My name is Louis, and my passion is words! I love song lyrics, poems and books, especially in the fantasy/horror genre. I'm very artistic - I really hope to become a professional writer, that is my dream.
I'm a goth, so if you want to know more about the goth scene, It'll be my pleasure to answer your questions.
I give good advice and I have experienced a lot, so feel free to ask me anything about the goth scene or life in general. I'd especially be delighted to answer any question regarding love and friend relations, style, music and literature or art.
I'm attending a writer's course and have some modelling jobs (By the way, do you like my pic? Ask me anything on style and fashion!), I hang out a lot with my friends (I frequent a lot of interesting, creative people; goths, vamp-goths, a few emos and punks, painters, musicians), I've experienced loosing family members and friends (some of these deaths were suicide) and I have a turbulent love life as well, I'm bisexual so it's not always that easy.
¤ Well, ask me. Anything, I like to help and I'll give you a good and most honest answer ¤
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~13/f~ i know these questions on if he likes me or not are stupid and i probly wouldnt answer but he saved my life but am still confused. but PlEaSe read it and answer. im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells more and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I loved him I know he loved me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? hes just really too nice. Is that what it should be like. we used to be i guess rough to eachother but now hes just nicey nice.But now hes been wearing a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. he was talking to my other friend about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare an old game i no. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my other friend asked truth to me if I loved him then truth to him if he loved me i said no then he said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew we liked eachother anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be...us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss. I like him both ways. I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about. my life is very messed up now and always has been i hate my life. i cut. he called right then and came over and found me bleeding so much and he stopped me from bleeding to death i was just going to lay there and die. then i realized how hed feel. how do you think I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should i do? he cried when i cut i cried when he saved me. ive only seen him cry twice now i dont cry and never could but i did. right when i was born i didnt even cry so they started doing tests on a 1 day old baby. before all this i even whent to the doctor for the 3rd time because i never cried they said i was missing some organ thingy i guess that i never could cry well probly not a organ but maybe. (link)
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From what you write I can make out that you and your friend love each other. It just seems like none of you know in which way, and so it gets messy and confusing.
I have experienced almost the same thing; I once fell in love with an ol friend of mine. We'd been friends since forever, and I never thought of her as anything other than a friend. Then my love for her changed, like turning a switch. It was really confusing and in the beginning I got scared, hell, she was a sister to me. But actually we ended up as lovers. We're not together anymore, but we're still friends. See, it's important not to fuck up the friendship. Better to stay just friends, than start dating and then break up in tears. Make sure you could still be friends after an eventual break-up.
I think the reason it seems so messy, falling in love with your bff is that it's overwhelming and completely unexpected. If you've known him for long, it's feels like falling in love with a sibling, and so your mind tells you it's wrong, but I believe you'll just have to get used to the thought of being in love with your bff, and accept it.And it seems to me that he's also in love with you, at least, he loves you dearly ad is probably just as confused as you are right now. Just give it time, and see if the feelings grow or go back to normal.
And be careful not to rush at him, but give him time. You can try to maybe sometimes hold his hand or give him a lingering hug, then you'll find out if he's interested in being more than friends. If he keeps pulling back, you'll know he isn't interested, or maybe he's just not ready yet.
And for God's sake, don't cut yourself, I've had too many friends doo that! All I can say to comfort is, there's always better times to come, and even though life is sometimes worse than shit, it's still worth it all. Those who haven't experienced pain, will not know happiness when they come across it.
To me, it seems, the kind of romantic love that starts as a friendship, comes about for the right reasons. Then you know the guy doesn't want to abuse you, but that he really cares, that he's for real, and trust is so important. No love without trust.
I really hope I helped you, if there's anything you want better explained or other questions you want to ask, by all means, do so.
I wish you good lck with all my heart, and you, do feel blessed that you've found someone who really loves you. It's rare and precious, and worth the world.
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i wana redo my room. 13/f gothic and my mom hates goths but im gothic. so i cant do gothic well nothing she would think would be but any advice on what colors for walls and everything else.
so how could i make it look like a gothic room but not black walls.
i like purple black white red and pokadots or anything
i hate pink blue green (link)
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Have some advice from a fellow goth: I had my walls done in a shade of dark grey couple of months ago, and it looks really great! Black walls can easily get too massive, and then you'll get sick and tired of them. But dark grey's wonderful and looks great especially if you have red lamps! And don't forget all the posters of your fav goth bands and all your gloomy drawings!
Hope I helped, anything else you want to know, just ask me.
LostSoulLouis
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I have always thought it would be a cool idea to have a movie theater that ran only horror movies. It would play new ones, old ones, all the classics (such as Rocky Horror Picture Show). I am just wondering what other people thought of this. Would anyone out there be interested in going to a horror theme theater (link)
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Oh, I'd LOVE such a theatre! What a great idea! Just picture it, people coming to watch Vampire Movie Marathon or all the Omen-films in a row! And the steff should all be dressed as vampires, frankenstein monsters and wizards, while selling Blood-red Slush Ice!
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what are some good vampire videos (link)
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If you like japaneese anime movies, there are a lot on vampires, like BLOOD: THE LAST VAMPIRE or VAMPIRE HUNTER D (This you can also get in comic book form).
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i like bands like 3 doors down, fall out boy, my chemical romance, weezer, red hot chilli peppers, snow patrol, john mayer, switchfoot, jet, three days grace, green day, oasis, coldplay.. a lot of different styles of rock/alternitave. what other bands to you suggest that you think i would also like? (link)
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I have a list of really great bands that might interest you:
AIDEN(lot like MCR, edgy emo/goth/punk, mid-high tempo songs)
I AM GHOST (Emo/Goth, Stephen King-inspired lyrics, mostly mid-tempo songs) You should watch their music video for "Our Friend Lazarus Sleeps", it's great
AFI (Emo, soft rock, mid-tempo/slow songs)
NIGHTWISH (Goth Metal, female lead vocal, operettic, great guitar)
LACUNA COIL (Goth/Black Metal, female lead vocal)
CRADLE OF FILTH (Black Metal, high speed, a lot of growling, I love their song "Nymphetamine")
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ok, so i've been into rock lately, and i have a lot of rock songs right now, but i was wondering if there's any really really good rock songs that ya'll like. what i'm looking for the most are the songs that aren't all that famous, but are still "good quality". i'm mostly into punk, emo, alternative, and a little of gothic. i'm open to hearing everything. i would really love it if you can give me songs and their artists, if you can. (link)
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Let me recommend some of my favourite emo/goth bands:
MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE (If you want it punk, purchase their 1st cd, the others are more emo)
AIDEN
I AM GHOST (Their best song is Our Friend Lazarus Sleeps)
AFI (Their best songs: Love like Winter and Endlessly she said)
If you like pop-punkt, there's Green Day (Blvd. of Broken Dreams makes me cry) or Fall out Boy
If you like Horror-Goth-Punk, listen to:
The Horrors, this really cool, british band (Gloves and Count in Fives are their best tracks)
If you're looking for something more gothic, check these out:
Cradle of Filth (Best song: Nymphetamine Overdose, which has somewhat of a "Beauty and the Beast"-concept. It's just horrifyingly beautiful)
Within Temptation (Beautiful female vocals, dramatic music)
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I'm looking to find some new bands to listen to and I've been listening to more rock lately.
19/M
I like
Type O Negative
Rammstein
the most
No Nickleback or emo please.
My friend suggested Slipknot, but I'm looking for music that doesn't scream all of the time. Yelling is OK, but screaming is annoying. I'm not looking for rock where the artists try to sound tough with their voices. I prefer hard electric guitars and drums to somebody screaming.
I know most of you are girls, but any rock suggestions are appreciated. Perhaps you can ask your boyfriends if you don't know of any.
-Krupple. (link)
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Here's some advice from a fellow Type O Negative fan! You should try listening to Avenged Sevenfold (A7X)! Or Black Sabbath.
If you don't mind a female lead singer, I think you'll like Lacuna Coil,I totally love them!They're sorta like gothic, like Type 0 Negative.
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I think I'm going gothic and I'm terrified of what's becoming of me. I dress like it now and I listen to the music. I LOVE the music and I HATE the rap. The only thing is I'm scared. I don't want to be one of those suicidal people that everyone is scared of but I can't go back to being a prep because then I wouldn't be myself. What do I do!? (link)
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Being goth doesn't make you suicidal! I'm a goth myself and have been so for years and years, and I tend to think of our people not as suicidal and freaky, but as people who are deeper and more self-expressive than your average person. I also think that, as a rule, goths are very theatrical, and so we maybe seem suicidal to those who isn't in the scene.
I really hope I helped you out. If theres ANYTHING else you desire to know about the goth scene, you should write me back, ma petite!
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ok so i went to a My Chemical Romance concert yesterday and got this hoodie that says "REVENGE" on the front and on the back has an army helmet on top of a rifle then it says My Chemical Romance... you can't really make out that it's a rifle... but still, so for an 8th grader do you think i could wear it to school? we have a new principal and theres been girls wearing spagetti straps and shirts with guns on them and those shirts that say I've go snow man or w/e... (link)
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If you really like the shirt I think you should wear it! Don't care what your teachers and school mates might think, it doesn't matter, as long as you're comfortable with what you wear. It is a way of expressing yourself, so don't take anyone's shit!
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Is it true that My Chemical Romance is a band that promotes/worships Satan? (link)
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The band members of My Chemical Romance don't worship Satan! Gerard Way (the brilliant front man, with whom I'm totally in love)just so happens to have an obsession with Death, why DEATH is the main theme of their newest cd, The Black Parade!
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What are some great French songs, bands, and singer. (obviously ones in french).
I already know of Edith Piaf, just a heads up. (link)
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Try and listen to Malice Mizer! They're this really great band from Japan, but many of their songs are in French!
Their music and themes were characterized by their strong French and classical influences, and later they've incorporated Gothic-Victorian aspects as well. I tell you, they're just great if you're looking for French-inspired songs.
I've once been to see them on stage and I've gotta say their costumes were just fantastic, like real victorian gothic.
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What is yuri and yaoi? (link)
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Yuri and Yaoi are sub-genres of japanese manga/anime.
Yaoi focuses on homosexual relationships between male characters and is generally sexually explicit.Yuri is the same thing, just focusing on female characters.
Really hope this was of any use!
Blessed be
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i want my boobs bigger!!!!! i mean, im 14 years old, and i hardly have boobs. i mean im a 34b. Any exsercises or ANYTHING i can do NATURALLY!?!?! (link)
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I HAVE THE ANSWER!
Your boobs will get bigger if you take birth control pills, that is, because they're stuffed with oestrogen (a female sex hormone)that'll make your female characteristics more visible! Just ask a pharmacist or a doctor, they'll say the same!
Really hope this helped. Just ask me if there's anything else you wanna know...
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