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hey guys im Laura, um i love music...if it werent for rock n roll i wouldnt be alive right now.Guns n Roses is my all time favorite band,ask me any question about them and i can tell you the answer on the spot,garented. the part of my heart that isnt taken up by rock n roll, all goes to my AMAZING friends.i am single at the moment but if you know me at all, then you know that i wont be for very long.
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i'm going with this boy who is the hottest boy in school. he could get any girl he wanted with the snap of his fingers. but he chose me, which is hardly believable. he gave up fooling around with every girl he wants to with no strings attached, to have a relationship with me. how can i make him see he made the right choice, and that girls aren't just objects, and they need to be respected?
show him that he can have just as much fun with one girl as he could have with all the others. maybe not with just ANY one girl but at least with you.let him know how much you love him and he will find out that he likes having one relationship with someone special more than a ton of girls that that he doesnt relly like.
hope i helped XoXo
ok well i had my period.. 2nd time now.. and i dont know.. like how many times a day should i change my pad/ tampond?? or like my mom never had the talk with me so idk what to expect
for a pad its pretty easy to tell when you need to change it. lik when its mostly covered in blood you definetl need to change it. but for a tampon when you start to see blood on the string then its time for a new one.
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my husband is an alcholic, he promises to stop drinking but i always seem to find bottles of beer hidden in different places how can i help him stop he seems to think he is not hurting anyone but i dont like the drunken behaviour in front of my kids even though they are grown up but now he has his first grandchild and yet he still wont stop, you see he stopped drinking for 22 years and for the last 5 he has been secretly drinking cause everytime i find his bottl es we argue can you advise me please.
well then....you could also leave him :/
it seems like the relationship just isnt working out so maybe its time go your sperate ways.or at least tell him that if he doesnt change then your gonna be forced to leave him.
hope i helped this time XoXo
I just got that simply straight shampoo for my hair... Well the conditioner but anyway.. DO i have to do anything special for it?? Like leave it in or whatever??? Anything special after i shower and blowjob or whatever??? I'll rate too
lmao blowJOB!!! lol sry tht wuz hilarious but neways just read the directions on the side of the bottle. it should tell you if you have to do anythign special. if it doesnt say anything then just use it liek normal shampoo/conditioner.
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I've played on a soccer team ever since I turned 7 (except for one year when I was 11 and skipped to play year round baseball). Last season, I was injured and out of it for 6 months. No physical activity or anything. Horrible for an active kid like me. This year I'm playing under 16, and it's gotten pretty competitive. I am not an extremely competitive person with things that I'm not terrific at.
I still have two (2) days to back down and not play. But the thing is, I'm positive that I'll regret either decision. I'm starting high school this year, and I don't know how busy I'll be with that, and I'm afraid I'll injure my knee again. Should I choose the more active one? I'm not asking for you to make the decision, just some helpful insight.
Thank you.
well you will be very busy in highschool.its pretty much a fact.but i would definetly keep playing, and once your out there playing on the field youll realize how competitive you really are. and the excerise will be good for you since you havent been able to do much for 6 months.
hope i helped XoXo
well...okay. One time i talked to this guy that i had never met b4, and he was pretty cool. and the more we started talking the more i liked him. And one of the things we talked about was his GF had broken up with him. And i thought well...maybe we could online date...after we get to know each other...and now i talked to him agian yesterday and he said hes found a new gf. and shes awesome and tall and stuff. And my ? is...should i still try to flirt with him and stuff to get him to like me? or stay there as a friend? or what??i REALLY like him too!!! HELP!
well if you havent even seen him in person then i think you should move on. because online dating is a really bad idea.but you should still be his friend.
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this is the story... one of my good friends leah liked me friend dan and he liked her.. or at least he thought he did.. he lied to himself to make himself like her.. while he was supposedly likeing her he told me he was confused and thought he liked me too.. this was bad.. the thing is his best friend likes me too.. and my best friend likes him.. we both have feelings for each other but we cant do anything about it bc of our best friends.. we went to six flags a few days ago and we all hung out but i could tell that my friend was soo bored with this girl.. he realized and told her a few days later..the thing is i told her that he wasnt worth it and that she could do better.. i really dont think i had alterior reasons for telling her... i dont think i told her bc i wanted him for myself. but if i go out with him then everyones gonna think of it like that and i dont want to be a hypocrite!! HELP!! WAT DO I DO???
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wow thts relly confusing.....
but i think you should talk to your friend leah and tell her that you think your starting to like dan and ask her if it would be ok if you went out with him or if she still has feelings for him.and mayb dan's bff and leah could go out.
ok tht wuz relly confusing for me so sorry if this advice doesnt help you at all.
hope i helped XoXo
Hi. I just uploaded a new picture on my advice column. In the corner it says "vampirefreaks.com" Is this allowed? Because that is the only picture I have of myself.
Thanks ahead of time.
BTW If you need to see my user name is X_Amanda_X
i dont think its a problem. theres nothing anywhere that says you cant have that on your advice column.hope i helped XoXo
How do you give good advice? Should you include personal experiences or would that make things confusing. What are some good tips when you want to give somebody advice, like things you should make sure you do? I like to give advice and help people, but I'm not always sure how. I rate 5's for any answers - please help me out on this. Everyone should help so that anyone who reads can get better too. Thanks!
just tell people what you think.tell them what you would do in watever the situation is.HAHA im doing that rite now!lol ok neways if you have had experience in the situation give them some details about what happened to you.and if someone says your advice is bad or sucks or something just ignore them cuz there just being mean.hope i helped XoXo
My mom and I have always been close but I'm fourteen now and we're still close but we get into fights a lot and it really bothers me. She's a preschool teacher so she gets summers off with me so we have a lot of time together. It's just, I hate fighting with her because, in her eyes, I'm always wrong. I mean, she starts to assume things and then when I tell her that that isn't true she get's even madder and saying "Well you said it once" or "Just drop it". It really really makes me mad. To everyone around me, my life is perfect. I get told I'm pretty and have the perfect body all the time, my family is "perfect", I'm not too popular, I have great friends...but no one sees behind the scenes. In reality, I'm really self-conscience and sad. When I'm around people, I'm the happy girl everyone thinks I am, but in my mind I'm sad. The fights take a toll on me. The way my friends treat me take a toll on me. I just don't know what to do. I really am happy on most aspects of my life, but I don't see why my mom has to fight with me. I don't think I deserve it. She doesn't know how it affects me and I'm not going to tell her 'cause then she'll get mad and say I'm selfish and think I'm always right, which I know I'm not. She's really cool a lot of the time but now we fight more and more and it's really starting to bother me. What can I do to help myself be happy and not let the fights get to me so much? What can I do when we fight? I want to be happy but these fights hurt.
Please help. Usually I give good advice to other people, but I don't know what to do.
-K-
i wuz in your situation before and i know its really hard.but then one day my mom and me got into a huge fight.and it wasnt just with words.i ended up walking out the door and not coming home.well doing that got me arrested so i wouldnt reccomend that.but i would say that wenever u and ur mom get into a fight just kool off. take a walk outside and think about y your in this fight.then go back and try to fix the problem.that usually helps me.hope i helped XoXo
ok so i hear if you take test and it comes out positive, there is still a chance it can be wrong and your really not pregnant. i also hear if it comes out negative..it can be inacurate as well and you really could be pregnant..therefore how is taking a pregnancy test a good indicator if your pregnant or not? are you supposed to take like 4 in a row and see whatever answer comes out the most?
little confused
thanks
most of them r like 99% accurate.so if it says your pregnant then you should prolly go to a docter and get tested. but if it says negative and you really think you are pregnant then still go to the docter.hope i helped XoXo
okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help!
it seems like hes just shy. hes prolly not ure wat he wants rite now and just wants to take things slow.give him time and talk to him about how u feel.hope i helped XoXo
Scar tissue has no character. It's not like skin. It doesn't show age or illness or pallor or tan. It has no pores, no hair, no wrinkles. It's like a slip cover. It shields and disguises what's beneath. That's why we grow it; we have something to hide
what movie is this quote from?
it frum the movie Girl Interrupted.good movie.hope i helped XoXo
i was wondering does anyone have the new wet/dry straightener because i was just wondering if it really did work because i didn't know if it was the best idea to straighten your hair when its wet
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i got one and it doesnt really work. and its really bad for your hair cuz if your not relly carful u can burn it or fry it.hope i helped XoXo
ok, so my mini ipod usually connects to my computer and it automatically shows up on the side collum of my itunes, but just now it woulnd't connect. i'v tried so many ways.
no its not on hold when i try to connect and the ipod is working fine. it just wont connect to the computer cuz i really want to get more songs on it.
can some one help me?
try turning off the computer and the ipod.then turn them back on and try connecting it again.hope i helped XoXo
I got sunburn on my cheeks about a week ago and now it's starting to peel. The problem is It's coming off in tiny peices so when I try to get it odd I pull the little hairs on my cheek...is there anyway to get rid of the dead skin without purchasing anything. (I have no loofah.) Exfoliating tips??
Thanx I'l rate appropriately!
dont peel it off you will get scars.put lots of lotion on it.and it will go away in a few days.hope i helped XoXo
is there any way to find out who's buddy lists your on on aim?
yeeeeeah no! there isnt any way to find 100% whos buddylist your sn is on.sry hope i helped XoXo
hey well im really depressed all teh time. and i want to quit school. and im just so sick of everything! im just stressed. can somebdy give me advice on what to do?
try doing something that you really like to get your mind of all the stress. like go out shopping with sum friends or go on a raod trip. just sumthing relly fun with the people that love you.and you might think that everyone else has such a good life but they dont.my life sucks to but you just gotta learn to deal with it and smile! :) hope i helped XoXo
p.s. i wasnt trying to be mean or anything
whats the difference between going out with someone and hooking up with someone?
hooking up is like a 1-night stand 2 people go out and just mess around with each other.going out means ur bf/gf.hope i helped XoXo
I know this might sound nasty but ever since i can remember i have been having this really bad smell in my private area. i know most boys joke around talking about tuna smelling and stuff but i dont think its a joke. i dont think people can smell it when i hang out with them but im not sure if they smell it when i wear shorts? and i get this nasty white stuff in my under wear and mom knows about it. and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i dont want to smell and i dont want him to see that white stuff in my underwear. is there anything i could do to prevent from smelling because i wear purfume anyways. and how could i keep this stuff from my boyfriend. i really havent been smelling that bad lately but i dont want him to see the white stuff. can you please help me? anything will help!
thanx so much!
always kayla i rate high
ok well the white stuff is called discharge and its totally normal.all girls get it. but for the smell just take lots and lots of showers.hope i helped XoXo