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ok I really like this guy ever since... whenever and everyone says that he wants a girlfriend really badly cause he's so desperate. thats why the girls he asks out break up with him cause hes not really worth it. well I really like him i really do and he started flirting with me the other day in one part he said "i'm afraid to ask you out cause you might say no" then i started giggling and he said "what do you have a thing for me" and we just started flirting. then i asked one of his close friends about it and she said that he usually does that when he wants someone to ask him out. and the flirting was like for only one day. after that my best friend asked him if he liked me and he said "no i dont like anyone right now." soo he is desperate but i really wanna go out with him cuz i like him. should i tell him? what about the flirting? please help! thank you soo much!!
-shy girl (link)
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definetly tell him... he might not be worth it in the long run... but its a risk you should be willing to take... if he starts flirting with you again than just be like "wanna go out sometime" The only problem is his desperation... since he's desperate he might just want a girlfriend to just be able to tell his friends he has one... hope i helped.
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i have this guy at school that i REALLY like. but hes wit all the popular ppl and he;ll never like me...but then theres this other guys who left the state last month and he moved...he emailed me a while back but i just got it. my comp was messed up. well in the message he said he loved me and when he was here i loved him and told him but he never said anything to me. now that hes finally telling me makes me feel like he was embarrised or somthing about me down here...but now that hes gone he isnt. but then there is always the guy at my school....and what if the guy who moved asks me out? what should i do? i think im okay with long term relationships but he doesnt have aim...only email and maybe fone. :( (link)
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well... i am not really sure who you should go with... but i think you should choose the guy who moved... he probably wasn't embarresed... he was probably shy and thats ok if he is... if you go out with the popular guy... he'll most likely be using you because he just wants to be able to say he has a girlfriend (thats what popular kids in my school do) sorry i can't be much help
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There's this kid named Brian, whos liked me since 2nd grade, and I've liked him since 5th grade. We're now in nineth grade. (freshmens) and There's this huge dance in April called Freshmen dance. He asked me to go with him, and I said yes, but he heard from my best friend Charles, that I was going with him, Of which I'm not. So Brian went and asked this 8th grader to the dance, and he PROMISED he'd take her. So now he's saying he'll break it off with her so he can go with me. I really don't know what to say. I'll feel bad for the 8th grader, but I really don't know. Should I stop him from breaking it off with the 8th grader? Or should I let him? Please help. Sry its so long! (link)
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you should definetly let him break it off with the 8th grader... u've waited since 5th grade so no its your chance... make yourself happy
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okay there are two girls who are really pretty who are in my grad(7th). but heres the problem, o dont know who to choose! both think im really funny but one has a popular bf but hes not that handsomeand i can tell shes losing interested in him. the other girl is free but has a crush on every "cute" boy in the class. there also both really popular. so my question is which one? p.s. i rate high for an answer that deosnt piss me off. (link)
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well... i would go for the one who is losing intrest in her boyfriend because its not like she likes every guy in her class like the other girl... she would definetly be the best choice... the other one just sounds like she wants a boyfriend so she can go and tell everyone she has one
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Okay! Im a Catholic. And I have no problem with it. Well, I know that you arnt supposed to cuss and say mean things, exs- raciest things and gossip ect. Well I have an African American Boyfriend- Im White. Anyways these kids on the bus are so mean to me. Like they know that my boyfriend is Black. And like the other day this one kid says "My brother had this dream and he was telling it to my mom. and his mom was like ' well Martin Luther King had a dream and he got shot' " and i was like you guys know that I dont like racist jokes. And like they cuss all the time, and i told them that i dont like it, and then most of the time when i say that i dont like it, theyre like "F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ F*^ " and Its so mean! and like My boyfriend got me all into the Bible and like so now i know how bad lying really is and same with cussing, and like one time i told them a bunch of stuff, about my boyfriend, and then i regreted telling them because they always made fun of me for it. so i told them that i was lying and then i said that i was lying like right after i told them not to lie,so they made fun of me for that too. and and i was like well that was beofre i learned all of this stuff about the Bible. and then they would make fun of me like "IM SAVED" like and say totally sarcastically. Yah- so I know that you're supposed to ignor people like that, but not doing anything about it is just as bad as you doing it yourself. and i dont want voilence.
So any advice? I always rate a 4 or a 5 or nothing!!!
Thanks so Much!!!
*~!KeLs!~* (link)
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well as long as you have your boyfriend you should be happy... it doesn't matter what race you are.. i thought that this whole black and white seperation thing was over... if you like your boyfriend than thats cool... don't listen to them... if one of them doesn't have a gf/bf just be like "well at least i have one and i am happy and thats all that counts" sry i can't be that much help
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how can u tell if a guy likes u? ok this guy i was crushing on for 2 years keeps staring at me, and trying 2 make convorsation. Hes super cute, and were both 13. But i hav told him that i liked him and he never felt the same way. we're good friends but he knows i dont like him anymore. But im kind of having the same feelings again!! should i like him? should i do anything? or should i let it go like i always did...? (link)
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i definetly think you like him and he likes you... but it seems like you'll have to make the first move... don't be afraid.. just go for it and i think he feels the same way... follow your heart
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ok the valentines day dance is the 18th or 19th and i really want a guy to go with..even just as a friend would be fine with me. There is a guy i have had in mind about but he is a grade younger than me? is that wrong? also one of my close friends like him too and she know that i have a *crush* on him but she doesnt know that i actually like him..what should i do? i will rate high!! *lost* (link)
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it is definetly not wrong... i have a boyfriend who is a grade younger than me and its no different than having one in your grade... its fun... as for the part with your friend... i really don't know.. sorry
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Ok so I've been best friends with this guy now for about 2 1/2 years.. We usually tell each other everything so when I had a crush on him about a year ago I told him.. he didn't like me that way..
Fast forward: He currently likes a few girls, all of whom think he's sweet but not "boyfriend material" and are my friends. This kinda hurts cause I thought I was over him but obviously not. He thinks no girl will ever like him, blah blah, and I want to let him know I do, but I'm afraid of rejection again.. what should I do? Should I tell him or just keep being a friend?
sorry this was so long.. (link)
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well..if he starts talking about how girls don't like him just be like "that's not true because i like you" don't be afraid to tell him if he doesn't like you at least your still friends
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I know this sounds totally gross but since I'm from Sicily Italy and i have really dark brown hair. There is almost black hair on my arms and I dont like to wear t-shirts cuz it shows off my arms and im afraid someone might say something. What can I do? (link)
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i have the same exact problem!once this kid said to me... "you have hair on your arms like my dad" (but he was little) but it hurt soo much.. i'm only 13 but it depends on what age you are, but you can laser it off... thats what i am going to do when i get older... if not this person told me i can bleach it but i don't wanna do that. I think that you shouldn't be embarresed to wear t - shirts... it doesn't matter what others think... thats what i tell myself. sorry i can't be of that much help
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I'm just plain confused. This year all of this boy/girl dating stuff started and I don't know how to make heads or tails of it. I don't know how to ask a guy out, or how to keep from ruining an almost-hookup. I had this crush in the beginning of the year. He liked me too, took me to the dance, and then suddenly the day after the dance he was going out with this other girl. He's still my friend and all. I feel that I have this weird kind of friendship with about 3 guys where i can talk to them over the internet and i feel that they're my friends and all on the internet, but at school they hang out with their friends and nothing happens between us.. we talk a lot on email and it seems we're getting along great..
Can you please help me because i am totally new!
(f/13/7th grade) (link)
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ok.. if you want to ask a guy out just drop little hints... and then one day just go for it... its the easiest way... don't try and make yourself fall in love, one day there will just be this guy who comes along and captures your heart... as for the 3 guys on the internet, just try and talk to them in school and then see what happens... anyother questions, just drop them in my inbox
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Okay im 15 .. and i like these two guys .. tha first one lets call him Joe ..okay well he goes to my school .. and hes a junior(im a freshman) well our lockers are right next to each other so thas sorta how we met but then we started talking,talking bc i became "close friends" with his friend (lets call him) Steve .. well me ans Steve just have sorta drifted away .. but me and Joe still talk alot !! n we talk online n everyday at school .. and i like him alot .. hes 17 .. soo hott and is soo sweet to me!! we just sorta click i guess.. hes so awesome .. and then tha other guy lets call him Bob .. well i met him about a month and a half ago from my two bff's ..Well we have all hung out together a few times and me and Bob talk online all tha time n see each other about every weekand(hes a freshman too but goes to another school) .. so every weekand me and my friends go to these local concert things .. its just basically a whole bunc of local punk/emo bands and they play .. its really awesome .. well me n my friends have been goin every sat. night for tha past month .. well this comming up saturday .. i invited Joe and Bob .. and they are both sorta thinking like im guna be there n we can get close or flirt or hook up or w/e .. which we prolly will ... but i dont want like Bob to think like we are guna make out or anyhthing bc then Joe is guna be there and vice versa .. i dont want to hurt either of them .. Me and Bob talk ALOT and we both like each other and know it.. but me n Joe .. well i like him ALOT and i think he knows it but im not sure how he feels about me .. I really like both of them .. Bob has a great personality and is SOOO sweet .. There are so many things i love about him .. but then Joe hes so hott ..and nice and sweet..n i like alotta things about him too .. and i told my mom that i liked both of them but she keeps insiting that i should forget about Bob and just keep persuing Joe !! but i think she thinks that bc hes older and his family is way rich ... so im not sure what i should do about this upcomming weekand .. Pleae help ? I rate 'XoX (link)
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well... you should spend some time with like only bob and than some alone time with joe to see which one you like better... if in the end you can't choose than just forget about them if you don't want either of them to get hurt because it wouldn't be fair to them... i personally think you should go with joe and not because he's rich but because i think you like him more... follow your heart... if you have any other questions just drop them in my inbox
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ha ha ha...ok... Well now, there was this one guy who i went out with for like 5 months. let's call him josh*. And we broke up before winter break. And he claims to still like me and he knows i still like him... but everyone guy around me keeps telling me that he's just using me and stuff, when i ask josh about it, he goes don't belive them. And we both trust each other and everything, that's why we never got into a fight while we were going out. But here's my problem. One of my friends asked him if he thought we should just go back out again. And she said he told her that he's not sure, and he doesn't have time for a GF right now. And i totally understand because he's really athletic and he has bball and baseball and track's about to start soon. So i mean i don't kno what to do. Sometimes we go to the mvoies on the weekend, and we kinda make out a little. so i mean. i don't know whether i should still pursue to like him and everything if it's going to go no where. So? wat do u think i should do? find someone else? or go after him? oh and there's really no one else i like at this school. Oh and josh always says he likes no one but me still, and he doesn't but i really wanna go back out and i just don't know what to do!..help me. (link)
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hmm... well if u can't get rid of this guy and there's no one else you like than i would say talk to him and tell him everything u've ever felt for him. BUt if he doesn't want a girlfriend right now don't bug him about it... it will only make things worse. follow your heart and your desicion will be right. Maybe if you want to surprise him... don't tell him how you feel just yet and than get him something awesome for v-day and then tell him everything. sorry i can't be much of a help but i tried... anymore questions, drop them in my inbox.
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I have a huge crush on this guy and just when he was starting to like me someone told him i was talking about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me. I've been crying my eyes out for hours now and life isnt worth living without him i dont know what to do....please help me im so upset hes the first guy ive ever cried over :( :( :( (link)
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aww... well i would definetly talk to him. Does he know you like him? If he doesn't go up to him and be like i never talked about you behind your back, i couldn't do that because i like you so much. and then see what he says... explain to him that it is definetly not true. If you don't want to ask him out just be like "so can we be friends again?" this way you get to know him better and he'll learn to trust you more.
any more questions, just leave them in my inbox
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Ok well let me tell you the whole story! Last year i was a frosh and timid and shy and i had a boring life. I only had 2 real friends. This year I realized that this was no way to live... I decided I wanted to have A LOT of friends! One of my friends last year gets on my nerves SOOO much! So i barely hang out with her anymore because of that! but the other one and I are still best friends! Well since I'm not extremely tight with my new group yet, things are a bit sketch. Some days i feel like they reallllyyyy like me and I LOVE IT! but then other days it feels like they are just annoyed with me... i dont know what to do! Everyday its different! How do i get closer with them? (link)
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wow i have the same exact problem... like i had only 2 real friends last year but this year i have tons but somedays we're kool together but others we're not. To tell you the truth, i kind of like having two real friends better than a bunch that some days are cool and others aren't... but i can't go back to that. I am starting to get closer with them by just using 3 way calling so every1 can be on the phone at once... like i 3 way some one and than my other friend does it and then my other until we are all on the phone together... also i try and hang out with them outside of school... its alot different andd way more fun.. and if i feel like i am being excluded i tell them and we work it out... just be more outgoing and have fun... don't go into school and be like planning what your going to do to get closer with them, just go with the flow and if anything random pops into your mind just say it cauz you can wind up getting a good laugh out of that.
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I used to like this boy and I found out he was a total idiot. I used 2 like b in love with him and I don't even know why. The sad part is I lost him to an "Artificial Plastic Barbie". This girl so plastic its scary. She dyed her hair blonde and its like bleach blonde. She wears globs of eye makeup like you can't imagine to cover up wrinkles she has and thats why I consider her "artificial". I don't kno why he likes her, but now they both talk about me behind my back and say how weird I am and stuff, and I didn't even do anything to them! Now this feeling of love that I used to have has turned into hate. I have never hated anyone really, and I have never hated anyone this strongly. I hate her and him for just liking each other. It bothers me. I can't concentrate in class, I can't sleep, I can't have a normal conversation with my friends anymore without mentioning how much I hate them. I don't want to be this way, but I just am. I really need some help!
~ Doesn't wanna b a hater ~ (link)
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ok... i think you are judging this guys girlfriend too much by the way she looks..
Here are some reasons why he may be talking about you behind your back
1)His girlfriend is talking about you and he just goes along with her so she'll accept him
2) He doesn't like you
3) He likes you but is trying to convince himself that he doesn't.
Stop worrying about them. This guy is a total jerk and he definetly is not a good friend to you. Hang out with your friends and go to the movies. Just enjoy yourself and forget about dating and eventually the right guy will come along.. sry this might not be a great answer but if you have anyother questions just drop them in my inbox... xo
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uMmMMM.. ii like this guy n he said he likes me but.. i liked him at the beginiinq of the year n he broke my heart 3 times be4 sOo ii dont know what i shud do shud i just ask him out or move on since he hurt me be4 (link)
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you should definetly move on... if he broke your heart more than once... he is most likely going to break it again... i think you should start talking to diferent guys because there are plenty of other people out there that won't break your heart... move on
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hey! this guy that i like likes me back and he was talking to my friend andhe might ask me out! i would say yes but i have never had a boyfriend and i am in 7th grade... i am the kind of person who thinks we are to young to date... i dont think i want a boyfriend but how do i say no without hurting his feelings, because i still like him?? please help me (link)
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If you like him... then you should say yes, ur never to young to date... if you like someone than go for it
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girls say they love you, but they dont show it why is that? (link)
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WEll... girls usually want the guy to make the first moves... and the guy should always be sweet to the girl... but sometimes if the guy is shy, the girl is shy
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okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female) (link)
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you definetly like this guy... but you shouldn't try and steal your best friends man... its cruel... maybe you should go to the movies with them because its not like you guys aren't friends... plus it will give you time to be with your crush, but don't hang out with them all the time because they definetly want some alone time too.
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I'm a teen, and after changing schools and being away for a few years, I moved back to my hometown this summer. I have a guy friend that I was best friends with before I left, and I'm starting to like him as more then a friend. But, I don't know if he likes me back. We're in English together and over the past couple of weeks I'm noticed him glancing my way out of the corner of my eye and he comes over to my desk 'just to talk' all the time. He's started sitting at my table at lunch and other things also. Do you think he likes me, and if so, what do you think I should do about it? (link)
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The is a good chance that he likes you... but just to be sure... ask him... don't ask him infront of everyone... only when you two are alone because if your around people he may not tell you the truth... maybe things will work out in the end...
take a risk
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