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What the hell is laguna beach about? I know this is a really short question but I have no idea what it's about. All I know is it's a reality show with teenagers in it.

It's basically just about the drama of a few juniors and seniors that live in laguna.. each episodes different and kinda goes with the one before it so you'd pretty much have to watch it to know what it's about in detail.

=] Evy

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about 3 months ago, i was diagnosed with leaukemia=[. the doctor told me that i am gonna die after my 8th month. is he allowed to tell me this? he just flat out said... " in about 8 months your gonna die ", he made me my mom my dad and my brother cry. so anyways.... can he tell me this... and can i like sue him for it?



f/13

Yeah he can. That's what he's there for. Normally not in such a harsh manor but you can't just sue him because it's something you don't want to hear.

=] Evy

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i want some names for my new baby girl....i dont like names like alex or sarah because to many people have thoughs names..i like names more like nikita.....she has blonde hair and blue eyes

14/f

-Ava
-Trinity
-Carleigh
-Shawna
-Ember
-Terra
-Tristan

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Everytime I shave my crotch area, I get little red bumps. What are they and how can I stop them from happening?

It's razor burn. Make sure you use a new/fairly new razor each time you do it, and shave the way the hair grows.. not against it.

=] Evy

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ok well in the second season of laguna beach kristen was the leader right? and in season 3 kyndra is the leader. and in season 2 lauren was kinda like the second popular girl and so is that what tessa in season 3 is? lol sorry if its a little confusing but im really confused about it. thanks

Tessa isn't really any more popular than the other girls in her group. She's just kinda there with her friends like Jessica and Alex M & H and their group.

=] Evy

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Well, my birthday is in 3 days. I'm turning 14.

My friend Jessica is supposed to come along with my 4 other friends. Jessica hasn't contacted me in 2 days and she didn't even mention my party. I invited her and she said she can most likely come!

But now I want to invite my friend Anne, but I'm not so sure I should because Jessica will get rather mad at me! I'm afraid she'll show up or call if I invited Anne, and I don't want her getting mad because I invited someone else because she didn't call me about it. That's the only reason I would have invited Anne, because Jessica hasn't contacted me in any way.

What should I do!?

If you want to invite her then do it. If Jessica goes or not it's up to you who you want to go and if she gets mad it isn't your fault because she's the one who didn't call you. If i were you I'd go ahead and invite the other girl, that way if she can't come you have Anne. And if they both can go, then the more the better!

=] Evy

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Labia Minora i read a question and someone said theres was light brown what on earth is it?

http://myvag.net/labia/

=] Evy

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I'm going to europe this sunday. I need to straighten my hair or i won't look good! I wanna pack it but I can't hide it because they'll look through my dad and my dad will see the straightner and he won't let me do it! Is there something I can say or do... where am I gunna put it!

Thanks

Carry a bag just for you like makeup, magazines,sunglasses and money that kinda stuff. Or take a big purse and put it in there.

=] Evy

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Okay, so I'm doing South Beach diet right now, and I'm doing 2 hours of cardio every other day. I'm about to change it to an hour of cardio every day though.
The first time I did South Beach, I lost a lot of weight pretty quickly, but I wasn't working out.
This time I'm doing the diet for an extended period of time and I waited a week before starting to work out to allow my body to get used to the lack of carbs.
With all the cardio I do, and all the dieting I'm doing, I should be losing weight, but I'm gaining it, according to the scale.
My friends say it's muscle mass that I'm gaining, but I don't know.
Is it normal to gain weight on diet and exercise? I heard somewhere you gain muscle weight first and then lose fat, but ah...I feel like I should be losing weight with everything I'm doing.
My question is should I stay on this diet if I'm gaining muscle weight and see if I don't start losing fat-weight soon, or should I try to change it up and lose weight?

It is muscle weight.. If I were you I'd keep going a little longer. The more you do it the more toned your body will be rather you're 'gaining' the weight or losing it. If you're worried about it don't stop the diet, just try something different like yoga or something. It def tones your body and gets you in shape maybe with not so much muscle gainage. Pillates work real well too.

=] Evy

EDIT: Yeah you probably will even if it takes a little longer. It's kinda like the more muscle you have the less fat there'll be. You just gotta get the muscle before you can lose the fat, if that makes sense!

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Hi, I'm fourteen/female and weigh around 180/190 pnds, what are some good clothes stores where I can find things that are stylish, but are my size? Thanks everyone [:

-Dillards
-Nordstrom
-Jc Pennys
-579
-Rave
-Macys
-Kohls
-Aeropostale
-Charlotte Russe
-Urban Outfitters

=] Evy

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I have a problem, and my problem is my hair. It is WICKED frizzy, but when I tell people that they're like well mine's worse. HAHAHA I laugh at them because no one's hair is worse than mine. I can barely get a comb through it without tearing up and rip atleast 30 hairs out daily, unless I use my flat iron. My hair looks like someone electricuted me and then decided hell, let's give it another go. So I need help. Can anyone tell me what kinds of products they've tried that work really well (like creams and such) and also, what is the best flat iron out there (doesn't matter if it's $100-$800, let me know) I have a Vidal Sassoon one with the ceramic plates it works really good, but I want one that works even better. Thankyou guys so much, any advice that's given will be rewarded ;)

When you use your flat iron it causes hairs to break because of the heat. So if you have any little hairs sticking up at the top thats what its from. BEFORE you straighten it, try VO5 Miracle Mist Heat Defense Conditioning Spray (about $4).

For a shampoo try Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine.
It's for frizzy, dry, unmanageable hair.

And it might seem like alot but its normal to lose about 100-200 hairs a day.

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Okay. I'm 14 year old female and I chinese. Normally, chinese aren't suppose to have curly hair and suppose to have fine hair, but I don't. But that's not the question.
I have curly, frizzy hair and I want to tame it down, so it isn't so frizzy.
What are some good products that can kinda make it less frizzy. What can I do to make it let frizzy.

-Thanks

For a shampoo- Garnier Fructis Sleek and Shine..

It's for "frizzy, dry, or unmanagable hair."

Or you could try blow drying your hair before bed. When you wake up try putting Terax Gloss (about $16) on your hair from roots to tips.


=] Evy

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i really want white etnies or white and grey. i saw white and grey ones at journeys a few weeks ago when i was with my friend, but i didnt have any money so i couldnt get them. so yesterday i went with my mom and they didn't have them (it was also in a different mall, so idn) I also tries pacsun. what are some other stores that they could be in? thanks

-Gadzooks
-Etnies Skate

Or you could google etnies and buy them online.

=] Evy

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Hokay so this saturday is mine & my boyfriends one month anniversary. I know he'll get my something, bc well..thats just him lol. But the thing is...What should I get him? I dont wanna get him something stupid or TOO big- bc its only been ONE month.
Any cute/sweet ideas of what I can do or buy!?


Any advice is greatly
apprciated(:

You should do the picture thing and make him a cd with his fav music. That way its something simple but he can still enjoy it!

=] Evy

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I have had my tongue pierced for almost a month and its a little swollen att he bottom but not usually... But everytime when i wake up its swollen... It does go down though


Whats up with this?

My friend had this problem and it was because she slept with her teeth tight or clenched together in some way and didnt even know she was doing it and it irritated her piercing. Maybe it's the same for you. If it doesnt stop you can alway go back and ask the people that pierced it, unless you did it yourself.

=] Evy

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i like to wear long shirts but my stomach is a little chubby so i dont know what to do, because the long shirts make my stomach stick out and look big, what are some tips or suggestions i could do to make my stomach not look that big and still can wear long shirts??

You could pull your jeans up a little higher than you normally would. So you know, your fat kinda goes into your pants haha. Since your shirts long no one would ever know. Or if you like the style you could wear a belt over your shirt at your waist. Sorry if that doesnt help those things just came to mind.

=] Evy

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f/13 ok well i have this (im guessing its some type of cold sore?) but its a round thing of all these bumps(they look like 8 little white heads without the white in there lol) but it feels just like a cold sore but i belive i got this before when i was like 9? please help ohh and it feels just like a cold sore

Get an antibiotic cream from the drug store and use it for 7 days. if it's not gone by then see a doctor cus you aren't supposed to use stuff like that for more than that unless its okayed by your doc. Also if it hurts at all you could try putting Abreva on it. It's about $10 but its totally worth it if it hurts.

=] Evy

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I really really REALLY want to get my ears pierced. However, is it a problem that I've had them like....5 times before. Would they get really infected if I got them again? I also wanted to know if getting a piercing below the cartilage hurts. If I get it there, will it hurt?

Please help me!!!

My mom got hers pierced 4 times before she actually didn't have any problems with them. She started buying more expensive earrings and kept them in alot more an cleaned them twice a day. If i were you id try one more time, and do something different with em, you never know! And of course it'll hurt, its a hole in your ear, but how bad, is up to your pain tolerance.

=] Evy

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So my friend has been havin relationship problems. right now shes not going out with him but they hav kissed several times and hugged and cuddled. from wat shes heard about him she thinks hes usin her. she had 1 of our friends ask him and he started cursin at her and i asked him and he just said he had 2 go. shes felling really low but she still likes him, i troed convicein her her not to but it didnt work. please help me. I want my baby to be happy. Please help me i dont know what to do!

Yeah she needs to talk to him herself. If he says those things to her friend he could say those things to her too. You should talk to her about that and show her how he treats other people and it'll help her realize she's better than that.


=] Evy

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Where is a good place to buy earrings online?

Besides Claire's.
Thanks!

-Nordstrom
-Dillards
-Icing

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