Question Posted Saturday February 17 2007, 5:56 pm
me and my ex haven't been together for a few months now. i still like him though. thing is i dont know if he still likes me. my friends say he might but they dont talk to him. thing is he's always callin me and we talk for hours (although a lot of the time the convo's end up talkin about sexual stuff). well just recently we were on the phone and we were talkin bout winter vaca and stuff. he asked if i might wanna hang out wit him and watch a movie or something, but shortly later he added foreplay to that list. yet when he said foreplay he didn't say it happily like he did about the watching a movie. then he was askin me wut he thinks my mom would say if we hung out one day...when normally he doesn't want my parents to know. aside from all the sexual talk he's really nice to me and treats me the way he would when we were together. and if i was sick or hurt he'd feel bad for me. i find it a good thing that he still talks to me because he has kept no contact with his past ex's...yet he talks to me nearly on a daily basis. is it a possibilty that he still cares about me but won't let me know?
karisue answered Saturday February 17 2007, 10:16 pm: i know you don't want to hear this, but i'm going to tell you from experience.
my boyfriend & i had been together for 17 months, we planned engagement & everything. then he broke up with back in january.
we've been broken up for a little over a month.
well at first, we didn't talk at all.
then we started talking & planning things like you & your ex. yet, my ex always mentioned sexual things too.
we eventually planned to have sex & hang out, etc. the worse thing ever.
well the day we were supposed to do this, he found another girl & told me he was going to go out on a date with her. he broke my heart.
well that day i went to a basketball at his school & he was there.
he told me he wanted to talk to me, and for me to meet him outside.
we had sex in the backseat of his car.
i loved it, i'm not going to lie.
it gave me back that feeling we used to have when we had sex.
my hopes were so high.
the next day i called him & basically asked him back out, or i asked him if we could work things out. and you know what he did? he laughed at me.
he told me he hated me, & that he never wanted to talk to me again. that the night before had been a mistake.
to this day, we haven't talked & that was about a week ago. he hurt me.
i don't want your ex to do the same to you.
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