Back in August I missed the registration date to go back to school. (I should be a junior in high school.) I was pretty much just having a bad year and didn't care about going back so I've been out of school all this year. I was wondering if I could go back now or if I would have to wait until next year to go back. I could make up the work that I've missed instead of just waiting until next year and being a whole year behind.
I'm from England so I don't know how High School works. Over here you HAVE to attend school until a certain age and if you don't you get fined. But after that date, you can enrol in a college and get the same qualifications as you would in school at any age, so I dont see why you couldn't just go back. Talk to your local education officer or the principal of the High School. Or alternatively, look in the library for information, they normally have stuff like this.
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this is mostly.. to people.. 18+ just because i believe yall may have more experience with things like this but all opinions are welcome.. okay i've been on birth control for about.. a month and a half.. and well me and my b/f recently started having sex.. with a condom as well.. we had sex tonight and the condom broke he had already ejaculated and was "pulling out".. and realized it was broken.. do u think i could possibly get preg... my BC pills say to use a back up method of birth control for the first 7 days but i've been on it like i said a month and a half.. so give me ur opinions.. should i be worried????
I think its really pretty unlikely, but the only way to know for sure is to get a test. At least that way you can set your mind at ease, and if the worst happens at least you'll be informed. And don't let this mess up your life, or think that this is 'punishment' for having pre-marital intercourse (as has been expressed elsehere). Accidents happen.
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I'm trying to figure out what's wrong with my boyfriend lately. I've been with him almost 6 years and we have 1 child together, our 1 year old son. My boyfriend is usually an all around nice guy who is family oriented and fun to be with. He is a dedicated worker and family man. But lately he seems self-destructive. Keep in mind he works two jobs so he is working 17 hours 5 days a week which he's been doing over a year now. He gets NO sleep, maybe 2 hours a night. That could be what's getting to him. But he is unwilling to make a change. I told him he either needs depression medication or a job change or both. So he's been extremely mean to me lately, turning everything I say upside down and picking fights with me in front of our son. He seems to not be caring about anything and he's so cold and hard inside. I prefer not to say exactly what, but he's been getting into something substance related, he's having like a relapse of our old party days or something, he's got the wrong friends. He actually took something out in front of our child and I had to pull him from his high chair and take him in the other room. He's like, "what, he doesn't know what's going on." and I'm like, "it' doesn't matter it's the act." Also, he smokes cigarettes and I hate cigarettes and we have an agreement not to smoke in the house. But he's been smoking in here anyway after I go to bed. I don't believe me and my child should have to suffer for his bad habit, he should take it outside. He knows my wishes but goes behind my back anyways. He would normally never do this. I'm not a mean girlfriend, just a good mother. So this is totally not normally him and I don't understand what is happening here. All he does is bitch about life and say how he's going to die early and stuff and I'm so sick of it now. He never wants to do anything anymore with us as family. I don't want our son growing up in this environment, but also, I really love and care about my boyfriend and know that something deep inside him is really wrong and I would hate to turn my back on him, but am tempted to kick him the fuck out, he's really pressing my buttons, it's like he's seeing how far I will go with this. Also, our sex life is nothing to complain about, just so you know. Is this something we may be able to get passed or is this an ending he has created and he's going to lose everything that's good in his life? I know it's up to him to make a change, but how much should I take? Once it's over with us, that's it, it's over, that's why I am putting off the end until whatever sets me off, sets me off. Please help.
I have had problems with insomnia in the past (I work as a night porter in a restaurant, and i think i might actually be nocturnal) and 2 hours of sleep is NOT ENOUGH. Experts think that one night of sleep deprivation (less than six hours)can mess up your body clock for upto a week. 2 hours a night makes you edgy and paranoid, and inexplicably self- destructive and melancholy. You cant think straight- heck, you cant think at all. He needs a long period of R and R, and you need to tell him so. Otherwise he'll just get worse, and the situation could get ugly.
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ok.. well today me n my friend jess and lindsey got into trouble in health because me n jess told lindsey to rip this thing off of our teachers picture and she did and now hes blameing it on me and jess.. sayen it was all our faults because lindsey is in special education classes!!! what should i do to make things better. he said hes going to press charges for distruction of personal property. he cant do that to me n jess right, besides lindsey isn't even retarded ..
I think the teacher is just trying to scare you- I don't know how interested the courts would be in a ripped picture in school. That said, maybe you three owe this bloke an apology? After all even if Lindsey did it it was all three of your ideas.
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hi there is this one guy in school and we both like eachother. He asked me out and I wanna say yes but I dont know what people will say because I am white and he is black,i'm not racist or anything I am just afraid of what ppl will say.My friend says it shouldnt matter and i dont think it should either but the other side of me is saying don't date him because of what ppl say
*ana*
I understand where you're coming from, but say you don't go out with him because of what other people say. You like him too, right? Think of what you might miss out on! He might be the most awesome guy ever and you might completely fall for each other. Don't miss out on a good thing just because most people are jerks.
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hey I am so confused. I dumped my boyfriend two previous times and now he thinks we are going back out,and we never were. he says he loves me so i just say it back but i don't mean it,i have no idea what to do. please help me
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*crystal*
Saying he loves you just so you say it back is such a conniving thing. You don't have to boost his ego. Be firm with him and make him see whats what. If you can do it without hurting his feelings then great, but you got to let him know the score.
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my ex boyfriend and i have fights and don't get along very well, and he can be quit of an asshole. But the problem is- were still deeply in love with eachother (sounds weird.. but its really true) We have had problems in the past but we are so in love its like crazy. I lost my virginity to him and we were so close. But we've been broken up for a while and somtimes we fight. I just don't know if i have to move on because he's not 'right' for me?.. [even tho i love him :( ]or i should still talk to him more. Its so hard and i can't get it off my mind ..help
Love's a bitch. Really. Keep talking to him because its the only way to set your mind at ease. Just don't rush into something- you love him but you don't have to do anything stupid. Just be sure before you decide to get back together or ditch him for good cos wrong choices bite you on the ass. (PLus... I dont think anyone is 'righ' for anyone else, its all about what your own choices. Somtimes a little fire in love can make it all the sweeter ;))
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ok i have those white sores in my mouth(cancer sorses or cold sores) How can i get rid of them without medicine and to get the pain to go down
Make a mouth wash from water and salt. Dissolve LOADS of salt into a cup of hot water- so much that it goes really cloudy. Then swill it round your mouth (but don't swallow!). Keep swilling it in your mouth for at least a minute even if it starts to sting like heck. Then spit it out. Do this a couple of times a day and it makes mouth ulcers clear up so much faster.
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i like this guy named connor and i just got asked out by his best friend so now he's not talking to his best friend,zach.wut should i do?i like connor but his friend likes me and i don't like his friend.i dont want them to not be friends and i dont wanna ruin the relationship that we already have. wut can i do?
Be honest to everyone. Explain to Zach you don't feel that way, explain to Connor you like him, and explain to both of them that you don't want them to stop being friends. Whatever happens, this situation aint your fault and you didnt make it, so don't feel like you're reponsible.
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Okay, so I have had a lot of downs with my mom and i even went as far as not living with her for while. Now I am back with her because social services said that they couldn't do anything. I am living a normal life now, only not getting along with my mom, now social services wants me to go into foster care, but I have made several new friends since we just moved and I don't want to hurt my mom, but I know that being with her isn't the best place for me! She has NO JOB, lives with a guy she met off the net, has severe health problems and I have been in a mental institution and am on medicines. I don't deal with stress very well and with Christmas almost here, I know it is going to be stressful, especially if I end up in a foster home, WHAT DO I DO??????
You need a place to get yer head together. Somewhere without pressures from everyone and away from your mum, but not on your own. You said you made some friends where you live- could you explain the situation to them? Maybe you could crash with them for a little while till you figure out a more permenant solution. Either way, don't get so stressed that the spirit of Christmas passes you by- by the looks of it everyone needs a little pep this winter.
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Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.
I will have the same problem in a few months with my girl, so I've been thinking about this a LOT. You have to consider the worst possible scenarios in each case. 1- You end things but cant cope without him. 2- You try to make a long distance relationship but it doesnt work out. Watching a relationship die can be torturous and can spoil everything you've achieved. Think carefully about which one sounds more likely, if you don't think you can make a long distance relationship work, then don't put yourself and your boyfriend through hell without reason. Trust your gut on this one.
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okay. im still a virgin. but i think im ready to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and 2 months. we have done nothing BUT kissing. and im so happy hes patient with me and doesnt push me to do anything i choose not too. but now i am ready BUT i want to go on birth conrol and use a condom just to be on the safe side. the thing is im not on the pill so what would be the best way to ask my parents to put me on the pill without them thinking imma have sex.? cuz they know im still a virgin and think imma stay one till marriage. which i was planning on doing, but i think im ready to lose it..and i've found that special one to lose it to
I too have a 'special someone' and we do a lot of stuff. I'm sure you got lots of answers on how to get the pill without telling your parents, but i have one extra bit of advice. Even if its hard, get it! The pill is (in my opinion) the best way to protect against unwanted pregnancy- condoms can break and i dont think they are safe enough. And trust me, a pregnancy scare changes the way you look at life for the worse. Be safe.
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okay so every time i like a guy, i like him until he starts to pay any sort of attention to me. Like if he starts to act maybe a little interested, I freak out and like stop liking him! I don't know why! Like ever since my last major bf (we were together for 4 months) I've been like afraid or something to like a guy when he likes me back or like have a boyfriend its so weird does anyone have any ideas on how i can like stop whatever it is and why im doing ? ty so much
Try to work round it. The next guy you feel attracted to- explain the situation and that you want to take it slow. Then try to make a good friend and establish an understanding- that way you're less likely to get cold feet. Also... who says you need to be with a guy? Why not enjoy bein single a lil while?
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i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and i felt really low and i slit my wrists with exes on one arm and i really regret doing it now, i mean nobody would ever guess that i would be cutting myself. in gym class some of my friends asked what happened and i told them it was nothing but i think they are going to tell someone. i really don't want to talk to anyone about it because i stopped and it's not a problem anymore. i know now that it wasn't the best way to deal with things but now everytime i need to wear a t-shirt people notice my arm, and theres scars that won't go away. i tried putting coverup and stuff on it [yea i know im a retard lol] but they are really noticeable and i'm scared that if my parents find out they'll get really mad and not trust me anymore. i'm just really confused. what should i do??
The scars may go away in time depending on the position and depth of the wound. In the mean time if you find them embarrasing then you'll have to cover up. Coverup is good but if someone spots you are wearing it you may be in an even more awkward situation. Try jewellery instead.
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I've been going out with this one kid for only like 3 days.. and his bestfriend is going out with my bestfriend (If that makes any sense) so we're always hanging out.. and one time we were layin on my bed and her and her bf were makin out, and so were me and my bf..and he has his hand on my stomach and said.. is it okay if i go down? i kno it means down ym pants.. but like what would he be doing.. dont you think it's a lil early? plez help! x333
3 days? Too early. Wrap him round yer finger first, and make sure he's not a knob.
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me and my boyfriend went to a party and all I remaber is like dancing and all but then the next day I woke up next to my boyfriend and we where both naked and we both didnt remeber what happenend
First thing to do is- try and remember. Ask other people and your boyfriend and don't be afraid to be blunt cos this is important. Then if you think you may have had sex you need to decide what to do depending on whether you used protection or not. But the first issue is finding out what went on- don't wait for your own memory to catch up.
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My friend and I have always had trouble talking to guys and we don't why. We just start getting all shy and our mind's go blank and just don't act like ourselves. We both like a boy and desperatly want to talk to them. If any of y'all have advice we would GREATLY appreciate it!!!
The problem with TRYING to talk to someone is that's when your mind always goes blank. You need a situation where you can make conversation naturally without being on the spot. Try doing something together that you both enjoy- go to a party or invite him out someplace. He might appreciate the gesture, and then you can talk to him without having to be in the spotlight.
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Me and my boyfriend always end up in these steamy makeout sessions with either him on top of me or me on top of him... which ever way we end up we're usually rubbing our bodies together and i think you get the point... what would this be considered as? please tell me... and do you guys consider this bad? we're both virgins and we both believe in abstinence... we never "touched" eachother in inappropriate ways either.. except for maybe on the butt a few times.... but that's it!
Are you really worried that what you're doing is that bad? If you both believe in abstinence (which is a good standpoint) and you don't think you've done anything inappropriate then expressing your feelings this way can only be a good thing. I think this situation would be considered as 'cute' and nothing more. Enjoy having someone to care about and who cares about you without having to worry about all that sex stuff.
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