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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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Okay so this year my class and i are all going to washington for an end of the year trip, And my bff asked me to room with her, but i dont really wnat to but i say yes anyways. Now here's where it gets hard for me, my other friends (4 of them) asked me to room with them and i'd rather room with them and have tons of fun...BUT i dont wanna leave my friend alone.. and i would ak her to room with us but they all hate her and there can only b 5 to a room...what should i do? i dont want to be a bad friend but i DO want to have fun :(...i rate 5's!

First you shouldn't have said yes to her if you said yes to the other girls. Second are any of her other friends going? If so let her room with them. It doesn't sound like you want to be with her very much. It's like you leading on a b/f in a relationship. Tell her what happened and tell them. If I was you I would go with her though because I would never leave a friend alone especially when they are not liked.

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I have this friend who always talks about me but is like in all my classes. I don't really like her but my other friends get all mad at me if i get mad at her. Should i just tell her i dont wanna be her friened or should i be her friend?

Tell her, you don't need friends like that. They are no good and will only case drama in your life.

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what is the best position to sleep in while on your period? thanks

What ever makes you feel comfortable. I think it doesn't matter.

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hi.. my girlfriend died a 3 months ago from a car crash. i think about her every minute. she was my absloulte everything. I feel that im still going out with her but i feel a need a girl friend. I need some one to take her place. I need that some one who will give me what im looking for. Please help wat should i do

Aww I’m so sorry Hun. You need to greave and see a shrink so you can work it out.

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i feel the need for a girl friend, just to hear the comfort words i love you or sumthing. is that rong or right im like undicided. is it sick or ok???????

why would the be sick? you just want to feel loved. So go out there and get someone to like you.

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i have this really great friend that always hangs out with me and share secrets with me and everything.but one day she said she saw something with a boy and they wouldn't anyone about it.and for awhile she would always ask me to change seats so she can talk to him it's like they like each other!what am i supposed to do?

be happy for her and try to make them go out?

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I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks

Tell the person you went on the date the truth. Ask your friend why he would start a rumor that would hurt you so much. Maybe he likes you and doesn't want the other guy going out with you.

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Hey! I straighten my hair alot, but my straightner takes at least an hour for me to straighten my hair (and it still does barely anything) does anyone know of a certain brand or type of straightner that will straighten my hair quickly, and make give it that straight glossy look? without frying my hair? tHANKS A BUNCH!

To the best of my knowledge a CHI is the best. I straighten my hair a lot and so do my friends. I don't recommend a Hot tools that what I have and it's not the best thing out there. Ceramic are the second best but if you are already going to spend money get a CHI

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so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

Most def. really likes you if he is willing to wait.

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I want to make a pie for my friends on pi day, because it's funny and dorky and this monday (3/14!) but I've never made a pie before. What's the easiest pie to make?

Buy a frozen pie and stick it in the oven. You still made it :)

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Okay so me and this kid have been going on again off again. We always end up breaking up beacause he obviously cant control his hormones,and i always end up taking him back. Well weve been split up for a while now and he wants to start dateing again. I know what could happen but i still like him. what should i do?

It’s pointless to go back out with him. You will just break up in the end. If you just want to have fun, go for it. If you want something serious don’t waist your time on him. Just find someone better. If you keep taking him back that just proves to him that its ok. Once you break up there is usually never a point to go out again.

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Hey everyone i just have on really short question... Okay for some reason liek i started to liek kinda shake , my hads shake a lot now, and i am strating to feel week and i have no energy, does anyone know why this is happening, like i get enough sleep, but for some reason i like still shake?
Thanx
I rate!!
And please dont be mean

It could be that you are nervous and or scared. Another possibility it that you need to eat. Seeing a doctor never hurts though.

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What Happens when you edit an answer?
Does the person get an alert or anything? If an answer to a question is edited- will the person ever find out?

I have recently edited a few questions, and i was wondering if there was a point or not.

Thanks!!
*-KeLs-*

No they don't receive an alert or e-mail. The only way they will find out is if they go back to their question and look at the answers again, like if someone else answered as well is most likely the reason they might read the others again.

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I am about to get my braces off in april. My question is does it hurt when they take em of and also how long does it take thx I rate every one

It didn't hurt me at all. And it wasn't that long. Feeling your teeth with your tounge afterwards feels weird though...haha

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on live journal does any one know how to make a bullet point? I know how to make italics and bolds and how to underline.. but if you know who to do that then can you tell me? and anything else thats pretty cool? Thanks
and please... if you answer htis with a real answer I will rate you a 5 and please leave your sn if u have one b.c i have to ask somemore questions

when you go to write a new post there is a button that says 'rich text' click it then you should get more buttons and one of them is a pic of bullet points. If you want to know more leave your sn in my feedback i'll IM you i don't feel like leaving my sn here. or just write
TEXT HERE just take the stars out


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she probably used her own thing. She made that. If you set it your journal to S1 you can customoze the look if you put in the right overrides. If you need help with making one just ask. I made one for most of my friends.

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I have this friend, and I love her so much!! (sisterly) And we are best friends, well, she just discovered boys and there is one that she really likes. whenever we're together, it's all she talks about and thinks about. all she wants to do is look at pictures of him and talk about him!! I love her so mucha dn i don't wanna lose her. I've tried talking to her, but she'll get all mad at me. PLEASE HELP!

Just talk let her talk about it. Most people will not stop talking about someone if they like them it's natural. Get use to it because you will have everyone of your friends like that sooner or later including your self.

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How do you know when it's time to be come "not" bff's with someone?

when all you do is fight and can't stand that person, when things aren't fun anymore and you have to always watch what you say.

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Does anyone have or had scoliosis? and had to have surgery?? if so what was it like? thanks!

i have it but nope i didn't have surgery and i'm not about to. You can ask your doctor if there are other things you can try first. Because i know that there are other things that you can do. Not like i did anything..haha.

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Okay there is this REALLY nice guy and I like him a lot.. and he REALLY likes me.. but then there is my ex bf who also likes me.. This new guy chris I havnt gone out with yet.. and I went out with my ex steven 6 times already and it didn't work out.. I am thinking Chris but a lot of my friends r picking Steven.. Please help me..

Chris or Steven??

my choice is chris...if you broke up with someone there is no point on going back out especially after 6 times. something is wrong there other wise it wouldn't be 6.

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im gonna restate this

my best friend broke up with her boyfriend last year in like march. during the summeri started to like him and she didnt seem to have a problem and i was always waiting there with me until he came online. then he asked me if i liked him and i was being stupid and said no. so then my friend asked him if he liked me and he said not anymore cuz she doesnt like me.. so she told me and i felt pretty stupid but got over it. a couple days ago i was talking to him online and flirting with him and i started to really like him again. so on friday i was online with him and i told him i was sorta dissapointed because no one was coming to watch me play basketball the night cuz they all had something to do. i didnt tell him what time it was or anything, i just told him what my teams record was and the name. i think he went online to the website and looked up the schedule. so anyway when i got there i didnt even notice he was there. right before the first half was over i was walking outside with my friend to get a drink and he said hi, but i didnt know it was him. after i came back in he said my name so i looked and i got all nervous, but i said hi back. after the game i was walking out but my dad was pushing me out of the gym so i noticed that he got off the bench as soon as i came in from the court but i never got to talk to him. i dunno if he likes me or not.

if he went through all that trouble and didn't even get to talk to you. Then yes most likely he likes you.

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