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Teenage mothers
I am 18 and have been with my wonderful significat other for two years. we've talked about our fairy tail marriage and our little house with a white picket fence.. all of that, anyway i know a lot of girls my age who are pregnant and only one of them is still with the guy who helped this situation :] anyway this is for the teenage mothers or soon to be's, how does it feel to have the baby in your stomach. how do you feel when you look at them every day knowing that they're a part of you? what's your story, how did you tell your parents, were they cool with it or was it a dramatic experience. i'm not looking to get pregnant but i do know i was a born mother :] and i will be very excited when the time comes.
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I got pregnant at 17 and it was planned. I have known my whole life that i was born to be a mother. Pregnancy is difficult. I wont lie. I had morning (well, all day and night) sickness, and i got leg cramps, i suffered sever stress and had to go into hospitl a few times. I got bad ligament pains in my lower abdomen cos of all the stretching and growing... The first time i felt my daughter kicking and moving inside my belly i cried. It was the most amazing thing in the whole world. Hearing the heartbeat for the first time was amazing... The first ultrasound scan was intense and i cried. Knowing that you have created the most amazing complex life form and it was so easy... its mind blowing. When my daughter was born i couldnt stop looking at her. She's 3 years old now and i still blow out everyday at how amazing she is and that i made her...!!
My mother was shocked at first but people learn to accept things that they cant change.
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im 16 and ive never had a baby
but a couple of my friends do
and the one that im pretty close with didnt plan on having the baby, it just happend. her and her boyfriend have been together for alomst two years and shes is only 15. her parents were really dissapointed in her but she is therre daughter, but they couldnt just beetray her just for bringing another life into this world. her son who is about 5 months old now means the world to her. although being a teenage mother is verrry hard, she says that she would give him up for the world. he wasnt planned but she doesnt regret any of it. and everyday she would talk about how she cant wait for him to come out. and i think it felt amazing to her knowing such a little precious thing is growing inside of you and knowning everyday is closer to him coming out.
hope i helped alitttle.
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Okay, I may not be a teenage mother or girl, but I will say one thing: not all teenage mothers are happy, very few are. The number of questions on this site from girls in a panic because they think they're pregnant is phenomenal.
For some teenagers, it can be seen as a blessing and for others, a big mistake which they should never have been made in the first place. But there is one thing which ties them together: a dramatic change in that girl's entire life which could go either way: supportive way, or a torment to put it bluntly.
As for the parent's, they most likely will freak out because of the whole age thing and thinking that you're not ready yet etc.
*Just to be clear, I'm talking about teenagers under the age of 18 here*
As for teenager over 18, I'm sure that the parents would be slightly worried about you, and probably would remain that way. That's just how parents are.
Now, I noticed that you said that only one of the girls who you know is pregnant is still with their boyfriend, I can't help wondering as to why the others aren't still with their boyfriends. I suspect because they didn't want to get pregnant, because if they did, then they would still be with their boyfriends, wouldn't they? It would make sense, wouldn't it, to stay with the guy who got you pregnant in the first place?
I hope this helped,
triquetra
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