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Hi!! I am courtney and I am 13... i am here to give you advice that i hope will help you! remember that no question is too stupid and you wont be made fun of.... because i dont know who you are... *wOw* lol

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okay first of all i dont think im fat at all and i like the way my body looks. however im very health conscious and eat healthy food most of the time. i count calories too. if i didnt eat the daily number calories i think is efficient ill go eat until its exactly the number i want it to be, because i don't want to become too thin. i think about food a lot. i never thought i was fat and i know im not and i love my body. im a cheerleader (a flyer) so i try to remain small. oh yeah and i love cooking and food overall, mostly healthy food. i mean ill choose a grilled chicken sandwich over a big mac you know? could this possibly be anorexia?

it could possibly be if you get out of hand.. idk what age you are so im not sure though.. But for being 5,2" or w/e you do not weigh enough.. people who weiogh 5 foot 2" usually weigh somewhere in the 100's.. but if you are healthy and fit then you should be fine.. but for your weight i think you could eat just a little more.. :P but don't whatever you do.. dont stop eating healthy! :D
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if u ask a guy out nd he says no cuz hes gonna go back out wit his x and then they go back out and break up again and now theyre strictly just frends would it be like completely hopeless for her to say yea if u asked him out again??

*Ker~Bear

no.. you should go ahead and ask him out.. but give it some time.. a couple days or even a couple weeks.. you should probably try to find out if he has feelings for you too...
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okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!

Okay well you can tell him how you feel.. but if he is in a serious relationship w/ this other grl then he probably won't break up w/ her... well its worth a try and if he says that he doesnt feel the same.. then just try to forget about him.. become better friends w/ other guys.. meet new people.. just try to put him in the past and pretend you don't know him..well not 4-ever.. just until your over him and have moved on to someone new who actually cares about you!
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I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends.

I say- you talk to him and tell him how much you love and care about him. Tell him that you really want to try to work things out between you two. ((be friends)) if he says no then give him time... idk. :(
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my bffl has been ignoring me and i dont no how to get her to talk to me usally i can solve this my own but she just wont talk to me i do think it is because i hate her boi and she hates mines but i did not want to break a fiend ship up like that because of bois

should i break up with my boi or what please help

I think you should talk to your friend in person and tell her how you feel.. chicks b4 dicks... haha well.. you dnt lyk her guy and she duznt lyk yers y shuld it matter.. you can hang out with your friend one day and him another.. its not lyk they have to see eachother and hang out w/ eachother!
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I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you..

Do what your heart tell you.. If he is a player and you do love him.. then your heart will get broken.. but if ppl are making up these things and you stay w. him then you may be happy or he could hurt you physically or emotionally (break-up).. do what you want and don't give in to pressure :D
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i was depressed before this.. but this cut it! i jus started talken 2 this kid lets call him bob. iight well it seemd like bob was really sweet n nice. n then we kinda got in an arguement, cuz he said if we went out he wudnt call me like all tha time, boys rnt always supposdta call grls, i kno thats stupid 2 argue bout but i duno. but then i said sry.. cuz i think i really do like him. n he said sry 4 wat? n logged off tha cpu. so i duno if hes mad at me or not. or wat i should do. n to top it off hes kinda cuzins w/on of my good friends. n theres a game hes guna be at thursday.. shud i go. n wat shud i do bout tha whole situation?! plz answer ill rate. thanks alot,
confused nd depressed

I say you call him and say are you mad at me and work it out and if you do then you can go to the game and if not then if you want you can still go to the game.. lol either way i think you should deff. go to the game :D
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I like this boy Matt, long story shortened: he likes me, I like him. I make him horny...
Me and him have fooled around (touching, looking, etc) but we still haven't kissed. I want a relationship with him and I want to kiss him but I just don't know how to tell him without being completely blunt. I want to be creative but I'm kind of scared of how he'll react. I know he probably wants the same thing(he even said he wanted to be my boyfriend) but he still hasn't asked me out or anything. I don't know if he's just scared or what. I could really use some advice. Thanks :)

Well i think if he actually said he wants to be your bf then you should ask him out yourself.. i doubt hes scared, he probably just doesnt know if you feel the same.. so either find a way to tell him you like him and wait 4 him to ask you out or be assertive and ask him out yourself!
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me and my best friend have been best friends for a long time and then all of a sudden an old friend of hers comes along and they r spending all this time together. she was supposed to go to florida with me for vacation but she went to her to grand isle instead. i even got her somethin while i was there. i feel like this gurl is takin my best friend away from me. im not gunna lie i am VERY jelous. what do i do?

This happened to me too... :( well you need to call this girl and be like okay.. you were my best friend and ever since you started hanging out w/ -_______- I feel like were not even freinds.. you were supposed to go to florida w/ me but you didn't to be with her and like you never hang out w/ me.." and if she still doesnt change then shes not a good friend.. you should ditch her and get new friends who actually care..
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alright well im still scared haha but i have a tiny little belly button and i think it will really hurt...lol i dont know how to get myself to go in there and get it done cuz i want it sooo bad but ahh THE PAIN!!

My friends have gotten it done and they said it really doesnt hurt.. all they do is swab it, hold it w/ something like kitchen tongs, and pole a needle thru. Its not that bad.. and then you will have a cute lil belly button ring! haha
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My toes are hairy.. what should i do about that? (im a chick)

shave em! haha
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last night me n my best friend of 7 yrs got into this huge fight .. she said everything that bothered her but i had no problem with that. i was glad she did bcuz it hurtsz to keep it inside. but she didn't even want to give me a chance to fix it. i told her everything and we had great times hanging out. i don't want to lose her forever. i can't. shes the only one who's been there since i moved here. it hurts like fck to see all this crap in her away msgs about how she doesn't care anymore. i just want her back. i can't take her being mad. it kills me. i don't know what to do anymore :/ help me please

This happened to me too.. well kinda...:-/ ok well you need to talk to her in person and tell her how much you cherish her friendship and don't want to lose her tell her that she has always been there for you and you love her((not lyke that :O )) and tell her that you are willing to change to stay friends w/ her. If she doesnt want to give you a chance then to tell you the truth shes probably not a very good friend, but give it time and if she doesnt forgive you then still be nice to her and say bless-you when she sneezes and get her gifts on her b-day.. worked for me and now were friends again!
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at what age should you get a boyfriend/girlfriend? what if you are interested in girls and you are a girl.....when should you tell someone?

Whatever age you feel ready for a commitment.. And about liking girls, you can tell people whenever you are ready to.. Just do things when it feels right!
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i have this friend who always makes fun of me and knos i use to get made fun of really bad wen i was younger... she always makes me cry. i try to tlk to her but she says whatever, u need to stop being stupid.. i never say that.. and that junk... i am a girl and soo is my best friend what shood i do.. PLZ HELP ME

SiGnEd,
AnOnYmOs

I don't think shes a very good friend.. 1st- you should sit her down and have a serios convo. w/ her say.. " Ok were good friends but you make fun of me a lot and it really hurts.. i don't like it when you do that and its not funny." if she doesn't listen then i think you should seriously say "ok ive asked you nicely to stop making fun of me so i don't think we can be friends anymore.. I am sorry and if you are willing to change then maybe we can be friends again.."

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how can i tell my mom i t0ok her credit card to go shopping with,. i think i spent $200 at the most,. =o It was mostly for my guys b-day on the 20th and i didnt have any cash,. n i dont work right now so i cant pay her back??
what SHOULD i do?

i think you should be straight-up w/ her.. shes gunna find out sooner or later and then you will get in trouble for lying and not telling her.. so i think you should just say something like.. " mom i had no money and i know it was wrong but i took your credit card and bought about 200$ worth of stuff.. what do you want me to do to make up the money??" That will make you sound mature nd' maybe get you outta some of the trouble!
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well my frend.. she likes my boii frend.. but she got uss toghether.. and now she wants to breakuss up!! and even tho my boiifrend sed that hell love me 4 ever and that he wont cut me cuz of her.. im still afraid what shood i do/?? 4give my frend.. or hate her for ever
*i rate*
Xoo.HEL:P ME!!

i don't think you should hate her but stay friends w/ her bcuz you really can't help who you like.. but it is rude of her for tryiing to break you up.. but anyways if u nd' yer bf feel strongly 4 eachother than he probly wnt break up w/ u for her..
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Ok, Well, my hamster Cocoa is acting very sick latley. I love him so much and would do and thing for him. He seems to be shaking almost and sneezing/sqeaking and i think he might even be trying to cough! He is now forming this crust around his nose and just a lil around his nose. I'm so worried about him, does any one know what sickness this could be or how i should handle this?

My hamster had that.. its phunomonia or however you spell it 98/100 times the hamster dies :(
sorry
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im 13 years old and ever sence i was little ive known i was a lesbian. my parents would kill me if they found out they think its descusting even the thought and they dont know at all. but i really like this girl and i want to just run away with her and not worry what everyone keeps saying and comenting. is it so wrong to love someone so much but not be able to express it cuase of being ashamed or scared...it just really sucks! i hate it...what should i do? please HELP!

I think it is fine to be a lesbian. If thats who you are than thats who you are. If you really feel this stronly about this girl than i say you go out w/ her and not tell yur parents :X and if in some way they find out tell them its a free country and you can't help what you feel and there is nothing wrong w/ liking someone of the same sex. They should understand..
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ok...i was in a chat room for my school..and this guy imed me...and he was really sweet and cute//he sent me his pic and we started talking and now he wants me 2 meet him at the beach..but im not sure//wut if they dont even go to my school and wut if hes like a killer? he text messages me all the time and we totally click!! please help me b/c i think he might b the 1!!

okay its a 50/50 chance.. i wouldnt suggest going to the beach where there arent too many ppl maybe suggest a restaraunt or.. you can go to the beach with a friend and meet him.. or if their are a lotta ppl on the beach it should be okay... just don't go abywhere alone w/ him.. he could possibly be some middleaged killer out to get you... not to scare u.. but be careful!
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Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??

From,
.*.BeSs.*.

i would say he is just being friendly.. unless he doesnt do this stuff often.. then he may be flirting.. you can turn this into a relationship buy, either being assertive and asking him on a date or writing a note, IMing him or you can wait around for him to make a move..
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