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what should i do?! =(
Okay so this year my class and i are all going to washington for an end of the year trip, And my bff asked me to room with her, but i dont really wnat to but i say yes anyways. Now here's where it gets hard for me, my other friends (4 of them) asked me to room with them and i'd rather room with them and have tons of fun...BUT i dont wanna leave my friend alone.. and i would ak her to room with us but they all hate her and there can only b 5 to a room...what should i do? i dont want to be a bad friend but i DO want to have fun :(...i rate 5's!
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hey. Just really think about it. I mean your trip will probably be a blast,so you should spen your time with the people who will make it even funner. But what you could do if you roomed with the four girls is you could spend a little bit more time with you BFF. You could sit with her no the bus...if you go out sit with her..and mabe you could walk with her some times..(for she wont feel left out) Also Do not forget to hang out with your other friends=) ~ Well best of luck~ **HOPE YOU HAVE BUNCHES OF FUN** ~<3~ Michelle PS: if you chose the four girls mabe hook your BFF up with someone to room with.(noone geeky) hehe~
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hmm... thats a tough one! well you only live once. do what your heart desires you to do... just ask your bff if it would be ok if you roomed with your other friends. set someone up to room with your bff! well thats all i have..
~*hope i helped!*~
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Hang out with the friend you promised. Have fun with her and the others too. Don't break a promise.
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You should room with the friend that asked you first. You already made a promise to her, and it's not like you can't hang out with your other friends on the trip. They'll probably be right down the hall from you... Hey, you might even suprise yourself and end up having a good time with the other person...
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It youd be really mean to leave your friend all alone. A should stay in that room and try to make it a really fun night. You'll still be able to see the others during the day. Also ask your teacher if you and your BFF could hang out in there room till you have to sleep. I hope I helped.
Lemonhead60505
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First you shouldn't have said yes to her if you said yes to the other girls. Second are any of her other friends going? If so let her room with them. It doesn't sound like you want to be with her very much. It's like you leading on a b/f in a relationship. Tell her what happened and tell them. If I was you I would go with her though because I would never leave a friend alone especially when they are not liked.
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You room with the lone friend. You tell the others that she is your friend too.There are already 4 of them in a room, none of them will be alone.
Is there some reason why you can't have some fun with them before you are confined to your seperate rooms? Probably not.
If they are good enough friends I think they will understand.
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Well you should have thought about your choices before you said yes to your friend. I'd just say yes to her because she probly wont be able to find some one else to room with because its last minute. Hope i helped. xo-ashley
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Don't leave her alone! If you guys stay together, atleast you'll have eachother....so you'll each have somebody to be with. If you leave her by herself...she'll probably have nobody and that would probably feel much worst to her than how you'd feel if you gave up staying with those other girls you think are fun. Besides, how great can they be if they don't even like your best friend? ...btw, I've been in both your position and your best friend's position many times.
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i think u should room up with your one friend because nobody likes to be alone...
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Well if she really is your BEST friend, then I would think no matter what you were doing, you'd have more fun with her. Maybe you have a different view on what a best friend is, but the way I see it is that I could get kidnapped and sold to a caniballistic circus, and it would be raining, but if my best friend were by my side and experiencing it with me, I would be having a blast. But back to your question. Weigh your options. You could go with those bratty girls and have a cool time, and then you would look into the eyes of your best friend and see how betrayed and hurt she is. You'll feel guilty for a very long time, and she might not forgive you. And if she doesn't, she's completely entitled to that. Or you could go with your best friend, and the other girls will probably call you a loser, but it won't matter to you because you did what you knew was right, and you and you're friend were happy to be with each other. In any case, you know that they're the real losers because they don't have her as a friend. Either way, if you waste your trip thinking about what could have been, you'll most likely have a terrible time (even with your best friend there!).
By the way, it is Washington DC or State?
Good luck, do the right thing.
-Kigeto
PS- If you want to ask me a question. just click on my name and then click where it says 'ask questions'. I'm glad I could help.
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just room with who asked you first
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stick with your friend, if you flake on her youll either be leaving her alone, or forcing her to be a left over to room with all the other loosers that dont have freinds. plus, you already said yes, you commited to her. you can always hang out with your other friends a bit too even if you arent rooming with them.
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