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Hi, My face is really kind of white and when i smile or laugh even lightly it gets pink or red. Will baby oil work on my face to tan in the sun?

Um. Dont use baby oil. try tanning lotions. Baby oil all it will do is burn you like a sun burn sort of thing you no.

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could you get pregnant after taking the sot for elelven months

it can be possible .. but not likly... i dont think you can but you never no .. im on the shot my self and arent preg.

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Hey does anyone have a good apple muffin recipe, I really want to make one but I havn't seemed to find a good one. Thanks

Try this.. i made it the other day and it was good.

INGREDIENTS
2 cups all-purpose flour
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/4 cup white sugar
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 cup milk
1 egg, beaten
1/4 cup butter, melted
1 cup apple - peeled, cored and chopped
DIRECTIONS
Preheat oven to 400 degrees F (200 degrees C). Lightly grease 12 muffin cups or line with paper muffin liners.
Stir together flour, baking powder, sugar, cinnamon and salt. In a separate bowl, stir together milk, egg and butter. Stir egg mixture into flour mixture just until combined. Fold in chopped apples. Spoon batter into prepared muffin cups.
Bake in preheated oven for 20 minutes, or until a toothpick inserted into center of a muffin comes out clean

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Hi i'm a sophomore and my boyfriend is also a sophomore and we've been dating for a year and a half. Only juniors and seniors are allowed to go to prom, but they can take freshman or sophomores as dates. This girl who is my friend and is also my boyfriends friend asked him to go to prom with her, but he didn't know what to say. So he asked me if he should or not. And I dont really want him to go with her because she always flirts with him. And I just don't feel comfortable with him going with her. So I guess my question is... Is it okay to tell him that I don't want him to go or is that too controlling? Because i don't want to be a mean girlfriend who won't let her boyfriend do anything, but I just feel bad if I don't let him go. Thanks!

sit down and talk to him and let him no that you dont feel comfortable with him going out to a prom with another girl. tell him you dont want to controll him or seem mean its just you have a bad feeling about it and dont want anything to happen. And see what he says mayb he will understand were you are comming from.

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Are there any ideas in theories concerning relativity and the universe that at the end of eternity, time goes back to the beginning and starts all over again, following the same timeline of events?
I read about something like that a few years ago and was wondering if it had any base at all.

well.. everyone has a past life that they can not remember .. i no there is something to do with the astroplane.. were it is you but a different you.. and im sure in the future you will be reborn and be you only a different you.. it can be a worse you or better.. im not really sure but if you would like email me and mayb i can find something on it.

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My ex boyfriend is coming back to my neighborhood this summer and all i can think about is whats gonna happen.But also i like someone in my school and my friends say he like me back but whenever it's me and him or getting ready to be just me and him i always get scared and run or stop talking cause i don't wanna get hurt again.so how can i get my ex out of my head and the guts to handle my crush?

give this new guy in your school a chance but before you do explain to him that you have been hurt before and dont want it to happen again. And when you ex comes back just let him no its over between you two i mean you can never get over you first love it is very hard and it will take some time but you just have to work at it and give some other guy a chance. i've done it.. i was hurt terribly by my ex... then he decided to start coming back around and i just told him hey look you hurt me once before and im not dealing with you anymore.. and i gave that next guy a chance and now we are happily living together and it has been 3 years we have been together.. so give him a chance..

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i'm 13 and i have bad anger issues.cause of the sports i do i'm kinda brolic so when someone get on my nerve i end up hitting them to hard or doing something drastic.my parents don't know of my problem and i wouldn't know how to tell them to get professional help so can anyone give my some advice on how i can handle my temper?

well.. i have a similar problem i have a bi polar disorder and i am not on any medications or anything and my temper can get way out of hand most of the times.. what you do is when that person is getting on your nerves walk away and find somewere quiet to sit and just let it all out. Mayb it would also be a good idea to let your parents in on this to because im sure that they love you and would want you to be happy.. and they can help you cope through this like my parents did for me.. so give them a chance and just try and explain it to them.

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Okay Im 15/f and I weight about 192 pounds. Im about 5'6 r 7.I have lots of muscles I guess.
But I want to lose weight and quickly. Ever since I was 11 i was chubby. Its has just gotten worse in my opinion. I want to excercise but I have no motivation and I don't run becuase, Im afraid of what people might think seeing me run. What do I do I really need help and no one I know can help me!!

Well.. actually i am having the same problem you are i would like to loose at least 20lbs. but like you i dont have the motivation to do it. but just last week i started to change that..
here is what you do:
Get up go outside and run at least a mile a day who really cares what people think or say to you at least you are out doing something good and healthy.
throw away all junk food. start eating alot of greens and fruit and drink at least 8 to 12 classes of water a day.
before you go to bed do some situps or something in the sort. i started to do all of this and i have already lost 5lbs. just keep at it and im sure you will succede to the weight limit that you want..
oh and no cheating... dont slip in a mt.dew or a candy bar instead dring a diet soda or water .. and eat a nutrious bar or something.. email and let me no if this works for you okay.

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Okay i am 15/f and tottaly Jealous of my bestfriend. I HATE IT SOO MCUH. Shes not perfectly skinny but, shes close. She has a bigg booty and big boobs! All our life boys liked her more. She is beautiful. I want her to be jealous of me I really do. And when I wanna tell her I feel like shes thinking something like shes better then me because, I say that or i might make her blush i do not know but, I wanna be the one to have someone jealous, What do I do. I really need to know because, Im tired of being the second hand ugly duckling.

Everyone is jealous of someone.. it's just how life is. But mayb you should talk to her and let her no.. if she is your friend she should understand. If i was you i would ignore it. because i have the same problem right now and i just look the other way and forget about and think somewere out there there is someone looking at me the way they look at her.

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about a month ago me and my ex started flirting and I started to really like him too, and then he got a new girlfriend but he still liked me a litle. Today I was with my best friend and he called me and said "...i dont see any connection your bing to obbsessive..." I was so sad. What can i do to make him believe im not obbsessive and just care about him and love him a lot?

thanks again for reading... =/

call him.. and tell him from the first time you guys dated you cared about him and loved him.. and that a person really never gets over true love.. and that you are not obsessed with him. you just care alot about him. And if you doesnt reply and he keeps calling you to be obsessed then just ignore it .. go on with your life.. i no this becauase i have been through the exact thing a long time ago when i was about 14 or 15.. i no it can be hard but you just need to stick it out...

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good god, where do i begin. okay well first off, well call him bob. me and bob were really good friends, then we went off to different schools. a few months ago i use to like him and i'm pretty sure he liked me. but now i miss it, and i want to win him back. but how can i do that? we go to different schools, and when i see him in his school we are with different people. i'll say hi, but thats about it. I really liked him, i'm going to be at his school next year, but this summer i wanna win his heart. there are always girls going after him, but i really like him, and he did like me. i wanna get that back. any help?

I would call him up and tell him to come over or meet somewere and let him no you really need to talk to him. Dont be afraid to tell him how you feel. You need to sit down and let him no how much you feel for him and that you love him. Dont be scared just do it. Mayb when he hears how you feel he might come out of the closet and let you no how he is feeling. Just give it time and a chance.

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Okay so yes i'm 14 and people say your to young to be in love. But I know I am. Me and my friend Nathan have liked each other for the longest time...over a year! But I dont live by him anymore. He tells me that he loves me and that he cares for me and no matter what he loves me...but he has a g.f and he said his name on myspace (I think I found my love) was about me..but i told him i didnt beleive him because he has a g/f and unless he put my name there i wouldnt know or not. Then I saw his away message on aim today saying that he was talking to his LOVE amber...his g.f and i just sat there and in my head said (I knew he didnt mean it) I dont think he ever loved me even tho he says he does...
what should I do "/

I would let him no that he is messing with your emotions.If he truly did love you im sure he would have your name there on myspace. But he didnt.. I think that mayb you should have a talk with him about it. it seems to me like he wants to keep you thinking that he loves you but really he just thinks of you as a hot girl who likes him. So what i would do is talk to him about it.. and tell him to get it straight dont let him lie to you or bring you down.

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I have a disease called Lupus and it feels like no one has it or knows about it...if you know anything about it or anyonyone that has it, can u plz tell me...

xoxoAmber

this is what i no about lupus
The immune system is designed to attack foreign substances in the body. If you have lupus, something goes wrong with your immune system and it attacks healthy cells and tissues. This can damage many parts of the body such as the:

Joints
Skin
Kidneys
Heart
Lungs
Blood vessels
Brain.

There are many kinds of lupus. The most common type, systemic lupus erythematosus, affects many parts of the body. Other types of lupus are:

Discoid lupus erythematosus – causes a skin rash that doesn’t go away
Subacute cutaneous lupus erythematosus – causes skin sores on parts of the body exposed to sun
Drug-induced lupus – can be caused by medications
Neonatal lupus – a rare type of lupus that affects newborns.


Symptoms of lupus vary widely depending on the individual case and the form of lupus present. Most people with lupus do not experience all of these symptoms. The list only serves to alert people to clues that might indicate the presence of lupus in an undiagnosed person.

Achy or swollen joints
Persistent fever over 100 degrees
Prolonged, extreme fatigue
Skin rashes, including a butterfly shaped rash across the cheeks and nose
Pain in the chest on deep breathing
Anemia
Excessive protein in the urine
Sensitivity to sun or ultraviolet light
Hair loss
Abnormal blood clotting problems
Fingers turning white and/or blue in the cold
Seizures
Mouth or nose ulcers lasting longer than two weeks

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I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions!

dogs ggood with kids and dont shed much are :
border terrier
airedale terrier
basenji
mi ki
schnoodle

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Hello,

Recently, I have been searching for a dog. I definitley want to go to a breeder or an animal shelter. My question: I do not know what breed to get. I am gone for about six hours a day, so I need a dog that can be alone for some time. I plan on giving it extensive obedience training along with classes. I have a medium yard and when I get home I plan on exercising and spending time with it. I am leaning towards a medium sized dog. It is also important that it does not have a long coat, does not shed that much, because I really don't think I can spend that much time grooming it. (I am prepared to do it once a week.) Do any dog owners or dog lovers have any suggestions of breeds? Thanks!

I have a short haired german shepared and she is great. When i leave her alone she is fine she just sits around and waits for me to come home.
another breed
PitBull.. the are short haired. love to exersize.. would make a great watch dog and a perfect friend.

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Okay so im getting this kitten and its a boy but i dont know what im gonna need for him as far as supplies so can anyone give me a list of things i will need for him and 2 more things 1st one does anyone know the best brand food for kittens? 2nd thing does anyone know any good names for a baby boy kitten?

Thanx in advance:)

I think i good name for the cat would be :
kit the cat.
but thats just me lol

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my dog, she keeps shaking! im so worrieddd

Dogs often shake and shiver if they have got wet or even if they are cold. However, if your dog is doing this all the time, then it needs to be seen by a qualified veterinarian. All dogs are different, but breeds of dogs are also very different and so what may be very normal in one dog may indicate a medical condition in another.

When you take a dog to the vet he or she can get an overall picture of the dog and look at its eyes, check its heart, ensure its breath is ok (sometimes dogs can have very sweet, sickly smelling breath if they are ill) and in this way the vet can actually diagnose whether the shaking and shivering is just peculiar to that dog or is a cause for concern. Without that kind of real life, detailed assessment, it is wrong to assume that it is a symptom of a serious illness or that it is absolutely not a cause for concern, so have the dog checked out !

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I've always wanted a cat. Unfortunately, my mom has always put her foot down on that, despite the fact that she always had a cat when she was growing up, and I know she loves cats. Still, she has permitted me and my sisters to have small animals, so we've had an array of gerbils, fish, and hamsters. My two gerbils recently died =[ but it's been long enough that it's time to start looking for a new pet. I really want to convince my mom that we should get a cat. I've narrowed it down to the cat that I want, too: a Siamese-I think they are beautiful, and they are short-haired, which I hope will appeal to my neat-freak mother. I have some problems though: she's been saying no to me and my sisters for so long, I'm afraid she won't even listen to me. Also, I'm afraid that even if she does listen to me, she will say no because she will think it's unfair that she said no to my sisters (they are both living away from home now) but she would say yes to me (even though they both have their own homes now, with their own cats). My question is, what are some good points that I can use when I'm trying to win her over? Anything that you can think of that would help a very smart, somewhat neat-freak person be sold on having a kitten, please tell me!! Thank you so much =] and I'm sorry this is so long.

Dear convince my mom,
I think you need to let you mother no you are responsible enough to care for a kitten. To get on her good side about it dont bring the topic up for a little while and help her around the house like cleaning up and cooking with her, when she feels that you have been doing a wounderful job let her no that you are indeed responsible and you would be able to care for a kitten let her no the facts, tell her you will clean up after it, change its litter, feed it .. and care for it. If that doesnt work you could always try my techniec that i used on my mother when i wanted a kitten and she would always tell me no.. what i did was go out and get the kitten find a little box put food and toys in the box then the kitten.. sit the box in front of your door and she will think someone dropped it off and it has no other place to go and she will feel sorry for it especially if she is cat person and will let you keep it.

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