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hello..
im stuck.. right now im in a serious relationship, weve been together for nearly a year... and things are changing.. its like its me making all the effort, yet he goes threw phases, like one weekend it will be me he'l want to see,t then he wont want to see me for another week then go fishing or something, he says hes not bored of me or anything and he shouldnt be cause we only see each other 2 times a week.. and the other part to the story is theres another guy who i havent done anything with, yet he sends me roses and all that kind of stuff.. ive been with my bf now for a yr and ive never got anything like that.. i just feel like i need to be somewhere else to further enhance my carreer, yet the only reson im here is for him.. and i really do love him so i cant let go, but i just dont no how to make him see that hes not appreciating me enough or anything..
wat should i do..is it time for quits, even though i love him??
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I think you guys should see eachother maybe once a week instead of twice a week..
that's what my bf and I do. and sure, it still gets a little boring sometimes, but if you see eachother 2 often it'll get boring really fast. and that's just what it sounds like is happening. I'm sry 2 say it, but if he ditches you 2 go do other things, well that's really not kool. erm.. anyway try seeing eachother a little less and then when you do see eachother it'll be more special.
also about the roses and stuff. that shouldn't matter 2 much.. my bf doesn't do things like that, but he does say really sweet things.. and it's the little stuff like that that matters most. 2 me at least. good luck, i hope it helped. =]
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i think you should give it a little more time& if you feel like your still putting forth all the effort& hes not appreciating you then i think you guys would be in need for a break: like he said: its not boredom but he might just want some space for awhile
but the best thing to do it talk to him about it& see how he feels :)
&about that other guy: he seems like a sweet guy: if i were you i would definetly get to know him better! :)
good luck&hope i helped :)
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Its come to the point in your relationship where you just need to give it one last chance. Sit down with him and tell him exactly whats bothering you. Tell him you don't feel appreciated that your the one who seems to be having do to all the effort. If it continues to be this way after you talk to him, then its time to move on. It is hard to leave someone you love but if sometimes its better to let them go then to try and keep going because in the end it just ends up twice as worse and you end up twice as hurt.
You deserve to be appreciated and adored and if hes not giving you that then you should move on to someone who will give you what you need and you give them what they need in return.
It will hurt for a while but sooner or later you will start to feel better and eventually move on from him.
Relationships are meant to be something that both of you enjoy and sometimes you have problems in relationships but it seems like your not enjoying this relationship anymore.
I don't know how much i can push this on you but you do deserve to be loved and to love back. Love isnt one sided and thats whats happening in your relationship.
I hope your okay and everything turns out ok.
Love xXxPuNki-PiXieXxX
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