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Need help ASAP
I am 13/f and my bf is 14/m. We have been going out for 2 months and tomorrow he is coming over, only even though we have been going out that long we both get nervous around each other. We are both shy, so there is never much convo between us in real life, but there is when we IM. I know that sounds lame, so don't tell me. What do you think I can talk to him about? He is a skater, and he said he was going to show me some of ot his tricks on a bored. I don't know if he was just joking around with this, but he also takes Karate and he said he was going to teach me some self defense (he doesn't know this, and I am not going to tell him but, I used to take karate for a couple of years before I met him, but he likes telling me a bunch of stuff about it, and I act impressed).
Anyways. . .
Another thing that is going on is that at school all of our friends won't stop bugging us about kissing. Yea I know that also sounds lame that we haven't kissed yet, but I am his first real gf. I have been kissed before but only once a few years ago. He told me that he didn't want to kiss in school, the first time. The other day, we were talking to our best friend, Derek (yes he is both of ours best friend) and Derek kept bugging Shane (my bf) to kiss me at least on the check. He said that he would, but I am not sure. Do you think he would?
Please answer and sorry that it is long I promise I will rate if you answer.
Thanks in advance =D
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Your first kiss needs to be special. Obviously Shane wants it to be since he doesn't want it to be at school. Your friends at school aren't helping this. lol. You should ask them in private to stop. You dont want him to kiss you because everyone else wants him to, but because he wants to.
So ask your friends to stop, tell them what I just said and if they're good friends they'll respect that.
About when you two hang out, I understand completely about the not having anything to talk about. Both my boyfriend and I are shy too. So just talk about common interests.
My boyfriend and I are both REALLY into Led Zeppelin. We have had hours worth of conversations about them.
So you should tell him that you were also in Karate. That's something you both know about and can talk about.
Maybe when he comes over to your house you can get onto YouTube.com or something like that and find funny videos. It's fun and a great conversation starter for later.
Hope this helped. Come to me if you need more advice. =]
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Stuff taht you can talk about is your interests. I mean, if he likes karate..maybe you should tell him that you were in it so then you can both talk about somthing that you like to do..or did like to do. SOmthing that you both share..or if you don't wnatto tell him tehn jsut talk about it because u knwo a lot about it. You can also talk about just your fav stuff. like food colors, animals...adn little conversation starters. I know it is hard to talk to poeple. i agree taht it is easier to talk on IM then in person. it is just easier to express yourself. i understand what you mean. And about the kiss, i think he will do it when he is ready. i mean, his first kiss, he wants it to be special and you just need to give him time. Hopefully this helped. GOod luck and i hope he kisses you soon.
~sealgirl~
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