next level, and i think he was mad cos i wouldnt. and then my friend who lives in boston text mesaged him last ngiht and was like why did you take advantage of jessi? and he was like well after three hours of making out i got bored. and that made me really upset. and the kid i like messaged my friend john back and was likew ell why dont you just hookup with ehr and john said well if i were to hookup with her itd be because i actually care about her and not for my own benefit. and harrsion messaged him back and said well im sorry that i dont become soul mates with someone the second i see them. wich made me even more mad. cos hes known me for four years and john has only known me for two. and john cares a lot more about me than harrsion does. and me and john are just really good friends and i thought harrison actually liked me. well i wrote this letter to harrsion, so can you tell me if i should give it to him and also some advice on what i should do about him .. like im proud of myself for not letting him take advantage of me but idn, everything still just feels wrong
you really hurt me on thursday. i know how far you have gone, and thats great. but im just not ready for anything like that, and im sorry but thats just how i feel. and obviousily you dont care about me, cos if you didnt you wouldnt have said "well after three hours of making out i got bored" to john. i really thought that you liked me for me, but i guess i was wrong. i was so happy to just be with you, but i guess we're both looking for two totally different things. i'm looking for someone who i really want to be with for a long time and who ill be able to remember for basically the rest of my life. i know that that sounds corny, but this is something that i've wanted for a really long time, and i thought that i could have that with you. but i guess you're just looking for someone who you can "get busy" with. and thats great for you. but that just isnt something i want out of some one, so i guess we're just not meant to be together. and im really upset with the way you treated me. how many times did i need to pull my hand away before you realized that i wasnt going to give you a hand job and for you to realize that i didnt want you putting your hand down my pants. i was just so afriad that it was going to lead into something that i was going to regret. i wasnt about to loose my virgintiy to you right then and there. because i know for a fact that you arent in love you me. and i know that im not in love with you. and i know that you have had sex before, and obviousily you werent in love with them, because if you did, you would probably still be with them. well, i hope you understand how i do feel, because i was able to tell that you were getting frustrated with me cos i wouldnt go as far as you would have liked to go. but i think we should just be friends because i really just dont want to be with you because im just not ready for what you obviousily are ready for.
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Don't take that...
the 1st time my current boyfriend and I got that far, well we were making out and he put his hand on my chest and i kinda jumped and instinctively put my hand up, because i wasnt expecting it, and he totally backed off. though i was fine with it. then later he called me after he left and felt really bad, and he said he was worried that i was uncomfortable, and if i was, he wouldn't do anything like that again.
that's the thing that guy should've done.
the 1st time you pushed him away he should've totally backed off.
and he must take sex lightly if he'd do it when he's bored.
sex is something you do when you really love that person. obviously he doesn't love or respect you. so you shouldn't even give him the time of day. =]
good luck. hope it helped.
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hello..
im stuck.. right now im in a serious relationship, weve been together for nearly a year... and things are changing.. its like its me making all the effort, yet he goes threw phases, like one weekend it will be me he'l want to see,t then he wont want to see me for another week then go fishing or something, he says hes not bored of me or anything and he shouldnt be cause we only see each other 2 times a week.. and the other part to the story is theres another guy who i havent done anything with, yet he sends me roses and all that kind of stuff.. ive been with my bf now for a yr and ive never got anything like that.. i just feel like i need to be somewhere else to further enhance my carreer, yet the only reson im here is for him.. and i really do love him so i cant let go, but i just dont no how to make him see that hes not appreciating me enough or anything..
wat should i do..is it time for quits, even though i love him??
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I think you guys should see eachother maybe once a week instead of twice a week..
that's what my bf and I do. and sure, it still gets a little boring sometimes, but if you see eachother 2 often it'll get boring really fast. and that's just what it sounds like is happening. I'm sry 2 say it, but if he ditches you 2 go do other things, well that's really not kool. erm.. anyway try seeing eachother a little less and then when you do see eachother it'll be more special.
also about the roses and stuff. that shouldn't matter 2 much.. my bf doesn't do things like that, but he does say really sweet things.. and it's the little stuff like that that matters most. 2 me at least. good luck, i hope it helped. =]
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