i cant do anything right with my dad. he acts fine around my mom and when im with my sister but when im alone with him, whatever i do he gets mad at me and blows up and screams and yells. when i call my mom at work to ask her for a phone number or to ask where something is he screams at me, then when i try to tell my mom she says no he would never do that...lalala. i dont know what to do anymore. it really upsets me because i just want his approval but im afraid to tell him to stop. hes thrown things before, not at me, but like thrown a lamp and a carton of clementines. i dont want him to do it again. what should i do to get him to approve of me?
Talk to your mum (mom... Im aussie). If she doesnt listen, make her listen. Your dad shouldnt treat you like that. Perhaps theres something that you dont know about your past that could be the reason your father seems to hold a grudge. Maybe even talk to him ... when he's in a calm mood would be a good idea. Tell him he frightens you and just tell him how you feel. He is your parent. You shouldnt have to be afraid of your parent.
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I have no idea why I am asking this question I guess I need to hear it from the "Guys" what are guys REALLY thinking when they see a woman who is overweight? Sometimes I think all guys care about are skinny, pretty woman. What do you think when you see a heavy female?
I can tell you, from all the guys i've spoken to about that subject, most of them prefer a curvy woman... Or at least not skin and bones. If you are asking this because you are overweight, there are clothes you can wear to hide and accentuate certain body features.
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i was supposed to get my period a week ago. i have been spotting for the past 3 days and then it all just stopped. i was wondering if it is possible that im pregnant.
If you've had sex, especially unprotected sex, then it is highly possible. People can still have their normal periods while they're pregnant so go see your doctor for a test or go get yourself a home test.
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So i know this kid named justin through my friend rachel. they're really good friends. and we hang out in groups sometimes. A couple monthes back we all hung out and we flirted a little and i started to have a thing for him. We didn't talk though really. Than we hooked up at semi, but still didn't. After we hooked up things were pretty awkward but after a week or so we'd exchange some words in class but nothing special. Than we were both drunk and hooked up again. Same thing happened again. Than just aabout a week ago it happened again. And we we were drunk. Its so frustrating because i know if he wanted to talk to me he'd text or call, but he hasn't. I like him a lot but I dont want to tell him that and I dont want to text/call him first. What do i do? Is he just using me for a hookup when were drunk? Do you automatically have feelings for someone after you hookup with them? HELP what do i do?
I think he's just using you for a hook up. Ask him about it. Tell him you're into him and stuff but dont be pushy. That will probabably just make him run for the hills!!
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16/f
all of my friends, or pretty much all of them, have hooked up with a guy/guys. I haven't. and they are all so pretty :[ AND DON'T TELL ME THAT I AM PRETTY BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW ME. i think im not appealing to guys. i don't have boobs. and actually, some of my friends don't either, but that's not the point ... i guess. I've had like ... 3 boyfriends. 2 were just flukes. one i really liked alot, but we only kissed, never hooked up. i guess i was scared? *because he has hooked up before* and then we broke up. but anyways, just the other day one of my "friends" was like ... well everyone has hooked up by now...duh. and i was like, no they havent, i know people who havent. and she was like, have you? and i lied. i said i did. because i didn't want to feel like a loser. because maybe i should have ALREADY hooked up with a guy. but again, no guys like me. and im only attracted to the ones who are out of my league, not available, or ex's. I DONT KNOW WHATS WRONG OR WHAT I AM DOING WRONG OR ANYTHING. any advice is appreciated. i guess. ugh. will it ever be my turn ?! ugh. and you don't have to tell me what i want to hear, im on this site for the truth. okay? thanks in advance.
OK firstly i was in your position at your age. Well i was almost 16, but still, i hadnt hooked up with a guy and all my friends were already sleeping around! I didnt have boobs for a long time either. I had alot of 'boyfriends' but we never did anything.
You just have to go for it. Put yourself out there. Alot of the time it isnt about what you look like on the outside, but what you have on the inside .. like personality. I know its cliche and everyone says it, but its true. If you're quiet and awkward guys will tend to pass you over for perhaps the more outgoing but slightly uglier friend.
Your friends probably dont mean to be nasty. I lied about not hooking up with guys for a long time and ended up pashing on with some random for the first time at a party cos my friends thought i had.
There isnt anything wrong with you. Dont stress about it. And dont be afraid to hook up with guys. Its not as hard as you probably think it is. And once you've found the right person ... someone whos a great kisser (like i have :-D) you just wont be able to stop!
It will be your turn. Just grab the bull by the horns and GO FOR IT!!! If you make a mistake the first time, laugh it off and go for it again!
Good luck!
katie
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I am 17/f(18 in june) years old. i have been dating a boy on and off for 3 years.. he is turning 20 in February. and i hate him o so bad these days... we fight about the stupidest things and we never go anywhere. he hates my friends and its not fair.. its just not right, i treat him like he is my son. i get him up and off to school because he is still in high school for the 3rd time in a row! he is a senior(as am i). i cant stand anything he does anymore and i never wanna be around him.. i always think of some excuse on why i don't wanna have sex with him and i just don't want to deal with it.. but i feel that it is my mission in life to get him to graduate finally. and i am going to do that. and he is graduating on Jan 15 and leaving Jan 16 to go to Las Vegas to see his best friend in the air force. i know i want to break up with him, i just don't know when and how to do it.. he has been my life for the past 3 years. i don't know how i could do that to him. i have hurt him so many times before but because of things that happened when we were not together for a moment. he is just always yelling at me and thinking i am cheating on him. he blames me for losing all his friends and not graduating his first year being a senior. he works sleeps and goes to school and sees me... that is his whole week. he is so stressed and i cant be with him anymore.. we remind me of my mom and dad who had been together since they were seventeen. and they fought and eventually got physical and my dad cheated on my mom and all this shit was going on and they started doing coke and my mom became a crackhead.(she is now 1 year and 4 months clean) i mean i have had a hard life. and i do not plan on reliving it.......** but about 6 months ago i met this girl she instantly became my best friend (shes 20)... she is amazing. i mean her personality is amazing. shes beautiful and she treats me better than anyone has treated me before. i care about her so much. i cant stop thinking about her. i missed her so much when she left for Maine. she was gone for a week and she told me she was pretty sure she loves me. and im pretty sure i feel the same. is it a bad thing that i like her? i never liked a girl before. any advice on how i should act on all this? sorry its really long but i feel a lot better now that its all out.
You're only young. Ditch the boyfriend cos he seems like a pig... experiment with the girl but make sure shes aware that you have never been with a girl before and your not sure if this is really how you are.
You're only 17... Live life... have fun. Dont spend your time stressing about a guy that can be replaced.
Just say, "look its not working for (INSERT REASON HERE) reason and i think we should break up. I dont mean to hurt you but my heart is not in it anymore (bla bla bla) i still love you in a way but i am just not in love with you"
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I am 4 mo. pregnant and the babies daddy left me penniless, homeless, and with out a car. I am about to be homeless in a few days and the sad part is I'm not a bad person. I don't do drugs and I don't drink and violence of any kind is just not in my nature. I love this child and its not even born yet. I live in the country and there are no homeless shelters anywhere near. I have no friends and family and will do anything to keep and raise my baby. Please help me what should I do. This child deserves its mother.
Terra
Go to police stations, welfare places ... churches... Places like that. Tell them your situation and they will help you.
As for the baby's daddy? WELL... It takes a MAN to be a daddy... it takes no one special to donate sperm and get someone pregnant!!!
He's not worth it!
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Okay...
Basically I'm 18 & have been in a 2 year relationship with my partner.
I DO NOT want any advice saying ''Your not old enough, Your not ready etc etc.''
Because in my eyes, your never ready to become a parent until it happens.
We have decided we would like a child, I'm coming on 19, and I have very supportive and some what well off parents who would be there for me in any situation.
What I am actually asking for is some advice and some signs of pregnancy, coming from someone who has experienced it.
I have joined up to a website that tells me basic dates that are best for falling pregnant, according to my menstrual period, however is there any particular things that may ''encourage'' pregnancy??
Sorry if this is too graphic but..
I had sexual intercourse with my partner on 25th/26th & 27th (today) December, and on the 25th I felt something almost instantly, and that feeling I have carried with me for the last 2 days, its like a heavy feeling in my stomach, and like a constant bloated feeling, is this my mind playing tricks because I'm so desperate for a baby?? Or is it a tell tale sign??
I don't think my chances of falling pregnant just at the minute are very high because I only stopped taking the pill 3 days ago, however I had forgotten to take it here and there beforehand, so the chances of me being completely protected are very little.
I haven't ever felt this heavy bloated feeling (along with the weird pains and noises) before ...
Can anyone help me and suggest things to encourage and recognise pregnancy?
Thank You!
Wowee you've been slaughtered... Good on you for making the decision to be a mum. Its a tough one, and i made it at 17. It was the best thing i ever did and i stick by it. I think that the best thing to do is to just live life normally. Dont stress about getting pregnant. Im currently trying for my second (at age 21) and im taking it as it comes. The more you stress the less likely you are to conceive. Your body wont think you're ready if its stressing about it.
Good luck..
xoxox
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sorry in advance if this is to much info haha its so weird writing this but whatever, i really need to know..
so im 16/f and my bf says he wants me to lick his ass haha i know that sounds really weird but yeah. What i wanna know is like how to do it right. Like i guess id be on my knees giving him a bj and then i'd want to go from that to his ass but like you cant really lick a guys as from a front can you? so i guess im asking how to switch from a bj to a rim job... and i looked up positions to do this online and what i found was either on a bed (which wouldnt work it would be either in or outside of a car) or like with him bent over and that wouldnt work either cuz bending over would make him feel like the bitch haha. and also jw how do you give a really good rimjob? and is it like gross? haha thanks lol sorry this is so weird
My best advice.... DONT DO IT... You can get sick. E-coli and stuff lives in human excrements... YUK! No thanks. Tell him thanks but no thanks.
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I'm 26. For ages I've stayed a virgin for a number of reasons, but finally I decided I wanted to sleep with a guy I just started seeing. He knew I was a virgin and after only seeing each other a few times we had sex. He's been really sweet. However, I got out of a bad relationship a few months ago and was really hurt emotionally. I'd made a mental pact to date more than one guy once I started dating again, just for my own self-preservation. So now that I am dating again, there are a few guys that have asked me out. I'm interested to date 3 guys at once, but have to wonder, now that I'm sleeping with one (using protection and on birth control), what if I want to sleep with the other two guys? Would that make me a slut?
You could sleep with 100 guys at once... It's only slutty if people know about it.. If you can live with it thats fine.
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ok so,...i shave all my pubic hair off. like with a razor, i get it ALL. and the day i shave it, and the day after, its pretty smoothe. but then it gets all prickly but i have to wait at least 4 days before i shave it again, or else it cuts the skin because the hair is waaayy too short.
is there an easier way to do this? am i making too big of a deal out of it?
That happens to me... I just got over it... I only shave like, once ever week or so...
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i really want to have sex with my boyfriend of a year....i absolutely love him but if i got pregnant it would be the end of the world...im so afraid of getting pregnant i dont think i ever wanna have sex until im married =/
what should i do?
You need to make a decision about whether you want sex before marriage or not. Its not a bad thing, but some people have religious beliefs and stuff. If you really want to have sex, and know you're ready, you need condoms. And it would be a good idea to see your doctor to get on the pill.
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I've been hanging out with this guy for almost 2 months and we've hooked up 3 times (only made out.) The last time he asked me if i was ready to take it further (i assumed fingering?) but i said no. Its not that im not ready for it, but were not together officially and in my school im not really sure how far you can go with a guy when youre single without being called a slut. I really like this guy though, please help me!
hes almost 17 and im 15 if that makes a difference
If you were to take it further with this guy and people found out you probably would be called a slut. Not only that, girls perceive sex from the emotional part of the brain and you would end up wanting more from him and it seems as though he is just looking for a quick root. Talk to him about getting into a relationship. Maybe in the future you can take it to another level.
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Do tannning beds cause cancer ? ...
yes
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i'm kind of addicted to shoplifting. i can't stop. what do i do?
I had a problem like this when i was younger. You need to just stay away from shops. Tell yourself that its wrong and you need to stop. You will get caught and there will be repercussions.
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What is the most painless way to commit suicide?....The only thought that provides any degree of solace to me is death. I do not want to live anymore, there is no other way to end the pain. I tried paracetamol in my 20`s (am in 30`s now) and they just pumped my stomach. I fell in love with a married woman (yes I know there was no future) but I just don`t wanna live as the memories are killing me. The memories and love wont go away, despite the fact that she cheated on me. So anyway I have high BP and am being monitored for my heart rate regularly by my Dcotor. I have not taken my prescrption for some time and thank goodness my BP level has risen again but this is not working. I have taken to smoking a shisha pipe as well, so my health is pretty bad right now but it`s taking too long. The thought of death is the only comfort available to me, dpoes anyone understand this? Please just recommend an easy an painless way to die as I am a complete an utter coward, have no career prospects and have no ambition. I am not mentally ill but just want to die. I pray to God every night to take me but thts not working either, so anyone got any advice on the most painless way to commit to kill myself?
Death is really not the answer to lifes problems. You'd have family, yeah? How would they feel? Friends? All these people who read your question are now feeling a sense of responsibility for you. In my life time 4 people have committed suicide. nd in all 4 cases there WAS a way out of their problems. But when your in a situation like this you can only see the bad. But look to the good in your life. If you're meant to die, you will... In a natural way. Taking your own life is a cowards way out. Step up, be a man and get help!
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I heard that he can still do it if I deny the divorce he can still get it because of default divorce. I would not sign the divorce papers because I'm not willing to just give in to a meanial affair. I think it's just a wy out of reality. He's been drinking heavy, not normal. I need to more on the legal aspect of me denying the divorce. I'm not willing to gve up without every attempt. I don't want to regret not trying. I want to know I've done everything in my power to make it through this.
Rhonda
Im not sure about the legalities of it... As far as i know you need both parties to sign... Maybe speak to a lawyer.
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A few years ago I had a dream that I was in a car accident with my oldest child, and about a year later in 2006 I was. Several months ago I had three dreams in a row that I got hit by a train, instead a lady ran a stoplight flying down the road like an idiot and totalled my car. Well a few days ago I started having this really bad feeling that I was going to be in a car accident. I can feel the pain. I am scared to drive. This time I didn't have a dream but I can feel something bad is going to happen. I was telling a close friend the other day and the scary thing is she had a dream about it.
I really dont know what to say. You cant live your life being controlled by your dreams and your fears. I believe in fate and things happening for a reason. If you are destined to be in a car accident it will happen regardless of if your driving or not. You could even be a pedestrian??? My only advice would be not to let your fears control your life.
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do both parties need to sign in order for it to be finalized?
yeah
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I am 18 and have been with my wonderful significat other for two years. we've talked about our fairy tail marriage and our little house with a white picket fence.. all of that, anyway i know a lot of girls my age who are pregnant and only one of them is still with the guy who helped this situation :] anyway this is for the teenage mothers or soon to be's, how does it feel to have the baby in your stomach. how do you feel when you look at them every day knowing that they're a part of you? what's your story, how did you tell your parents, were they cool with it or was it a dramatic experience. i'm not looking to get pregnant but i do know i was a born mother :] and i will be very excited when the time comes.
I got pregnant at 17 and it was planned. I have known my whole life that i was born to be a mother. Pregnancy is difficult. I wont lie. I had morning (well, all day and night) sickness, and i got leg cramps, i suffered sever stress and had to go into hospitl a few times. I got bad ligament pains in my lower abdomen cos of all the stretching and growing... The first time i felt my daughter kicking and moving inside my belly i cried. It was the most amazing thing in the whole world. Hearing the heartbeat for the first time was amazing... The first ultrasound scan was intense and i cried. Knowing that you have created the most amazing complex life form and it was so easy... its mind blowing. When my daughter was born i couldnt stop looking at her. She's 3 years old now and i still blow out everyday at how amazing she is and that i made her...!!
My mother was shocked at first but people learn to accept things that they cant change.
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