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"i make mistakes, it's what i do. i speak without thinking. i act without knowing. when i drink, i drink so much that i can barely walk. i'm a fantastic lover though. & an amazing friend. God knows i mean well."
i'm kari sue rose. obviously.
i'm a graduate at pound high school & i'm 19 ;)
i'm an upcoming sophomore at uva-wise, where i want to pursue a career as a college professor.
i am a manager at little caesar's & it takes up a good percentage of my time, but i love where i work.
i tend to read a lot.
actually i read too many books at a time.
& once i start writing i don't know when to stop. i'm head-over-heels for this one specific guy that i've been with for heck & ever[jonathan mark gibson] he's my world & i love him.
i'm not a fan of profanity, especially when girls do it. it's not impressive & it's not attractive. there are better words in this world dear.
& good grammar = thumbs up :]
i'm insanely girly, slightly high maintenance. but i'm easy to please. my nails are always done, but mainly because i'm almost a licensed nail technician :)
i think laughter is the cure for everything. i'm loving life. & i'm living my senior year up ;) oh and by the way, i'm honored by your hatred.
:)
i'm an honest person. i give the best advice that i possibly can, & if i don't feel as if i can answer your question properly, then i will forward you to someone who i feel is more qualified to answer.
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me and my ex haven't been together for a few months now. i still like him though. thing is i dont know if he still likes me. my friends say he might but they dont talk to him. thing is he's always callin me and we talk for hours (although a lot of the time the convo's end up talkin about sexual stuff). well just recently we were on the phone and we were talkin bout winter vaca and stuff. he asked if i might wanna hang out wit him and watch a movie or something, but shortly later he added foreplay to that list. yet when he said foreplay he didn't say it happily like he did about the watching a movie. then he was askin me wut he thinks my mom would say if we hung out one day...when normally he doesn't want my parents to know. aside from all the sexual talk he's really nice to me and treats me the way he would when we were together. and if i was sick or hurt he'd feel bad for me. i find it a good thing that he still talks to me because he has kept no contact with his past ex's...yet he talks to me nearly on a daily basis. is it a possibilty that he still cares about me but won't let me know? (link)
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i know you don't want to hear this, but i'm going to tell you from experience.
my boyfriend & i had been together for 17 months, we planned engagement & everything. then he broke up with back in january.
we've been broken up for a little over a month.
well at first, we didn't talk at all.
then we started talking & planning things like you & your ex. yet, my ex always mentioned sexual things too.
we eventually planned to have sex & hang out, etc. the worse thing ever.
well the day we were supposed to do this, he found another girl & told me he was going to go out on a date with her. he broke my heart.
well that day i went to a basketball at his school & he was there.
he told me he wanted to talk to me, and for me to meet him outside.
we had sex in the backseat of his car.
i loved it, i'm not going to lie.
it gave me back that feeling we used to have when we had sex.
my hopes were so high.
the next day i called him & basically asked him back out, or i asked him if we could work things out. and you know what he did? he laughed at me.
he told me he hated me, & that he never wanted to talk to me again. that the night before had been a mistake.
to this day, we haven't talked & that was about a week ago. he hurt me.
i don't want your ex to do the same to you.
mine used me.
i don't know what yours is thinking, but it seems a lot like my situation.
but whatever you choose, good luck.
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ok im 13/f.
i need some honest help here.
ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i really like him..i thought i loved him at one point but i realized that i just really really like him.
so anyway.
things were going amazingly until about 2 weeks ago.
we were perfect,and everyone told us that.
i loved him so much.
but then when i was in a play at my school,and i fell for one of the stage crew guys.
ive been hanging with him and his friends alot lately.
last night we had a dance at our school and my boyfriend wasnt there but he told me i could dance w/ other guys because he trusted me.
so i grinded and slow danced with this guy and his friends.
i wanted to kiss him so badly but i couldnt because i would never cheat on my boyfriend.
i dont know wht to do.
o and i broke up with my bf a couple days because he was getting really mad at threatening my guy friends bcuz they were talking to me alot.
but then we got back together and i dont no wht to do.
he got mad at my friend [not the one i like but one of my other guy friends] last night and punched him in the face.
i kinda wanna dump him and go out with him.
oh and one more problem.
my friend [not my best friend but more then a just hi hi how ya doin friend] went out with him for a day and she still likes him and was mad when i grinded with him.
i need help.
and i kinda wanna b single so i can flirt and play around with other guys.
btw-i AM NOT a slut.
im just the kind of girl who has alot of guy friends. (link)
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this is a complicated situation.
but sweetheart you are only 13. if you want to be single & have fun, then do it. don't let a boyfriend tie you down. you have so much of your life to live. there are so many more guys out there, and you don't need to hold on to someone if you don't have feelings for them.
it's okay to like someone else.
at your age, your going to go through so many guys, its not even funny.
just let him down easy & have fun.
being single is ALWAYS the best route to take. i know from experience.
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he cheated on me. hes with the girl he wanted and wont leave me alone and still bugs me for liking guys. hes really jealous and annoying! is it because he still cares about me and loves me?
16/f
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He liked the fact of him moving on, but he doesn't want you to do that too.
He's just doing the stupid 'she's mine' boy thing, even though you aren't his. You should let him know this too.
And even if you are interested in him again, you need to push yourself away from it, because if he cheated once, he'll cheat again, without a doubt.
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When me and my boyfriend are having intercourse and he goes in deep or in from behind I feel a very sharp pain inside just above my pelvic region. This has been occuring alot. We have tried giving it a break for months but the pain is always there whenever we have sex no matter how long we relax and stay away from having sex. I am beginning to get worried and i can only get a doctors appointment next month. What do you think it is, how and when will it go away and what can I do to help it go away faster? Please help me!?!
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honestly, no one here can tell you whats wrong, unless they've been through it.
But back when my ex & I would have sex & I would be on top, it would hurt my lower pelvic region also, like not really hurt but send a sickly feeling through my body, it was not pleasurable at all.
we decided to try different positions & see which one didn't hurt as bad, you guys could try that.
But definately still go to a doctor, you may have an infection somewhere.
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can people please tell me if this poem is bad or good?
it's about fear and denial, not too long
http://storywrite.com/story/65235 (link)
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i agree with Bbeautifulbby555.
it wasn't an amazing poem that made my jaw drop, but it didn't make me want to instantly exit out the screen either.
it was a little hard to follow & was kind of odd, but as long as you know what its about & you know why it is the way it is, then what anyone else tells you shouldn't really matter.
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hey can someone please write me a list or tell me any books that have ALOT of twists and turns in them. like the best novels EVER.
thankssss (link)
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depending on the types of books you read, i love books about teenagers with problems. here are some of my favorite;
The Tenth Circle
The Burn Journals
The Perks of Being A Wallflower
Wrecked
Someone Like You
This Lullaby
Damage
Twilight
Running With Scissors
Lovesick
Names Will Never Hurt Me
Doormat
anymore, just ask :]
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How do you let go of someone that you absolutely love, but they don't want you anymore? (link)
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there isn't a way to let go of someone that you still love. i know this from the hard way, my boyfriend of 17 months broke up with me about a month ago & i'm still in love with him. I find myself not wanting to wake up every morning because of that reason. He doesn't want me back & there's nothing I can do about it. Meeting new people helps take your mind off things, but he's still going to be in the back of your mind. Its a hard thing to handle, trust me, I know. But eventually if you keep telling yourself that you'll be okay, you'll start to believe it.
if you have any questions just ask me :]
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recently i've been falling for this guy i've known a while. we began talking over myspace ALOT and sometimes i thought he seemed to be really into me. he gave me his phone # and I did too..
Well now last night it seems like him and his ex got realy close and something "happened" between them by the joyful looks and (link)
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Guys are dicks sweetheart, they really are. My boyfriend of 17 months just broke up with me & i know what it feels like to just be dropped like you were nothing in the first place.
Your best bet is to move on, as hard as it will be, its what you need to do. If he's hurt you, then later on, he may do it again, and again. I'm sorry but it's true.
good luck
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Hi Im 16 and I was wondering how to increase my boyfriends stamina who is also 16. We have really amazing sex but I want to know how he can last longer than 30 min to an hour. oh also would using a condom help increase stamina sense it is less sensitive? I dont need a lecture about unprotected sex. I am on the pill and we lost our virginity to each other. Thanks! (link)
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condoms do help lower his pleasure, but so does changing positions. Like doggystyle, for instance, decreases his pleasure, but not by much, therefore, he's not going to last as long.
If you guys foreplay, then try not foreplaying, foreplay is usually used to get you turned on faster, whenever me & my ex would have sex & we'd foreplay he wouldn't last as long.
Or don't foreplay with him & let him foreplay with you, which will get your going faster, also.
I hope I helped
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So I've been shaving down there for a couple of years now, but everytime I do It still is a lil prickly. How do I stop this from happening, I dont want to be uncomfortable when I am with a guy!! Thanks ! (link)
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Usually what I used to do was not shave everyday. It gives razor rashes & little bumbs & stubble. If you wait a little bit in between each shave & then shave, you should be okay. & always use shaving cream, not soap. Soap can irritate it.
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does anybody know where i can find realllyy cute ballet flats? just simple ones that cost less then like 25 dollars that i can just wear like shopping and stuff. nothing fancy, solids, prints anything simple comfy and cute. anddd not to explensive. thank you (link)
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i bought a pair of plain brown ones with a little bow at the top at Aeropostale for only $20. if you need the link let me know & i'll try to find them for you =]
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hey can you give me the sexual songs that are not rap
and any other good music you may have.
i like tehcno/r&b/rock (link)
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okay sure :]
Fer Sure by The Medic Droid
No Booty Calls by Kelly Likes Shoes
Wow I Can Get Sexual Too by Say Anything
Shake That Ass For Me by Eminem
The French Passion of Animality Opera ny Foxy Shazam [its sort of heavy metal, you might not like it]
Scene for Dummies by Hollywood Undead
No. 5 by Hollywood Undead
Turn Off the Lights by Hollywood Undead ft. Jeffree Star
Ice Cream by Jeffree Star
Situations by Escape The Fate
Boom Boom Boom by The Vengaboys
& here are some that aren't really about sex but are pretty good.
Let Me Borrow That Top by Kelly Likes Shoes
Text Message Breakup by Kelly Likes Shoes
My Black Dahlia by Hollywood Undead
Knife Called Lust by Hollywood Undead
Modern Swinger by The Pink Spiders
Any song at all by The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
A Walk Through Hell by Say Anything
Le Disko by Shiny Toy Guns
With This Knife by Smile Empty Soul
The Taste of Ink by The Used
Lips Like Morphine by Kill Hannah
Cupids Chokehold by Gym Class Heroes
i know quite a few, if you liked some of those & want to know more, just ask me again & i can give you plenty.
i'm really into like heavy metal, screamo, techno, grindcore, emo, some punk rock & things like that.
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ok this will probably sound really dumb but what exactly is oral sex?? i know its "a guy in your mouth" but what like kissing or like..his 'down there' is in your mouth?? (link)
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oral+sex
in other words oral sex involves your mouth.
a woman sucks a mans penis & a man licks the woman's vagina.
thats basically all there is to it.
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this is gonna sound weird but i've been getting really turned on by r&b songs about sex lately (pretty ricky songs as an example) does anyone have more songs like that.. they're fun to dance to lol (link)
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What's Your Fantasy by Ludacris ft. Shawna
Sugar On My Tongue by Trick Daddy
Coult 45 by Afroman
those are all i know that are rap. but i know plenty of songs that aren't rap that are about sex though. if you'd like to know those, leave me a question in my inbox :]
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Ok..soo im 17/F and all my friends have had sex or have done sexual things. And of course im the one that hasnt at all. I just dont want to do that right now..im not focused on that. Im focused on other things and i dotn even think about it. But my friends are making me feel like that i should be doing that stuff..that like im a freak if i dont. And now i think..am i really a freak? What do you think about this and what should i do? (link)
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its okay to not have sex.
actually in my opinion, girls who have morals these days, are higher than girls who don't.
your friends are tossing sex around like its nothing & it is. sex is something you & someone you feel close to should share, not because everyone else is doing it, but because you want to experience something special with someone you love.
its okay to wait. your friends aren't really friends if they don't agree with you. i'm sorry, but its true.
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i know this is a stupid question but why does a girl "cum"? is it because it feels good? and like...what is it? like is it pee or something? (link)
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girls don't cum exactly the same way guys do. except for 'squirting' but thats a whole different story.
girls 'discharge' which is a creamy white fluid. its mainly the lubrication a woman's vagina makes when she gets horny. girls discharge after an orgasm. & some girls discharge before & after their period.
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well, im 15 and a girl. So there is this guy, let's call him joe. He's like perfect. He gets good grades and has a car and a job. The other guy let's call him mike is kind of like the bad boy in school. He does drugs and flirts with like every girl. I like them both alot. Is that bad? Should I go for the perfect boy or the bad boy? My heart is playing emotional ping pong right now. Thanks in advance. :) (link)
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you shouldn't base your opinions on how they act in public, get to know them for yourself. & stay single until you decide who you really can't live without.
its okay to like 2 different guys, actually ever since i was little my mom always told me it was a good idea to always have at least 4 guys, haha. you know, just in case.
but follow your heart & get to know them outside of school, you never know you could have their personalities backwards.
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ive been out wid this lad twice b4 we r both the same age (14) nd even tho we are not 2geva we still do things like sexual stuff he fingers me nd i toss him off nd we sumtyms do it in our lesson nd i no dat sounds stupid but we neva get caught but wot im tryin 2 get at is i really love him and want 2 get bak wid him we r really close we spend most of our tym 2geva at skwl like in lessons nd at break and lunch and when we go out at weekends we do stuff still i dont no how 2 get him bak i am happy the way we r but i jus wanna no dat hes myn nd i h8 the thought of him doin things with otha gyals is dis really love?? or am i jus bein stupid?? (link)
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number one; if you are going to ask me a question, please make sure it's readable first.
number two; your ex is just using you. i'm sorry, but he is. my ex tried this same thing with me & i wanted to do things because you want that feeling of what it felt like when you guys were close, but your ex isn't going to want you back when he knows he can still be single & have you at the same time. you need to let him know that you are better than that & that if he doesn't want a relationship with you, then he doesn't deserve you at all.
yes it will be hard, but i did it & i know you can too. you just have to hold your head up & suck in your pride & let him know who's boss. and if you guys were really truly meant to be, then it'll work out.
good luck
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Yes, people do "double up" and it's stupid. The condoms are not lubricated on the inside, just on the outside. I didn't mean to offend you but doctors everywhere will tell you not to use two condoms because of the reason I said. They are made of rubber and when rubber rubs together, it gets hot and it will break. (link)
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okay.
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I was just wondering why you told someone to "double up and wear two condoms just to be safe" because that isn't safe at all. The two condoms would rub together, causing friction, which would be easier for the both of them to break. Why would you give someone such an uneducated answer? (link)
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Excuse me, but it's a very well known fact for people who are scared of pregnancy, to 'double up.' I promise. it's not something that i just made up. you don't have any right to tell me that i gave an "uneducated" answer, when i have never even heard anything about two condoms rubbing together & creating friction? condoms have lubrication, so they wouldn't have very much friction, now would they?
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