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Which one?
Okay im 15 .. and i like these two guys .. tha first one lets call him Joe ..okay well he goes to my school .. and hes a junior(im a freshman) well our lockers are right next to each other so thas sorta how we met but then we started talking,talking bc i became "close friends" with his friend (lets call him) Steve .. well me ans Steve just have sorta drifted away .. but me and Joe still talk alot !! n we talk online n everyday at school .. and i like him alot .. hes 17 .. soo hott and is soo sweet to me!! we just sorta click i guess.. hes so awesome .. and then tha other guy lets call him Bob .. well i met him about a month and a half ago from my two bff's ..Well we have all hung out together a few times and me and Bob talk online all tha time n see each other about every weekand(hes a freshman too but goes to another school) .. so every weekand me and my friends go to these local concert things .. its just basically a whole bunc of local punk/emo bands and they play .. its really awesome .. well me n my friends have been goin every sat. night for tha past month .. well this comming up saturday .. i invited Joe and Bob .. and they are both sorta thinking like im guna be there n we can get close or flirt or hook up or w/e .. which we prolly will ... but i dont want like Bob to think like we are guna make out or anyhthing bc then Joe is guna be there and vice versa .. i dont want to hurt either of them .. Me and Bob talk ALOT and we both like each other and know it.. but me n Joe .. well i like him ALOT and i think he knows it but im not sure how he feels about me .. I really like both of them .. Bob has a great personality and is SOOO sweet .. There are so many things i love about him .. but then Joe hes so hott ..and nice and sweet..n i like alotta things about him too .. and i told my mom that i liked both of them but she keeps insiting that i should forget about Bob and just keep persuing Joe !! but i think she thinks that bc hes older and his family is way rich ... so im not sure what i should do about this upcomming weekand .. Pleae help ? I rate 'XoX
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Well first i think you should find out how joe feels about you before you make your choice. If he doesn't feel the same then your choice is made for you. If he does then you have to think long and hard about which one you feel the most for. I don't think you should have invited them both to the same event on the same night, but on the other hand it might help your decision a little bit. You can see how each one acts around each other. See which one gets jelous or acts like a jerk. But if they both act really cool then i think you should pick bob because he is closer to your age. Remember if you need more help or advice just hit me up and send it to my inbox.
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well... you should spend some time with like only bob and than some alone time with joe to see which one you like better... if in the end you can't choose than just forget about them if you don't want either of them to get hurt because it wouldn't be fair to them... i personally think you should go with joe and not because he's rich but because i think you like him more... follow your heart... if you have any other questions just drop them in my inbox
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I think that it's really up to you. I would go with the freshmen guy, because you to can face all the rest of high school together, enjoy senior year together. And ur junior friend leaves for collage too years before you. Just my opinion, but it's truly up to you. Here's a way for you to decide. Get a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle and write each of the guy's names @ the top. Start listing what you like about each of them on both sides. The hard part is, you can't put the same thing on both sides, like you can't put that they're both sweet, you have to weigh it and pick one. That way it's not a tie and you can back up your decision. Good luck!
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Really, if I were in your situation I would go with the cute freshman "Bob". Your friend "Joe" has most likely gone through a lot of highschool drama in the past 3 years, and might try and take advantage of your... unexperienced-ness (ok that's not a word but bear with me here) Anyways, I'm just saying that if you two hook up, he might not be in the relationship with you for the reasons you'd like him to be.
I'd try to go steady for a while and let Bob or Joe make the first move.
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hmmmm....:)
interesting. i believe that you should follow your heart on this one. Who do you feel more strongly for? I think, to put your fears to rest, you should ask Joe how he truly feels. Even though you don't wanna hurt their feelings, you can't have both, so I suggest you go w/the one you could picture spending time with for a long while. Speaking of time, I know it sucks to have a b/f that you don't see everyday, so that's another point for Joe. In the end, i would definitely pick Joe. You shouldn't really care about how much money someone has, because thats totally superficial. But choose wisely.
Hope I helped you out any:)
*Diamyn*
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well i think you should choose joe for the fact that you can see each other every day. where as bob you can only see on aturdays at a concert. i also think that you should choose joe because you talked about how he was sweet and nice to you more than you did about bob being nice to you. i am not saying that he isnt nice to you, i am saying you mention joe a little more. and this weekend can be a way for you two figure out how each will act around you with another guy there. you said that you will prolly flirt with THEM, see how the both of them take that. this may be a way to help you choose. i dunno. but also it may be a way to see hoow joe acts around you when he is out with you. and also how he is with your friends. (<---if this is the first time hanging out.)
you should base your decision on who treats you better all together, (by being nice and sweet, how he acts around other people, how he feels about other guys and you, how much he shows that he likes you, etc), not based on looks or age or money. (<-- like you mom wants you to). i am not so sure that my advice was all that good, but all in all i hope it helps or you atleast understand my point that i was trying to get across to you. best of luck with all of it.
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