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well i am in love/like with this boy!! but i dont reall know if i am..cause love is so unpridictible..and stuff..and how did you feel when you were in love?? cause i cant stop thinking about him..always on my mind...always there...and just my heart beats when i am around him and stuff!!! and i care and worry about him..i dont know....you tell me...how did you feel?? (link)
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Its hard to know ifs its just puppy love or real love. Try and find out if he likes you too.
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I've been fat my whole life- exept for a 1-week period when I was 11. My weight makes me feel sad, unwanted, unloved, depressed, worthless, and basically a failure as a person. I'm 14 now. I've considered suicide so many times.
I'm actually a shapely person (meaning i'm close to a bottomheavy hourglass- not a pear or apple) so I feel liek I look "fine" most of the time... but ultimately i feel like a complete fatass.
The thing is- I can't stick to a diet and keep the weight off for more than about 3 weeks. I was 160 in september- but I gained it back without even trying.
I've been all the way up to 183.
I take 4 dance classes and I work out on my elliptical trainer/treadmill as often as I can (usually about 2-4 times per week). I really don't even eat that much at all.
I DO NOT eat junk food or candy-type things.
why am I fat? is it because I'm negative and depressed?
ps: i'm pretty (facial features, skin/hair) but i don't feel pretty because i'm fat. (link)
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Your 14 your still growing.
Dont diet.
Another thing dont eat when your stressed It helps you gain weight.
Go out and do something active that you enjoy, dont think of it as exercise think of it as having fun!
Also when your eating meals sit at a table, and dont watch tv or listen to music, dont rush the meal, and when your body is telling you your full stop eating, this way you eat less eating and not storing as much fat as you would if you eat until your stuffed.
Trust me it DOES work just give it a few months weight
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me and my ex haven't been together for a few months now. i still like him though. thing is i dont know if he still likes me. my friends say he might but they dont talk to him. thing is he's always callin me and we talk for hours (although a lot of the time the convo's end up talkin about sexual stuff). well just recently we were on the phone and we were talkin bout winter vaca and stuff. he asked if i might wanna hang out wit him and watch a movie or something, but shortly later he added foreplay to that list. yet when he said foreplay he didn't say it happily like he did about the watching a movie. then he was askin me wut he thinks my mom would say if we hung out one day...when normally he doesn't want my parents to know. aside from all the sexual talk he's really nice to me and treats me the way he would when we were together. and if i was sick or hurt he'd feel bad for me. i find it a good thing that he still talks to me because he has kept no contact with his past ex's...yet he talks to me nearly on a daily basis. is it a possibilty that he still cares about me but won't let me know? (link)
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Just think Why is he Your ex?
their called ex's and they should stay that way
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Okay so yes i'm 14 and people say your to young to be in love. But I know I am. Me and my friend Nathan have liked each other for the longest time...over a year! But I dont live by him anymore. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me and no matter what he loves me...but he has a g.f and he said his name on myspace (I think I found my love) was about me..but i told him i didnt beleive him because he has a g/f and unless he put my name there i wouldnt know or not. Then I saw his away message on aim today saying that he was talking to his LOVE amber...his g.f and i just sat there and in my head said (I knew he didnt mean it) I dont think he ever loved me even tho he says he does...
what should I do "/ (link)
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it sounds like hes stringing you along if he did care for you as much as he says. he would have left his gf and if he reli does love his gf like he says he does too, he wouldnt want to hurt her either. The same thing happened to me when i was your age except i was in his shoes, i had feelings for both but wouldnt leave my bf i didnt mean to string them both along but it has happened now, the best thing they could have done is forget about me, I understand that now, just didnt at the time. He either cant choose who hes wants or he is just playing with your head. dont wait around for the answer cuz if turns out thats hes just playing with you, you'll feel even worse
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I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values. (link)
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I know its after valentines day, but Im 16 and Ive had bfs. I've only ever slept with one guy which was a result of a one night stand i was drunk at the time and regret it!
A guy will respect you more if you wait, only IF hes a decent man! It gets better when you go to work as people will grow up! When you do get a bf and your in a meaningful relationship, you might even miss the single life but who knows. I bet the girls you are talking about at your school regret not waiting. Who cares what other people say, do they matter to you?
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