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stay or leave?
I've known this guy for six months, and we fight a lot. But in all honesty, i care about him more than i've ever cared about someone. I told him I never wanted to talk to him again after our last fight (and I really meant it), but it's hurt him a lot. I can't figure out if things would be better if we didn't talk, or kept being friends.
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okay, this is a tough situation. does not talking to him hurt you just as much as it hurts him? if so then you guyz are mesnt to be friends at least. being separated from one you care about is tough, believe me. but you have to decide if not being friends os best for both of you. what i might suggest is that you, i know it is cheesy, but do a pro's and con's list for yourself and him. if hte pro's out wiegh the cons, then go and apologize, amybe you guyz cukd try to fight less, who knows, he could be the one fore you, if not, then maybe you need him in your life. i had a similar situation, and we came to the conlusion of we were out in eeach others lives for a purpose, and we dont know what that purpose is, but we know it is there.
i really cant tell you to be friends or not, but i can help you decide. you see, i do not know what your fights are about...maybe you guyz have feelingz that want t osurface, and every time you go to show them, the other gets defensive cuz they are scared, and the fight breaks out. i really hope that i have helped you out, the best thing i can say is good luck and i hope you figure everything out!
~*Juelz*~
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I think that yall should just be friends, its not right to never talk to someone again.
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Dear SOG,
If you are wondering what SOG is, it's the subject of your question "Stay or Go?". Back to the question. Ok, before I answer to your question, let me ask you a couple questions...do YOU think it would be better if you two didn't talk? Do you WANT to be friends with him? If I were you, I would say I am sorry, and tell him I still want to be his friend. If he wont accept you as a friend I doubt he'll be your boyfriend, and he wont be a very good friend and not very forgiving. It's okay to fight whether its a big fight or little. It's ok to fight with words but not physically...but hopefully that's not the fight your talking about, but i don't think it is. Guys will be guys and no matter how much you love them your still gonna fight, but try to have a lot of good times together and not bad, in order to do that, it's sometimes best to TRY and agree with stuff and each other. But if you don't want to do something you dont want to do, dont do it. You are your own boss. So if he doesn't want to be your girlfriend, don't force him or he will be less fond of you.
I hope that helps! If you have any(more) questions feel free to ask! If I'm not making sense or you have a question about my answer you can always write me back! Tell all your Advicenator friends to come to me 4 advice if you can, I love helping people!
~MiSSc~
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I say- you talk to him and tell him how much you love and care about him. Tell him that you really want to try to work things out between you two. ((be friends)) if he says no then give him time... idk. :(
hope i helped
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well mabey u should go to cuple counseling or mabey talk it over and ask him what ticks him off or think about wat ticks u off all in all u should tell him how much u luv him and follow yur heart it will tell u wat is right
luv vanna
PS: if u have anymore ? u now were to find me and tell me how it works out.
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