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Question Posted Tuesday January 6 2009, 3:54 pm

So i know this kid named justin through my friend rachel. they're really good friends. and we hang out in groups sometimes. A couple monthes back we all hung out and we flirted a little and i started to have a thing for him. We didn't talk though really. Than we hooked up at semi, but still didn't. After we hooked up things were pretty awkward but after a week or so we'd exchange some words in class but nothing special. Than we were both drunk and hooked up again. Same thing happened again. Than just aabout a week ago it happened again. And we we were drunk. Its so frustrating because i know if he wanted to talk to me he'd text or call, but he hasn't. I like him a lot but I dont want to tell him that and I dont want to text/call him first. What do i do? Is he just using me for a hookup when were drunk? Do you automatically have feelings for someone after you hookup with them? HELP what do i do?

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HotSauce answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 7:57 am:
Sweetie, STOP GETTING DRUNK AND HOOKING UP WITH HIM. He hasn't called you or text, becase he is using you for a hook-up. Perhaps, he thinks it's all you want. You should talk to him, write him a note or something. It's okay to make the first move. Men think it's bold, and really hot. So go for it, stop being a babie. Call him, ask to hang out, if he turns you donw, he's using you. IF he rescheduals, he's thinking about it.
You must take chances!! > :)

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thatsnothowyoudrawacat answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 2:25 am:
Stop being a receptacle.

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xkatiex answered Wednesday January 7 2009, 12:37 am:
I think he's just using you for a hook up. Ask him about it. Tell him you're into him and stuff but dont be pushy. That will probabably just make him run for the hills!!

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