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Okay so yes i'm 14 and people say your to young to be in love. But I know I am. Me and my friend Nathan have liked each other for the longest time...over a year! But I dont live by him anymore. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me and no matter what he loves me...but he has a g.f and he said his name on myspace (I think I found my love) was about me..but i told him i didnt beleive him because he has a g/f and unless he put my name there i wouldnt know or not. Then I saw his away message on aim today saying that he was talking to his LOVE amber...his g.f and i just sat there and in my head said (I knew he didnt mean it) I dont think he ever loved me even tho he says he does...
what should I do "/
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it sounds like hes stringing you along if he did care for you as much as he says. he would have left his gf and if he reli does love his gf like he says he does too, he wouldnt want to hurt her either. The same thing happened to me when i was your age except i was in his shoes, i had feelings for both but wouldnt leave my bf i didnt mean to string them both along but it has happened now, the best thing they could have done is forget about me, I understand that now, just didnt at the time. He either cant choose who hes wants or he is just playing with your head. dont wait around for the answer cuz if turns out thats hes just playing with you, you'll feel even worse
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hey, first of all he has a girlfriend. thats a big redflag. if he really loved you and wanted to be with you he would have broken up with her and he would be with you right now. in my opinion hes leading you on. i would just stay away from him all together. but since you love him, have a talk with him. say what i just said to you. if he still doesnt take action and break up with his girlfriend, then screw him. you need someone whos going to love you for you and appreciate you.
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You need to tell him that if he really loves you in any other way than just friendly that he needs to stop just saying it and show it..by first breaking up with his g/f..its not right for him to be giving you or his g/f false ideas, if he loves you then he doesn't need to tell his g/f that. Tell him that he needs to act on his feelings for you if they are true. You also need to tell him how you feel and that you don't like him playing with your feelings
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I would let him no that he is messing with your emotions.If he truly did love you im sure he would have your name there on myspace. But he didnt.. I think that mayb you should have a talk with him about it. it seems to me like he wants to keep you thinking that he loves you but really he just thinks of you as a hot girl who likes him. So what i would do is talk to him about it.. and tell him to get it straight dont let him lie to you or bring you down.
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